'The Pickle'

O.K. Scorps, I've been on and off with a chick for a while and she REFUSES to have sex!!!!!!!—? We had a pretty steamy conversation about it, but she REFUSES to give into me!!!!

I told her 'I wouldn't be with you if I didn't feel something strong for you, I mean I did hook up with you and ever since then I haven't even wanted to look at another girl, why the F*** are you trying to avoid this—?!!!' she drives me up a wall sometimes.....

She thinks I guess that I'm some type of slut, but more that a relationship deals more with 'cuddling' and 'spooning' and all that other soft shit (I disagree) and she's RIGHT lol 😛 but at the same time she's wrong because I told her that I need to SHOW her how I feel...it's not that I just wanna screw her, but I'm really trying to 'get into her'....she just doesn't get it, and i don't know how to explain it to her....any ideas....How do I get her to trust me, and how do I get to 'express' myself to her without scaring her off—

more over we have history together and she knows that I'm faithful, so no suspicions should arise....she knows my principles and feelings about a relationship, and sees past my lighter side into the deeper parts of me, but still.....I'm getting tired of not being able to SHOW it....

Elena!!!


*hmmm*

VE, I have to leave soon but I will give advice tomorrow, yes 🙂

Whats her sign?

Please don't say capricorn ... because we usually do spread them, i can kick a few cap girls in the head for that LOL!!!

DUDEIII

Maybe she will give you a pickle! Maybe she has an STD?!

Dammitt, E-90 you're the best conscience ever....waving that pitch fork around though has got to be dangerous....😛

lol She's a Virg/Leo....being so close to me, I guess it's not out of the question that she could have SOME hangups about the horizontal hip thrust....😛

Whip it out. Gage her reaction and see what happens.

Older women like younger guys. trust me

Caper😄UDEIII

Maybe she will give you a pickle! Maybe she has an STD?!

lol I can see it now....salty....😛 ewwwww....lmao

*VE wipes tears away* I gotta piss...

Though, upon sitting on the proverbial 'pickle' you just dropped me, that could very well be a possibility....why would she keep that from me...— Do you think it could be serious— Syphilis, Herpes,...HIV(AIDs)....I'll approach her to see...but GAWD I'm hopin' that's not it, but if it is....oh well....guess it's onto the next gal....

I think you should move on to the next one. Sounds like she has some issues she has to deal with. Keep her as a friend, maybe you can go back to her when she deals with her shit.

DK, don't do that man!....the last time that happened, well, I got jumped...😛 Not that I have a problem with it, but I do want to keep the 'balls in MY court' if you catch my drift.....I want her to come to me and tell me what's going on, I need truth....this would be different if I just wanted to pass a nut, but I think I actually *Gulp* care about her....—


Caper I believe ya fam...really that's what escorts are for....money ain't bad either....lol

yeah....I guess I thought I was in control, but now I can't let go....dammitt....I'm just making things complicated....I'm on my way out, the club's open on friday, and all free buns gimme some....😛 lol

She's too cute ANYWAY....wouldn't feel right if she didn't have that 'freak' switch, and SHE DOESN'T!!!!! She's a Good girl....shy, modest...eh, nothing like me....lol

I see what your getting at SH....but she's never pushed me away as if she had been violated....I made it a HUGE deal for her to tell me about her hang ups and what it was that made her feel uncomfortable (she's a little restrained for my tastes) and we are close emotionally....I mean, I've told her some things about my past that I hadn't told anyone, (never anything too boundary shattering) and she's a girl from the good side of the tracks....

It's as if she can't believe some of the stuff I went through....I never felt awkward about telling her either....I could sense that I could trust her, and she's not betrayed my trust YET....but for some reason, she's just not in it with me.....

I thought about that 2, AL....I know ONE V gal like that, and I NEVER EVER developed feelings for her beyond tolerance, she worked with me, but she was an overt-flirt which put me off.....

This gal's nothing like that....she's all 'sweetness and light' kinda makes me feel weird...she's so....soft....kinda makes me feel like I have to 'be on my best behavior'

First off, you didn't even believe in the validity of my story, NOW you accuse me of feeling entitlement/possessive towards her?...something stinks about YOU....I see you....save yourself the trouble of hiding because I've already caught wind it is YOU I should test....

