SL lets Taurus go

After given serious thought I decided to let the Taurus Man go for various reasons that are against who and what I am.

1. To damn mean and moody
2. Lacks affection, passion and romance
3. Sex sucks
4. Want to much control
5. Don't want to compromise
6. Found out he is broke as hell

Took every bit of 2 month to see how far the these apple fall from the tree.

Thanks greatbull

And you know what makes it so bad, last time I saw him I caugth a flat and he paid for it and then had the nerve to ask me for the money back....big mistake, and very pity, after I broke down payments that were due to me, he had nothing more to say. I said take care and good-bye. LOL

Hmmm..oh dear..It seems there isn't a lot of success in relationships at the moment. Must be something in the air.

missmorals, you can say that again. =]. venus must be in retrograde.

Or how about men thinking they can play a playette for a fool. It was not that much money is what blew me for a loop.

doesn't matter who's the player or playette. being a #@! is being a #@!. in my opinion it's pretty ridiculous of anyone you know who's a friend to ask for money back on anything, because that's what friends do: they help each other. if you don't have faith in them that they'll help you when you're in need, then why are you friends in the first place?

Hey SL, I got that last message, I was hoping you'd clear away from him. I feel awful that you had to go through this guys stupid games to decide to leave, sometimes our own patience hurts us the most.

Nows a good time to reflect on what you did like about him, and look for that quality PLUS qualities opposite of what you hated about him. eg. good sex 🙂, optimistic, makes treats you with respect.

It's hard to find purfect - I guess impossible really, but make sure your most important needs are being met, & you're being loved. YOU rock, so FFFFFFFFFFF that BULLsh1t man!

Would you have expected him to ask for the money back at some point or did you think it was ok for him to pay for your car problem?

Scorps & taurus are BOTH bad for asking for $ $ $ back. Admit it.

miss, if he offers to pay for it, then let him. if you have no money on you and he says he'll pay for it, casually remark that you'll pay him back when you get the chance, and if he says "no, no, that's fine" then you've got your answer and if he says "okay" then you have your answer, too.

I don't ask for money back if I gave it to you I did it AS A FRIEND. I loaned the Cap guy a 100.00 and left and never asked for it back, mainly because when he borrowed it he did asked me when do I want it back and I told him we he can give it back.

I guess he can't give it back now. ha ha ha ha

TG it is all good, I have reflected back on what I like and don't like about him before I made the decision, as the way I started the thread. The sex was not good from the start, I was giving him the benefit of the doubt, and 2 times after that I was still not satisfied, so the doubt won LOL

You can't go having sex with a scorpio and it not be good. Big Mistake

I love the conversations we used to have only because I am pensive and I think about a lot of things and can get into just about any type of conversatioin and he could to was a plus. Other than that there was nothing else that was positive.

The moodiness and haveing a constant mean dispostion is what got to me the most, how can anyone be that mean. I am happy go lucky I love to laugh and have fun, I am and can be very sarcastic in a fun way so I need someone that can also be that way.


MM

No I would not expected him to ask for the money back although he did say he needed it back to pay some bills but after he left you know what thought

"SL goes into her mind and say: I am not pay him shit back?"

And I say that because fair exchanged ain't no robbery, I have given him money paid for somethings just because I wanted to. so when I have a problem and my funds are low, can you at least reflex back to what I have done for you from the kindness of my heart.

And some people don't look at it that way but when you are friends you never want what you give back unless it is already established that you are going to get it back.

If am wrong for not giving him a pity dollar back then be that as it may. He will get over it, He is broke he has financial issues that I don't care to be a part of it.

Life goes on from here

Well if I lent some money to a friend to help them out at that precise moment, I would expect it back unless I told them otherwise. I hate owing/being owed.

I guess each to their own. I am really funny about things like that. I am not that generous..rules are rules..When it applies to buying dinner/presents etc you can make exceptions.

You know I just received and IM from this Taurus Guy and he still asking for money...LOL go fucking figure I tell I don't want to cuss him out. KNow I was saving grace not telling him about the sex but I think I'm gonna have to bust his bubble.

I can't believe this ass hole is asking for 12.00 that is so freaking pity I am trying to stay calm but my gosh....

I don't want to see him and I am not going to see him. So he will probably hate me.

I wonder is he made that I cut him or so unknowingly on his part, you know how we do it we sting and you never see it comming...I think that's what I did to him but in a more respectful way. Know he won't go away

scorplady, he might just want to see you again - the money is a lame excuse, but some guys are just that lame. if he's really bothering you, just tell him straight up you never want to see him again.

I was thinking that alos scropio wreck.

