Surrounded by Water
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by BlueAqua on Friday, June 30, 2006 and has 11 replies.
I recently met Mr.Scorpio's kids, His 14 yr old daughter-Scorpio, and 10 yr old son-Pisces. Sometimes Im overwhelmed with it all. His son and I get along great but, his daughter is going threw the rebellion stage, doesnt like me, wont talk to me, barely speaks to me. My Mr.Scorpio says give it some time but, I dont think it will be so easy. Is this about me personally with her or her being a teenager or both?
I think her behavior is due to both her being a teenager as well as you personally. Trust me on this I speak from experience and on top of that I speak as a Scorpio. If you are dating her father she feels that you are taking her father away from her. Now I doubt that is the truth but that is how she feels. I felt that way when my mother began to date my step father. If I may I would like to suggest that you keep speaking to her. When you enter Mr. Scorpio's home speak to everyone including her. Also sit her down and reassure her that you aren't trying to take her father's time away from her. Allow her to get to know you. I had to do that with my step father and now we get along just fine. Her rebellion is also due to her being a teenager. Believe me right now this is the tip of the iceberg. Just wait til she is about 16 then the rebellion will reach its peak. I know it is difficult for you now but it will get better. I hope my words were of some help to you.
"Good luck to you Blue"
lol Thank you DB, I need it
lol Thank you DB, I need it
Ms T, U have been of Great help. When I speak to her she ignores me but, I will continue to speak to her in my usual cheerful manner.
I can understand her feeling as if Im here to take her dad away from her, she has been threw so much, her mean mom sent her away to live with her dad. I think this too has alot to do with her anger,she doesnt understand why her mom would do this.
There's so much I want to share with her,sometimes I just want to give her a hug tell her everything will be okay. I want to take her shopping,play sports, ride on a roller coaster ride with her..all the things her mom never did with her daughter....be there for her. All in time...Thank you Ms T
. When I speak to her she ignores me but, I will continue to speak to her in my usual cheerful manner. I can understand her feeling as if Im here to take her dad away from her, she has been threw so much, her mean mom sent her away to live with her dad. I think this too has alot to do with her anger,she doesnt understand why her mom would do this.
There's so much I want to share with her,sometimes I just want to give her a hug tell her everything will be okay. I want to take her shopping,play sports, ride on a roller coaster ride with her..all the things her mom never did with her daughter....be there for her. All in time...Thank you Ms T
Don't worry, it's just the scorpio passing through its teen years. When I was 13-14, I hated everyone and barely had any conversations. Just ignore her for now, she'll come around.
Scorpio
October 21 - November 20
Water - Fixed - Mars
Positive Traits: Passionate, magnetic, forceful, penetrating, determined, courageous.
Negative Traits: Cynical, resentful, sarcastic, jealous, vindictive, suspicious, vengeful, destructive. Scorpios are not easy to get to know. Very secretive, vindictive and jealous people. Great stubbornness and strong passions. Scorpio is the lone wolf. Keeps emotions well hidden inside, where they have tremendous strength and power. Have power to heal others. . Need to learn to be cooperative and outgoing. Very spiritual. Looks for the meaning of life through sex. Usually the unwanted child of the Zodiac. Always looking for a mother - their mother was never mother enough. Always feels unwanted , mother did not give love easily. Never forgets when things are done to them. They become more secretive when parents put them down. Problems expressing themselves because they have so much anger inside. Very hard to get close to, but once you do, you always have a friend. If you hurt them you'll never be friends again. Change does not come easily. .Wants to do everything perfectly. Possessive and jealous. Very psychic. The Scorpio female is intensively feminine, which draws men to them. It also creates a problem with female friends.
When I was in the early teens my mother married a "good ole' boy". Good ole asshole if you asked me. He tuned me out of the family. I did not exist. I was a teenage girl and an abomination in his eyes. Needless to say I left home at 17 and moved to Vegas. I broke my mom's heart, but she broke mine.
