we have not met face to face, but exchange many many emails and he has already looked me up on the internet and is very intereted in me. I might even say that he has strong feelings for me. But when we talked the first time, I let him know that I was not planning to marrying ever again. but i do want to share my life with someone I am in love with. Well, he eventually wants marriage and took my stand on this as a rejection. He was very hurt and angry, and said so in an email. But later that day, he offered another alternative like a few months "try" to see where it goes.
Well, i was already a little spooked with his super strong reaction, and so I said that we neither one is going to change our stance on marriage, no need to meet. I wished him luck in finding someone for himself.
OH and he wants marriage not for love, but because he has missed out of a wedding party, and toast for himself, friends and family get together at the wedding, etc. He has missed out that with his previous marriage. He finds me very attractive (personality wise) yet ot meet me.
Question now is, if he feel so strong attraction towards me, will he get stakerly? or will he back off knowing that he and I don't share this one important thing.. I am a little nervous as I foudn him to be overly emotional.
"Question now is, if he feel so strong attraction towards me, will he get stakerly? or will he back off knowing that he and I don't share this one important thing.. I am a little nervous as I foudn him to be overly emotional."
It would depend on his level of maturity. He will not change, if he wants to get married now, he's most likely to want the same thing ten years from now but if he's mature, he will respect your stand and act accordingly. If he's immature he will try to change/control you. I personally don't think Scorpios get into something to see how it goes, I think Scorpios always move with a purpose, so the initial purpose always remain, no matter what it may look like on the outside. He'll probably try to find other ways to convince you. It's just my opinion though. I could be wrong.
For him to openly state this all before you've even met sounds to me as this is what he wants and that wont change and obviously you have made your decision and you aren't going to change your mind either.....
Rays heart, No not about pursuing futher. we have never met, we just exchanged a lot of emails.
he did send me another email saying he jumped the gun and so now we are planning to meet in a very public place for the first time. but I was wondering that without meeting, if he's so attracted to me (he has said this a few times) if i decided that meeting after all is not a good idea, will he cyber stalk me to find out where i am?
I finds me very attractive and my beliefs in certain things very appealing
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Well, i was already a little spooked with his super strong reaction, and so I said that we neither one is going to change our stance on marriage, no need to meet. I wished him luck in finding someone for himself.
OH and he wants marriage not for love, but because he has missed out of a wedding party, and toast for himself, friends and family get together at the wedding, etc. He has missed out that with his previous marriage. He finds me very attractive (personality wise) yet ot meet me.
Question now is, if he feel so strong attraction towards me, will he get stakerly? or will he back off knowing that he and I don't share this one important thing.. I am a little nervous as I foudn him to be overly emotional.