stressed scorpio bf oh no.
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by aliasidealist on Thursday, April 24, 2014 and has 13 replies.
Hi. I've been on the board for a while just lurking and reading about scorpios as my boyfriend of a year and a half is one.
recently, we've both been rather stressed out from work and it's sort of avalanched over to our relationship. we've been bickering more, he's been needing more space, I've been a lot crankier etcetc.
I was wondering as seen from his chart below, is there anyway I could be more sensitive to his and my needs to help us smoothen out the bumps we're experiencing in this period of time? beyond what I already understand of him.
from what I've already gathered so far, this is how he relaxes: he requires more of his cave time, not really having much of a schedule in his day to day outside of his already stressful workload. he doesn't seem to enjoy surprises, or material things. Am I wrong to assume he prefers non heavy intellectual discussions which don't really result in much expression of passion? I feel like we become more like "friends" now and less like "lovers" in a way. I don't mind it, I only wish to understand it better.
I would appreciate valuable insights~ it's always refreshing.
His chart: (mine's on my page, I'm a leo with heavy earth influences)
Sun Scorpio 22.03
Moon Capricorn 17.47
Mercury Scorpio 12.07
Venus Libra 18.31
Mars Aries 1.42
Jupiter Gemini 2.15 R
Saturn Capricorn 0.11
Uranus Sagittarius 28.59
Neptune Capricorn 8.17
Pluto Scorpio 12.55
Lilith Virgo 20.28
Asc node Pisces 11.09
recently, we've both been rather stressed out from work and it's sort of avalanched over to our relationship. we've been bickering more, he's been needing more space, I've been a lot crankier etcetc.
I was wondering as seen from his chart below, is there anyway I could be more sensitive to his and my needs to help us smoothen out the bumps we're experiencing in this period of time? beyond what I already understand of him.
from what I've already gathered so far, this is how he relaxes: he requires more of his cave time, not really having much of a schedule in his day to day outside of his already stressful workload. he doesn't seem to enjoy surprises, or material things. Am I wrong to assume he prefers non heavy intellectual discussions which don't really result in much expression of passion? I feel like we become more like "friends" now and less like "lovers" in a way. I don't mind it, I only wish to understand it better.
I would appreciate valuable insights~ it's always refreshing.
His chart: (mine's on my page, I'm a leo with heavy earth influences)
Sun Scorpio 22.03
Moon Capricorn 17.47
Mercury Scorpio 12.07
Venus Libra 18.31
Mars Aries 1.42
Jupiter Gemini 2.15 R
Saturn Capricorn 0.11
Uranus Sagittarius 28.59
Neptune Capricorn 8.17
Pluto Scorpio 12.55
Lilith Virgo 20.28
Asc node Pisces 11.09
lol I was wondering what that thread was all about.
hello rabbit.
hello rabbit.
Patience. Everything will come ton surface.
Posted by Rabbit
Does he have a small penis?
I was going to ask that lol.
This may be totally obvious, but have you asked him what he'd like to do? I mean, I deal with stress by having a drink with my girlfriend followed by sex. Everyone's different. Let him make the night for you two and you just go along with it and have fun.
Posted by RabbitPosted by DamnataPosted by Rabbit
Does he have a small penis?
I was going to ask that lol.
Slow Aries moon...click to expand
Nope, site's slow. It sure doesn't have an Aries Moon
Posted by aliasidealist
Hi. I've been on the board for a while just lurking and reading about scorpios as my boyfriend of a year and a half is one.
recently, we've both been rather stressed out from work and it's sort of avalanched over to our relationship. we've been bickering more, he's been needing more space, I've been a lot crankier etcetc.
I was wondering as seen from his chart below, is there anyway I could be more sensitive to his and my needs to help us smoothen out the bumps we're experiencing in this period of time? beyond what I already understand of him.
from what I've already gathered so far, this is how he relaxes: he requires more of his cave time, not really having much of a schedule in his day to day outside of his already stressful workload. he doesn't seem to enjoy surprises, or material things. Am I wrong to assume he prefers non heavy intellectual discussions which don't really result in much expression of passion? I feel like we become more like "friends" now and less like "lovers" in a way. I don't mind it, I only wish to understand it better.
I would appreciate valuable insights~ it's always refreshing
His chart: (mine's on my page, I'm a leo with heavy earth influences)
Sun Scorpio 22.03
Moon Capricorn 17.47
Mercury Scorpio 12.07
Venus Libra 18.31
Mars Aries 1.42
Jupiter Gemini 2.15 R
Saturn Capricorn 0.11
Uranus Sagittarius 28.59
Neptune Capricorn 8.17
Pluto Scorpio 12.55
Lilith Virgo 20.28
Asc node Pisces 11.09
. If this is really his chart this guy is really mess up his moon is at odd with his mars and Venus. He feel one way moon and acts another way mars. Plus the women he wants is very conservative controlled emotions(moon) but the one he would like to marry is very flashy big romantic that caters to only him (Venus in libra)
I cannot help but laugh at "stressed scorpio bf oh no"
He's human. Oh nooo we cannot have that.
He's human. Oh nooo we cannot have that.
Posted by Rabbit
If I had to guess...that cap moon of his limits his emotions. The Scorpio mercury may affect his ability to express the emotions he does have. And that libra Venus makes it difficult to actually decide what feelings he has...
that was what i suspected. what a confusing bugger, though he always says his intentions are as clear as day.
i myself have a cap moon though, and I'd agree on that bit. could you explain what you mean with regards to the libra venus indecision?
Posted by duchessedenemours
????_??????_
My Korean friend has the same chart! LOL
I haven't talked to him in a while, but he was very driven and took on a lot of responsibility. I think he's a little naive about girls and doesn't really know how to approach them in a non-friendly way, but he's really good with work, but it made him get frazzled easily because he cares a lot about his success.
I think space is good for in general, and Cap moon men are not the most outwardly expressive of emotional or relationship type things. Maybe find something that could help him with his work, something practical, and then give him space. He might be able to focus on the relationship more once work clears out, and if you give him more time without much interruption it can help him get things under control.
wow, what are the chances? is he born in 1988 as well?
I agree with much of the description, he is definitely borderline workaholic with doses of social activities in between, but very serious about work. Hm, do you mean he's friendly with everyone and treats people equally?
I'm cap moon myself, so I understand the bit about getting queasy with too much emotional display. Your suggestion on something practical seems good, I will probably go looking about in my free time.
More time it is.
Posted by CreativeCap
Patience. Everything will come ton surface.
I do hope I am patient enough.
Posted by Impulsv
I'd enjoy as soon as I walk in to be greated with a hug n followed through with a nice massage with a"an I know how stressful this is, love"
I've been doing that some. thanks.
Posted by Shruikan
This may be totally obvious, but have you asked him what he'd like to do? I mean, I deal with stress by having a drink with my girlfriend followed by sex. Everyone's different. Let him make the night for you two and you just go along with it and have fun.
We practice this a lot actually, when I feel that he's stressed out I have him tell me what he'd like to do. More than often it's a simple movie night out with small doses of romance, and tons of space for him to crawl the web/quiet/unwind.
This is a thoughtful reminder. I should probably do just that then.
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