So I guess gem/scorp doesn't work after all...
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by MayDay31 on Thursday, October 9, 2014 and has 17 replies.
its done. In truth, it should have been done a long time ago. But I just didn't wanna let go, I wanted to keep trying. But it's like trying to force a square peg in a round hole... It just doesn't fit. We both kept trying to force it.
The problem is we just do not get each other. We can not understand the others feelings and pov.
I made a thread a long time ago about having different love style s. We had opposing Venus and Mercury, mine both taurus his both scorp. I think that's even harder than inconjuct sun signs. Everything about the way we show our love is different. . On top of that, the way we communicate is opposite. Theres zero understanding. Damn man..
Back when I made that thread, a certain scorp poster told me I was settling. That when it was the right person, I won't have to tell them. They will just know. I'll be dammed if that didn't stick in my head. It's true. I hope it's true anyway.
On top of the communication and what not, we have had other problems. . He was talking to girls on social media. Crossing the line, not just chatting. That was a big thing for me. It broke my heart and my trust. I really trusted this one, I thought he was different. But nah, not even. Same shit, different sign.
Our sex drives aren't even the same. The sex is awesome... When we can do it. . He doesn't want to /isn't able to. Not as often as I would like. As I need.
So no communication, no trust, no sex. Not on the same page in any way shape or form. . And still it's hard to walk away. . I still love him like crazy. . It doesn't make any sense.
I just wanna let it out. Feeling so heavy right now
The problem is we just do not get each other. We can not understand the others feelings and pov.
I made a thread a long time ago about having different love style s. We had opposing Venus and Mercury, mine both taurus his both scorp. I think that's even harder than inconjuct sun signs. Everything about the way we show our love is different. . On top of that, the way we communicate is opposite. Theres zero understanding. Damn man..
Back when I made that thread, a certain scorp poster told me I was settling. That when it was the right person, I won't have to tell them. They will just know. I'll be dammed if that didn't stick in my head. It's true. I hope it's true anyway.
On top of the communication and what not, we have had other problems. . He was talking to girls on social media. Crossing the line, not just chatting. That was a big thing for me. It broke my heart and my trust. I really trusted this one, I thought he was different. But nah, not even. Same shit, different sign.
Our sex drives aren't even the same. The sex is awesome... When we can do it. . He doesn't want to /isn't able to. Not as often as I would like. As I need.
So no communication, no trust, no sex. Not on the same page in any way shape or form. . And still it's hard to walk away. . I still love him like crazy. . It doesn't make any sense.
I just wanna let it out. Feeling so heavy right now
Posted by Rabbit
I wouldn't blame it on him being a Scorpio.
Blame it on him being emotionally immature.
+1
Yea I know rabbit. Maybe I'm not mature enough either. I can't figure out how to express my needs until it blows up.
I'm just going through it.
But you guys called it. And you were right
I'm just going through it.
But you guys called it. And you were right
Posted by Impulsv
So sorry u can say u have it ur all. That's what these experiences are all about. Sometimes love doesn't conquer all.
That's the worst part. Because I do love him. I do. It's just like... We don't fit. We don't belong together. . Fucking sucks.
Posted by Rabbit
I wouldn't blame it on him being a Scorpio.
Blame it on him being emotionally immature.
Yep!! +1
Awwh, :::HUGS:::!!
And plus one to rabbit and the mystery Scorp who gave you that advice.
And plus one to rabbit and the mystery Scorp who gave you that advice.
Love does conquer all, if both individuals truly love one another. I think that astrology shows us what a individual's personality is like. They're are couples out there that has been married for 10 years or more, whom astrology says is not compatible(including charts).
In order to understand someone, you have to get to know them completely. Inside and out. It's all about balance in a relationship. What I have is what he needs or she has is what he needs.... Or visa versa. It's not always about what you want it's about what you NEED.
For example, if I'm wild hot headed and always fall asleep in my car when I'm drunk, would I want someone who falls asleep in the car when they get drunk, also? No, I want that person that, is not going to down me, but encourage me to do better. That's going to give me tough love when I NEED it. I don't think most relationships would work out if both individuals involved, had the same bad habits. Having balance in a relationship is like leveling each out out. Kind of like tit for tat.
Any relationship can work. You just have to put in work. Communication is the key. Just because your astrological sign doesn't match, it's doesn't mean that you're not meant for each other. That's up to God and you.
In order to understand someone, you have to get to know them completely. Inside and out. It's all about balance in a relationship. What I have is what he needs or she has is what he needs.... Or visa versa. It's not always about what you want it's about what you NEED.
For example, if I'm wild hot headed and always fall asleep in my car when I'm drunk, would I want someone who falls asleep in the car when they get drunk, also? No, I want that person that, is not going to down me, but encourage me to do better. That's going to give me tough love when I NEED it. I don't think most relationships would work out if both individuals involved, had the same bad habits. Having balance in a relationship is like leveling each out out. Kind of like tit for tat.
Any relationship can work. You just have to put in work. Communication is the key. Just because your astrological sign doesn't match, it's doesn't mean that you're not meant for each other. That's up to God and you.
