Usually, I have great intuition and can read people like a book!! BUT this Taurus (who is my boss/owner of the company _???) has been giving me mixed signals for the past 6 years! I fell for him a few months ago and I can't get him out of my head! We have a lot of history together. I knew him before he got married and had kids, but we were never more than friends even though the attraction was there. He's separated now, his ex wife is an Aries so I can only imagine what he had to deal with. I know I should wait until he is completely divorced, but I am BEYOND frustrated!! I know him being my boss puts us both in a compromising position and I feel STUPID for having such strong feelings for him, but I've never felt like this before for anyone! It's magnetic, so powerful, I can't even put into words. I've tried to NOT like him, but it never works! When we look at each other, it's euphoric! _???_???_???_??? I KNOW he feels it, too. The only thing I worry about (besides us working together, but that can be fixed) is his family. They are very traditional when it comes to their culture and I know they would NEVER approve of ME!
It feels so good to get this off my chest! I don't really have anyone to talk to about this.....
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Mar 15, 2013Comments: 0 · Posts: 3979 · Topics: 6
yeah, the connection is a drug.....I would just really be careful if I were you....bulls take a long time to really heal from a long term relationship failing....we have a lot of insecurities to work through usually....
and how do you just now fall for someone you've been around for 6 years?
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Feb 04, 2013Comments: 1 · Posts: 9186 · Topics: 179
You have three things working against you
He's newly separated (you could be a rebound fling if you push it and nothing more)
You work together (ever hear keep the pussy/prick out of the payroll..could doom everything)
The culture conflict you mention
Shelf those feelings hun, cause it wreaks of nothing but TROUBLE.
Also..the person who said it takes a long time for a Taurus to get over a marriage, it failing is correct. Not to mention a divorce average time takes 2-3 more years of nothing but STRESS.
With this ^^^knowledge why in the world would you even bother? No other men around?
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Feb 04, 2013Comments: 1 · Posts: 9186 · Topics: 179
Hope that clears up your confusion...