But it's not like that....I don't feel as if she owes me a thing, I just want to show her how I feel....when you love someone it's just that way....I can't explain it, I just feel that I love her enough to take that next step....

lol ferdy pickles are small....I on the other hand have a dick 😛....the pickle pertains to the 'problem' I have ....I just wanted to give it a sexual overtone....because well, it is.

Now more to it....she is a friend, but she looks at me (going off of her words) as if she likes me and even thinks lol that she can manipulate me/train me, she's on some 'I can train my man' shit, and she's BI!!!!!!! GUYZ THAT'S RIGHT, I GOT A FREAK JOINT AND SHE LIKES GIRLZZZZZ WHO LIKE GIRLS WHO LIKE GIRLZZZZZZZZZZZ :p

But seriously I'm tired of the the games....I'm ready to kick her ass to the curb, I mean the girl goes so damned far as to ask 'have you considered to prospect of us being in a relationship' but then brushes me off.....I really wanted something deep with her, but dammitt, she's acting like she's not ready, and to wait around like a Okie isn't my thing....

To her I'm 'the one that got away'..! As a matter of fact, she was diggin' on me since the dawn of time, and I didn't even notice until she started talking to me....

lol....then there it is....lost my damned mind.....I mean there's holding out, but I can only be a 'boyscout' for SO LONG!!!!!

I mean, there's MILLIONS of freaks like that....right— 😢

Maybe I shouldn't give it up JUST yet......

she had a boyfriend before, and hopped on the stick before, and had no complaints.....I suppose her preference leans towards females, but she like dudes with muscles....whatev, I'm tired of her old fridgid ass, I'm into fish (water) and lamb chops (rams) now....she missed a good guy....

AL lol at what point did my life become a soap-opera? lol 😛 Wait I can answer that....lol

ARIES AND TAURUS WOMEN RUN IT!

No doubt....lol

AL, I didn't break her off SHIT....I know better.....Now the only thing VIRGIN about me is my sign....I ain't givin' no chick head unless I'm gittin' mine...😉 And I better get a couple....The rule is if you lik it twice than we go together....yup 🙂

Yeah Elena I know I'm 19, but most of the girls around where I'm at have gotten into some 'flip your lid' shit....it's bound to be complicated, but that's why I called this 'the pickle' a pickle is a situation that goes 'sour' if you catch my drift....

BOC:have it ever crossed your mind that maybe she is not sure about your feelings and that she is afraid that if he gives it to you, you will just dissapear—

Yeah, I had, I felt the same way so I said it's cool, and that if we didn't make a move in SOME kind of direction that we'd never know what it was between us in either case...she sat quiet, and smiled, I did too...but I KNOW she's still not sure....

FS: That's what this whole thing is about...I've talked to her asked her, what's her reasoning for her suspicions of my possible 'misdoings' and her last guy didn't cheat on her....she's got this preconceived notion that 'guys are dogs'.....

it's so damned Freudian with her, I'd be better off on my OWN!!! There, I said it, that's right! One handed the hammer baby!!!!! 😛

I joke about it, but maybe I'm not even sure about it....I mean after all this time, a guy DOES have to consider his options.....and for the record, this is more to me than 'sewing wild oats'....I just don't wanna leave her with that notion that we are 'dogs', but then why should I take it upon myself and bear the responsibility to change her life—

Al, I thought about that same thing when she first told me....she said women turn her on....I forget, I just know that it was based on something more PHYSICAL than EMOTIONAL....but idk, I could be wrong....I'll see this evening when I talk to her....

What a boring bitch. Dump her!

lol...merc in Libra Mystic Dreamer.....it suxxxx....you tell me one thing I gotta see the other side to balance it out...now add in the moon in cancer, and you got a 'knight in shinning armor' complex....dammitt...

I wanna see her in a better light, but shit, I guess she's not worth it....I don't think I can get used to the idea of a relationship without deep intimacy....her repressive ways are really driving me crazy....I mean I respect her ways, but I can't deal anymore...