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Jun 03, 2017Comments: 0 · Posts: 497 · Topics: 57
I'm involved with a Venus in Scorpio who is doing the hot and cold thing. I think it's worse because we are currently long distance and haven't had "the talk" where we define our status.
He is now doing this thing where he doesn't respond to my text for like a week at a time. He doesn't even open the chat app to read it, so there's no read receipts on them for a week. It feels like he doesn't care. I don't do follow up texts, I just let my text sit there and wait. Before he would reply every day. I can't tell if he's losing interest or playing games. Each time he replies like it's the same day and never acknowledges the lapse, and I also never say anything or allude to the time lapse.
I have a Scorpio rising, Mars, Pluto, and Saturn, so I am very familiar with Scorpio's energy in my own life. I personally think he is testing me and taking time away to sort out his own feelings...
My question is: Should I start to mirror his behavior?
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Apr 29, 2018Comments: 4020 · Posts: 3656 · Topics: 89
I say hes done.
Id just stop initiating, give him space.
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Jun 03, 2017Comments: 0 · Posts: 497 · Topics: 57
I agree... I think it would be so much better if we were living in the same place. But this behaviour makes my Mars go red with rage... His Mars is in Libra... so there's a disconnect there...
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Oct 21, 2015Comments: 11066 · Posts: 36034 · Topics: 110
Erm if its long distance there is prolly a time change difference in play which is prolly why there are long lapse in his response time cause he is catching zzz'ssss