Well I think he is mad know, I had to bring him out of his amnesia and break it down to him again his only response was "Please" and "you wonder why" so I said wonder why" we can't be friends" "why I am supposed to give and give" "and get nothing in return" then I said "wonder what" and he has yet to respond I think I just pissed his azz off....good

Any one who asks for money are headed down the wrong raod. Sorry, sounds like you had a bad bull. We can be "thrifty" using the term losely. I'll represent myself only in saying my job is stable, college degree, baby daddy pays child support & carries insurance. I don't ask for money have my own place and pay my own bills, car paid for, etc...
However, I don't have much family so it is sink or swim for us. Pay for my own way- college and all.
Do bulls not have a tendency to find people that want to spend money on them—?

forgive me but this guy sounds like a total loser. No disrespect.

piss him off more! Lol

Uuuugh what a total LOSER! Heck no! Don't give him shit back! lol

However, this reminds me that I let my friends sister borrow money (used to work together) and she hasn't paid me back yet! I would let it go but the cash flow is slow these days, it's $ 300. That was forrrrrrrever ago and I did ask about it a couple of months ago... nothing. Anywho, I know she'll pay me back... eventually. My sag friend never paid me back either, that was only 50bucks though and a couple of other people, but that was smaller amounts so it's not a prob. Wish people were more reliable though 😢 Most of the time I just call it bad budgeting! Damn, doesn't hurt to stop spending stupid and save for a rainy day... Ok I did a little venting lol

Can?t help to add a few comments here. I really don't like when boyfriends ask me for money, especially at the beginning of a relationship and I never let them pay anything besides the normal dinner & movie. Even then, I like to pay for my own movie tickets. This issue of money if very delicate. The best is to leave money out of it for a while. However, if I realize a man is stingy, than I?ll run as fast as I can. Not because I want them to pay for stuff all the time, but because stingy man are terrible to deal with. I like correct and generous people.

couldn't have said it better.

You know it's funny know that I think about it I was dating a Virgo a couple of years ago and I had lost my job and he would go to the grocery store and buy me some food every now and than and make sure I was ok.

Couple of months later we broke up.

I got back on my feet, he lost his job. He called me at work one day and asked me if I can bring him a pack of cigs and some E&J (Erk and Jerk) and I told him I did not have any money on me to do that and he cussed my azz out and he reminded me that he brought me food and shit and I was on the phone LMAO in complete shock because I could not believe that he got mad because I had no money to by him what he needed. I tried to explain it to him but he was not going for it.

To this day I call him every once in a blue moon just to say hi and he has yet to return any of my calls. LOL

I don't get it.

hi SL - sorry to hear about your experience w/ the Taurus guy. on the bright side thankfully you saw through all this bull's sh** sooner rather than later, and that you were able to take action and not waste any more time on someone you don't deem worthy.

well, it's good that you know a selfish bastard when you see one. but see?.. i always knew that you would be able to think it through! lol and i hope that what i told you helped, even in the least bit. but yeah, he's a poor taurus, and that's already proof that he isn't very modivated to work hard for what he wants -- a bad sign, no matter WHAT sign he is.

but WAIT.. don't get me wrong, being poor isn't BAD, but for a person who likes comfort -- that kinda speaks for itself (a doubtful person). and as for the money thing, my boyfriend's taurus friend is cheap, too. maybe it's a taurus thing when they're poor?.. i dunno.. but it pissed my boyfriend off when he asked my boyfriend back for two dollars, or something like that. but i was always giving with my money.. i don't think i've ever asked for money back becuz it ain't a big deal to me. but i hate owing money, so i'd pay every person that i borrowed money from, back! as soon as i possibly could.

so i don't owe anyone anything, and i like to keep it that way.

and i did let my boyfriend borrow $ 1000, which is kinda a lot, i know lol.. but i trust him. and i didn't really even ask for it back becuz it doesn't really matter to me (other than the fact that i kinda need it for college LOL), but if i don't happen to go into debt, i don't think i'll ever ask for it back -- even if he acts like a piece of crap.. lol. (he's being a poop right now.. esp. since he thinks that i'm mad at him about something, but it's a long story (and a different story) so i won't clarify.)

but yeah lol.. he said that he'll pay me back and made that clear becuz he doesn't want to owe me that much. and he also called me effing crazy to let him borrow that much, even though he's in need of it (car accident one the first day that he got his car! so yeah, he didn't have insurance yet). i think he went, "I can't believe you trust me with your money; I don't even trust MYSELF with my money!" then i went something like, "It doesn't really matter. As long as I'm not in desperate need of it, I don't really care, you poor bastard."

then he ended the conversation by calling me crazy again. Awwwww.. what a sweet piece of shiet. ha....

but yeah, he appreciated the help lol.....