So I told him that he was doing exactly what...

So I had been seeing this Scorpio guy for about a month and at the beginning I told him that I didnt want to be his f-buddy, to which he reply that it would never be anything like that, but then it started to turn into exactly that. Reason why I didnt want to be his f-buddy was because I actually like him and have some type of feelings for him. So I texted him and told him that it was turning into what I didnt want it to be and that I should've never let it show that I liked him. He never replied...will he ever? Why not tell me from the beginning that an f-buddy is all he wanted from me?

Sorry to hear this😢 I had a Scorpio like this and he's still like this 8 years later.

He will be back but would want to f around again, next time just don't sleep with him until you see his actions change.
I think from the get go he probably didn't plan on just having sex, maybe he wasn't ready for a serious relationship

Posted by estellajones
Sorry to hear this😢 I had a Scorpio like this and he's still like this 8 years later.

He will be back but would want to f around again, next time just don't sleep with him until you see his actions change.
I think from the get go he probably didn't plan on just having sex, maybe he wasn't ready for a serious relationship

I just think that he could've just said what he wanted, specially since I told him that I don't sleep around and I didn't want to be that to him. It's only been over a week and I hope he comes back, but I'm also strong enough to let him go if that's what he wants.

It happened exactly like you did'nt want to because you chose to sleep with him. You gave him mix signals thats why he ignored you because your actions is not matching your words. You chose to sleep with the guy without commitment. The only thing he is confused about is that you are showing you don't know what you want. He doesn't take you serious therefore he has lost respect for you because you lost respect for yourself. With the next guy try meaning exactly what you say and don't sleep with them!

Posted by Octoberbaby91
It happened exactly like you did'nt want to because you chose to sleep with him. You gave him mix signals thats why he ignored you because your actions is not matching your words. You chose to sleep with the guy without commitment. The only thing he is confused about is that you are showing you don't know what you want. He doesn't take you serious therefore he has lost respect for you because you lost respect for yourself. With the next guy try meaning exactly what you say and don't sleep with them!

He said it wouldn't be like that, and it wasn't for a while so I believed him. It is when it started to turn that way that I stopped it.

Posted by MizzElle
So I had been seeing this Scorpio guy for about a month and at the beginning I told him that I didnt want to be his f-buddy, to which he reply that it would never be anything like that, but then it started to turn into exactly that. Reason why I didnt want to be his f-buddy was because I actually like him and have some type of feelings for him. So I texted him and told him that it was turning into what I didnt want it to be and that I should've never let it show that I liked him. He never replied...will he ever? Why not tell me from the beginning that an f-buddy is all he wanted from me?

My best friend is a scorp male, he publicly acknowledges he used to be a total man-wh**re back when we were a bit younger.

So it's safe for me to tell you this infor (or he might otherwise kill me in my sleep... lol)

So let me tell you this straight and like it is. Scorp men (especially young ones) do play games and foolin around with women

Like they told you before, he lost respect for you because you didn't act the way you said you were going to.

To him, you probably wanted this to happen all along anyway

Posted by MizzElle

Why not tell me from the beginning that an f-buddy is all he wanted from me?

Why not stop spreading your legs until you know the guy?

I hope this coming up retrograde is better this time.

Geez is anyone still happily together without drama. Just curious..Nope this is life and some are going through worse than others in this retrograde. It's still drama and emotions going on at least for you, and not the guy..It will never be the same.

And I'm still single and idc.. And this retrograde is working magic for old doors to open new doors in a few weeks. It might be a good thing. You're expressing what needs to be dealt with. You will soon make the decision of do you want an fwb anyways?. This is why I can't do fwb.. I may catch feelings. I do have CR. Everyone is different though..

Big difference with love vs sex.. sex is empty and connected to it's always a fwb situation..that's what you wanted but then you saw something in him. That made you change your mind.

So now lets move on and go find someone who wants to love you back and not treat you just like an inanimate object. You're human and some people can for years pull this off. Good luck and next time you do fwb make sure he's ugly or something never works if they're sexy. And I thought Scorpions are possessive and jealous. Shit I'm polar opposite I can't share.

So like he has his shit together, has a job, a car, his own place, treats people with respect, has a positive attitude in life I hope you saw that in your fwb to catch feelings.

. If not look after this retrograde for something that suits you more in your wants vs needs atm.

let him go 😢 He will come back at one point, be strong next time.