I have written a couple of posts and every answer I get from you guys is to contact the scorpio I mentioned. I suppose I just wish he would contact me instead. I am a capricorn and very afraid of rejection. I am just afraid this guy wasnt genuine although when I read the posts all the traits seemed to say he was. I think the other problem is that we live so far apart (across water). I just wish I had done things different - wish that when I told him that I loved him on the phone (he said I will talk to you tomorrow face to face a phone isnt the right place) that the next day when he brought the subject up that I had let him talk instead of saying forget it dont want to talk about it. At least then I would of known how he felt. I wish that when he asked me to met him I had said yes or told him that yes I did want to met him but circumstances (which he knew about) would make it difficult. I wish when he phoned that night (using someone elses phone) and I kind of guessed it was him that I had been more ascertive and asked to speak to him. I know no-one can help me just advise what they thing is best. I feel that this is killing me inside, I feel so lonely and frightened. I guess I have to move on and put this behind me and try and get on with my life.
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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 16126 · Topics: 1726
I think you should call him, and tell him exactly how you feel about him. I think he needs more ressurance from you, and he is afraid of being rejected.
If you read the posts carefully, you will see the same traits in most of the Scorpios that have repyled.
Best way to deal with a Scorpio, is to follow your instincts.
If you do get lucky enough to hook-up with one, show them lots of love and affection, allow them some private time to themselves without feeling rejected, never try and make them jeaslous, and if you can't stand alot of intensity, especially in the bedroom, find someone else!!!
PS Capricorn and Scorpio are suppose to make a wonderful combo. Good Luck!
About the feeling that he may not be genuine part..listen to that feeling. While it is probably a good idea to let him know where you stand just in case there has been a miscommunication, one thing about us Scorpios, *especially the men*...is the ability to live in a masquerade so you never know when he is "real" or when he is not real.
Be careful, Capricorn...scorpio men sting.