TEST ..or simply is withdrawn and needing space

🙂 I"m a taurus female having a relationship with a scorpio male. The relationship itself is a week old and we had an intense weekend few days ago.

He was an ex of mine who held on tight and waiting for me for 4 years . We broke up because of our lack of communication...it was just a one bad night and boom he sting me for 6 months. fast forward 3 years later he was still pursuing me.

I had a rough few months because me and my virgo ex ( 2.5 years) broke up few months ago. Mr Scorpion chased me down ever since.

I decided to give him a chance as he said he still love me and is willing to give me anything and everything forever.

So last weekend was intense..involved a bit of alcohol...lots of " i love you " he also kind made me say it back as well ..it was full of passion/love/chemistry.

He never been with anyone since me... Now i'm back in my own house...i feel a lot of coldness/aloofness from him. He would reply my text but just simple texts.. no more. .. i'm thinking of you kind of text. He hates talking on the phone he claims so he never called me and i don't call him.

I know things have been overwhelming for him the past week . When i was with him on the weekend. He mentioned alot of " moving in together" stuff. He said he doesn't believe in marriage but would buy me a ring if i want one . He has no problem with that !

My question is.. I know that it is all too much for him but I like spending time / talking/chatting with a guy i'm in a relationship with. He seems to be adapting everything slowly. Is he testing my loyalty? My ex boyfriend lives 10 mins from my house so that guy contacts me as well and was always good at calling me several times a day. My venus is gemini and i NEED constant stimulation or i will walk !! I want to know how best to approach this situation . I would like to hear from a scorpio point of view.. I know scorpios can be distant because they need to recharge their own emotions ! Do you think this relationship will work out ? My rent contract ends in 5 months also and i'm sure if i move in with him everything will be different because i get to see his face everyday..

I"m just not sure what his go is...Is he just being cold because he lost interests in me and doubting his decision or is he just re-charging and absorbing everything in . ! :S

What is his Venus? Venus is Gemini with a Scorpio will likely be difficult unless perhaps, your Venus/Moon falls in the 8th house. He is going to need space and isn't going to communicate a lot. This is going to drive you mad.

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What is his Venus? Venus is Gemini with a Scorpio will likely be difficult unless perhaps, your Venus/Moon falls in the 8th house. He is going to need space and isn't going to communicate a lot. This is going to drive you mad.

. My Venus is in Gemini and my sun is a Taurus . How do I work out where my Venus/moon "s house ? I'm very new to this thig 🙂! I do think he will drive me mad so I have to seek communication elsewhere ! That's why I'm on here perhaps ? My ex had his Venus in libra ! Oh dear ne'er had a problem with that ! Talking all day all night long !

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Posted by saweetz1988

My question is.. I know that it is all too much for him but I like spending time / talking/chatting with a guy i'm in a relationship with. He seems to be adapting everything slowly. Is he testing my loyalty? My ex boyfriend lives 10 mins from my house so that guy contacts me as well and was always good at calling me several times a day. My venus is gemini and i NEED constant stimulation or i will walk !!

No you don't. Yes, Venus in Gem craves communication and stimulation. But you don't *need* that from anyone. Because you can provide that for *yourself*, by pulling insights and ideas from the world around you, as well as your own inner world. Venus in Gem is self-reliant. It has its own power source.

Don't give in to the lure of external attention simply because it's there. You're a Taurus, after all. Use some of that Taurean constancy as a stabilizing force on your Venus.

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I really do like your advice there ! That's probably why I crave feedback and communication on here . I will try my very best not to use external force simply because it's there ! His venus is in Sagittarius . I don't know his moon or Mars because I don't know his date of birth . I really want this to work out and I think this is my issue to deal with not his .🙂

His Venus is in Sagittarius !