Stalking ???
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by P-Angel on Sunday, December 17, 2006 and has 5 replies.
If a person is into you, very attracted to you . . won't they gravitate towards you with the intentions of getting your attention?
If you want this person to pursue you, it makes you feel giddy inside, desirable and beautiful . . if you don't want this person to pursue you, it's stalking.
So, if it's just YOUR perception according to your attraction to the other person, does that change the intention of the person who likes you into being a stalker?
If you want this person to pursue you, it makes you feel giddy inside, desirable and beautiful . . if you don't want this person to pursue you, it's stalking.
So, if it's just YOUR perception according to your attraction to the other person, does that change the intention of the person who likes you into being a stalker?
That's not exactly what I meant.
Example: One friend of mine was liking this man, he liked her, too . . he would find her at a party and move towards her . . she was fine with it, she liked him too and wanted his attention. Then, she decided that she didn't like him . . but, still, he would move towards her and want to be near her . . suddenly, this is an issue with the girl . . now, he's stalking her.
So, my point was . . if the man's INTENTIONS haven't changed, but, the woman's desires have changed . . so, to be considered a stalker, a man really doesn't have to do anything wrong.
Perceptions/intentions . . not the same. I guess I was just appalled that my friend would make such an accusation towards a man who did her no harm in any way . . so, I wanted to get a feel from others to see how they viewed this.
Example: One friend of mine was liking this man, he liked her, too . . he would find her at a party and move towards her . . she was fine with it, she liked him too and wanted his attention. Then, she decided that she didn't like him . . but, still, he would move towards her and want to be near her . . suddenly, this is an issue with the girl . . now, he's stalking her.
So, my point was . . if the man's INTENTIONS haven't changed, but, the woman's desires have changed . . so, to be considered a stalker, a man really doesn't have to do anything wrong.
Perceptions/intentions . . not the same. I guess I was just appalled that my friend would make such an accusation towards a man who did her no harm in any way . . so, I wanted to get a feel from others to see how they viewed this.
i think i like the attention but I dont need the stalking. I mean you need to keep your life and definitely dont revolve around mind.But my question is dont we want our men to pay attention to us? I think we sometimes get confused as to what is good for us. I have a friend that is constantly dating men that dog her...but when she get one that treats her like a queen he turns her off....thats weird!
I mean, if your gonna wiggle your butt a tad extra when he's watching, and throw little sexy smiles at him . . .
. . how can you then turn around and say, "He's violating me"?
She's such a good friend, I kept my crass mouth shut . . but, I was steaming. Wanted to tear her to shreds for saying such things . . the man is really cool and wouldn't hurt anybody.
But, it seems that others view it the same way as her, so, maybe it's just me. I'll have to re-evaluate my opinion . . perhaps, my angle of viewing appropriate behaviour is tilted.
Thanks for the responses.
. . how can you then turn around and say, "He's violating me"?
She's such a good friend, I kept my crass mouth shut . . but, I was steaming. Wanted to tear her to shreds for saying such things . . the man is really cool and wouldn't hurt anybody.
But, it seems that others view it the same way as her, so, maybe it's just me. I'll have to re-evaluate my opinion . . perhaps, my angle of viewing appropriate behaviour is tilted.
Thanks for the responses.
okay call me dumb if you want...what is stalker tendencies?
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