I have exes that still calls to check up on me from time to time. One of them, tells me that he loves me and he has to know what's going on with me. And no, he doesn't want me, he has a family. I never contact them, they contacts me. Guess, what they said we weren't compatible. I ended all my relationships. It wasn't them. When I left it was "you left me when I needed you the most." ... And some other things... So, blahhhhh.... Lol 
Posted by CluelessCancer
Well that's why you love him, it's those we struggle to understand the most, that hurt us the most.
+1
Posted by Reincarnation
Geminis really do not understand Scorpions - unless they have several Taurus and Cancer placements.
I have Taurus. It's my 2nd highest. Honestly I think I feel it the strongest. It totally clashed with his Scorpio. Or idk, maybe we as ppl just clashed.
And to be fair... He struggles just as much as I do. . Understanding is not only lacking in my part. I really tried. . Compromising as much as I could. Idk
Posted by CluelessCancer
Well that's why you love him, it's those we struggle to understand the most, that hurt us the most.
True. Why am I drawn to what I can't have completely?! It shouldn't be this hard. I told him that several times recently. It's supposed to flow and be easy.
Isn't it?
Start compromising too much things turn un-happy I have seen it in my friends relationships. When I started looking into zodiac signs I looked at my friends who are in relationships. The ones that are happy and have flawless relationships are the ones with the signs that a compatible. The ones with low compatible signs from what I have read and seen it happens the they squabble the relationships are not as smooth as the ones with compatible signs.
My friend she is an Aquarius girl her husband is a Virgo man there is a lot of compromises in that relationship the fights they get into. I know what she is like she used to argue and disagree with me on things her husband is a down to earth guy he lives up to being an Earth sign.
I have an female Aries friend she is right into the personality typing she also knows about zodiac stuff as well. She says we would never make a couple we would end up killing each other I laughed and said yes. I read about Aries and Cancer what I read does compared to what happens in real life.
My co-worker is an Aries man he's married to a Cancer goal he says it is a lot of compromises they have a common goal thou that keeps them together they have to make adjustments she' learned how to deal with the Aries childish nature.
Another example one of my Gemini female friend is married to a Libra man she loves him it was love at first sight.
This zodiac stuff isn't all hocus pokus it has some ring of truth to it when its said two signs are not the best match for each other a person should consider what is said.
My friend she is an Aquarius girl her husband is a Virgo man there is a lot of compromises in that relationship the fights they get into. I know what she is like she used to argue and disagree with me on things her husband is a down to earth guy he lives up to being an Earth sign.
I have an female Aries friend she is right into the personality typing she also knows about zodiac stuff as well. She says we would never make a couple we would end up killing each other I laughed and said yes. I read about Aries and Cancer what I read does compared to what happens in real life.
My co-worker is an Aries man he's married to a Cancer goal he says it is a lot of compromises they have a common goal thou that keeps them together they have to make adjustments she' learned how to deal with the Aries childish nature.
Another example one of my Gemini female friend is married to a Libra man she loves him it was love at first sight.
This zodiac stuff isn't all hocus pokus it has some ring of truth to it when its said two signs are not the best match for each other a person should consider what is said.
Sorry it didn't work out MayDay.
Thanks pr.
Some things just aren't meant to be I guess
Some things just aren't meant to be I guess
Posted by Reincarnation
Geminis really do not understand Scorpions - unless they have several Taurus and Cancer placements.
Yes we do. Very much so that it makes them scuttle right back into their hole in the ground. I have sun/mercury in Gemini but both sit in Scorpio. Also venus/mars in Taurus. Several of the guys I run into have Scorpio placements or are Scorpio suns.
Posted by MayDay31
Thanks pr.
Some things just aren't meant to be I guess
Im sorry it didnt work out either. I feel like Gemini's are really misunderstood. We care a lot but we hide that away and cover it with humor, wit, and glittery wonderment. If its meant to be (even not now) you should revisit it later once emotions have settled. Maybe allow yourself some time and date others. I know it might be too soon but you have options always. Sometimes getting out there and seeing others lets you know what youve been missing. And sometimes it will let you know that YES he is the one for me.
Posted by XinPosted by MayDay31
Thanks pr.
Some things just aren't meant to be I guess
Im sorry it didnt work out either. I feel like Gemini's are really misunderstood. We care a lot but we hide that away and cover it with humor, wit, and glittery wonderment. If its meant to be (even not now) you should revisit it later once emotions have settled. Maybe allow yourself some time and date others. I know it might be too soon but you have options always. Sometimes getting out there and seeing others lets you know what youve been missing. And sometimes it will let you know that YES he is the one for me.click to expand
I feel plenty. Too much. I swear the feeling of heartbreak is the worst feeling g. I don't wanna date not at all. But damn I don't wanna just wallow in it. A distraction is only temporary. Idk man. My heart wants him. I'm not leaving because I'm not in love. My head and more importantly my gut is telling me to go. Idk anymore. I don't fucking know what I want
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