My stepfather remarried, also. This lady is my hero. She treated me like an adult. She included me and my opinions like they were the only ones that mattered. She laughed and joked with me with adult humor. She did not discipline me or punish me. She let my dad do that. But she talked to me when I messed up. She made it very clear that we are all human and no one is perfect. We all screw up, kid, she would say. You get use to it. I adore her!
I can't give you the advice that's going to change your relationship with scorpteen. Just try to remember to include her in everything. Her opinions matter more than anyone elses in her eyes. Always speak to her as if she is in your age group. In her head she is. Let her know you are not coming into her family to be the dominate female. She will always have that role. You are there to help her and her brother make her father happy.
October 21 - November 20
Water - Fixed - Mars
Positive Traits: Passionate, magnetic, forceful, penetrating, determined, courageous.
Negative Traits: Cynical, resentful, sarcastic, jealous, vindictive, suspicious, vengeful, destructive. Scorpios are not easy to get to know. Very secretive, vindictive and jealous people. Great stubbornness and strong passions. Scorpio is the lone wolf. Keeps emotions well hidden inside, where they have tremendous strength and power. Have power to heal others. . Need to learn to be cooperative and outgoing. Very spiritual. Looks for the meaning of life through sex. Usually the unwanted child of the Zodiac. Always looking for a mother - their mother was never mother enough. Always feels unwanted , mother did not give love easily. Never forgets when things are done to them. They become more secretive when parents put them down. Problems expressing themselves because they have so much anger inside. Very hard to get close to, but once you do, you always have a friend. If you hurt them you'll never be friends again. Change does not come easily. .Wants to do everything perfectly. Possessive and jealous. Very psychic. The Scorpio female is intensively feminine, which draws men to them. It also creates a problem with female friends.
When I was in the early teens my mother married a "good ole' boy". Good ole asshole if you asked me. He tuned me out of the family. I did not exist. I was a teenage girl and an abomination in his eyes. Needless to say I left home at 17 and moved to Vegas. I broke my mom's heart, but she broke mine.
My stepfather remarried, also. This lady is my hero. She treated me like an adult. She included me and my opinions like they were the only ones that mattered. She laughed and joked with me with adult humor. She did not discipline me or punish me. She let my dad do that. But she talked to me when I messed up. She made it very clear that we are all human and no one is perfect. We all screw up, kid, she would say. You get use to it. I adore her!
I can't give you the advice that's going to change your relationship with scorpteen. Just try to remember to include her in everything. Her opinions matter more than anyone elses in her eyes. Always speak to her as if she is in your age group. In her head she is. Let her know you are not coming into her family to be the dominate female. She will always have that role. You are there to help her and her brother make her father happy.
Also very important, NEVER talk down to her. Talk with her. Talk to her. Never down. She will resent you forever for it.
I hope some of this helps. I really do because I was there. I was the hateful, resentful teen.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!
I hope some of this helps. I really do because I was there. I was the hateful, resentful teen.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!
When I was 13-14, I hated everyone and barely had any conversations. Just ignore her for now, she'll come around...
LMAO!..How true..its scary..I hated everything, I really did..life was unfair..these morons around me didn't understand me..everyone sucked!
LMAO!..How true..its scary..I hated everything, I really did..life was unfair..these morons around me didn't understand me..everyone sucked!
I agree. I hated everybody. No one understood me, therefore they were not worth talking to. But I don't think Blue should ignore her, though. Ignore the sulky moods and the tempertantrums maybe. But she should not ignore the teen.
You're welcome Blue.
I think the activites you want to do with her are great. Since she has been through so much I am sure she feels slightly alienated in her own home. Due to the fact that she is the only girl. It will all work out once she realizes you aren't there to do anyone any harm and once she sees you are on her side.
I think the activites you want to do with her are great. Since she has been through so much I am sure she feels slightly alienated in her own home. Due to the fact that she is the only girl. It will all work out once she realizes you aren't there to do anyone any harm and once she sees you are on her side.
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i dont know why feminime signs always blame other, when no one understand them....my dad is one of them, and he is a bull
well...no one understand me, but i dont have any reason to hate them, i dont blame them, i also dont blame myself
well...no one understand me, but i dont have any reason to hate them, i dont blame them, i also dont blame myself
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