So Scorpio

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Missymadaries on Monday, October 1, 2012 and has 16 replies.
Had a Scorpio friend ask me via Facebook messages whether I fancied going out for a drink with him yesterday. Thought he was working his way up to some thing.. But I'm really not feeling the whole dating thing at the moment. Taking some time out for myself after the disappointment of another Scorpio. Was spending some time thinking how I was going to say nicely I'm not interested thanks. Then this morning another Facebook message. He apologised. And said the message was meant for somebody else. Now you can do lots of things accidentally on Facebook. But you have to go to the profile page to message. Scorpio trying to take back control cos I hadn't replied. Right there is the problem why relationships with scorpios are so difficult. Certainly gave me some insight into my past scorps behaviour. I haven't bothered replying to him now. Doing so would be acknowledging I think his last message was truthful, when I know it's not. Must be terribly frustrating to be a scorp me thinks, and your behaviour really isn't as confusing as I thought. It's all about keeping control and having the power
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I have experienced that with a libra actually...many years ago. Oh I'm fine with how things are with the scorp I had the relationship with. It's a complicated situation but he knows what he needs to do, and he knows I won't accept less. I was honest and direct with him. The way I see it if he doesn't come through then he's not that bothered about me. I will hold out for somebody that is smile)))
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I never am on the chat feature. Plus as I said I knew he was building up to something. He freaked when I didn't reply!!
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Isn't saving face...trying to keep control?? Keeping emotions in check is controlling them? Just a thought
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I bet you laughed your ass off at that! I would of lol
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He wanted to take back control cos it was evident I wasn't interested. There are many levels of control. Seems you have misunderstood what I'm saying. Do you have an issue with people that mention the words "scorp, control and power" in the same sentence? Was just my opinion smile I personally don't feel the need to try and save face. I don't have a problem with rejection. Yes Sag89...I did chuckle.
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I'm not perturbed in the slightest. It made me chuckle. I have never been controlled by a Scorpio. The one I was seeing I walked away from cos it was evident he wasn't in a position to give me what I want. Despite going on about how much he wanted me to be his girlfriend. He was forever telling me "I'm not very good at showing my emotions" I didn't have a problem with that. I did have a problem with his words not matching his actions. When I told him I was done, cos i wasnt going to sit around and wait for him to do what he knew he had to do for us to have a relationship. He didn't even reply. Which ok that's fine, if that's what you want to do. But it was about self control. I was thinking today....all the scorp men I know friends and otherwise. I have never seen them really drunk. They claim to be so, but always come across as being completely in control. My Scorpio best mate us also always in control. I tell my closest friends I love them often. She's the only one who never says it back. Not cos she doesn't. It's just her way with her emotions
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I did get my feelings hurt a little by the last Scorpio. But as I think when these situations arise in relationships. I like you, but I like me more. Then I'm left with an overwhelming sense of relief. The one that asked me out I would never of considered. He makes my skin crawl...he's just plain creepy. I realise there are other elements involved. But I have yet to meet a Scorpio that hasn't come across as wanting to be completely in control of themselves. Even if there's a complete butter storm going on inside. You'd never know
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Haha... Was just an insight/opinion I wanted to share. Sharing doesnt necessarily im perturbed. How that even compares with a conversation you had with a Scorpio bf I don't know??
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Every time I've been around this scorp at party's and such..I've not wanted to be in his company. He's overwhelming intense, and the way he looks at me totally makes my skin crawl. My scorp looked at me and I wanted to throw my clothes off. This one looked at me and I wanted to but several more layers on and a suit of armour *shudder*
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I've known him 29 years since I was at school. Bit harsh to remove him cos he creeps me out. I like him at a comfortable distance. I have my mercury in Pisces so I'm quite perceptive and always trust my intuition. If you choose to believe I'm full of crap. Well I'm not going to bend myself out of shape to prove to you it isn't the case. I don't know you, you dont know me smile My moon is in Taurus
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I beg to differ. But thanks for sharing your opinion ellesque
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nice
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Posted by ellessque
that would be awesome.
no more forcing stupid practically nonexistent social skills.
i could enter a room and it would go completely silent while I make my way to where I need to go.
no small talk, no fake "how are you"'s.
just wide eyes and gasps.
*dreamy* Tongue



OMG, I literally lol'ed because my ex Scorp would LOVE it if the world was like this!
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Posted by IntriguedScorp
Uh...you can look at that as control OR saving face. People really need to stop seeing everything Scorpio does as either control or manipulation. Ask most Scorps and they'd probably tell you that what you see as both of these is actually poor people skills and ego.
Carry on.


I love it when scorpios get defensive. You guys are control freaks and the biggest manipulators on earth and you can neverr admit when youre wrong. You guys need to get over yourselves, seriously.
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Posted by Missymadaries
He wanted to take back control cos it was evident I wasn't interested. There are many levels of control. Seems you have misunderstood what I'm saying. Do you have an issue with people that mention the words "scorp, control and power" in the same sentence? Was just my opinion smile I personally don't feel the need to try and save face. I don't have a problem with rejection. Yes Sag89...I did chuckle.


You know whats funny? Ive had a scorp do this to me on multiple ocassions via texts. So pathetic.
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