The Scorpio stare explained by a Scorpio man

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by MrScorp1on on Monday, October 20, 2014 and has 36 replies.
Hello, I'm a Scorpio man (scorpio sun, scorpio venus) and I wanted to explain the scorpio stare from a scorpio male perspective.
When I was younger, I was impressed by the effect my stare had, sometimes, on the opposite sex. Very hypnotic. I had never seen this before. I was curious to know if it was all the guys that had this effect on women or just me... Of course, all the time, you see women and girls "wooing" over the good-looking guys. But in these cases, this effect looks very rational. When you see a beautiful thing, and you want it.
But for me this was and still is different. This is not rational. I'm not that good looking, I'm average. Not ugly, but not a model. It is purely in the eyes, how I stare apparently... My eyes are not "beautiful" either, they're just black. So, what is this "effect"?
There are many reactions to my stare. "Very arrogant", "scary", "sexy", "perverse"... Even though it's just my normal stare most of the time. I look like the bad boy that came out of prison. Or like a Roman soldier, only here to fight and conquer. I didn't ask to be like this. I don't try to be like this on purpose. I just am. (so please be understanding non-scorpios!)
Now when I look at a person or talk to her, I look at their eyes. I think it is the window of the soul. I don't need to listen to what you say, or even understand your language, I just look at your eyes, I know exactly what you want to tell me, what you don't want to tell me, what are your deepest dreams, fears and lies.
If there are scientific people here, they probably already know that energy is information and that information is energy. People (or their souls) radiates energy. They radiate information. Their eyes are a mine full of it. They radiates constantly layers of energy, or layers of information.
Lucky scorpios can pick up intuitively these energies or informations. At the bottom, there's only your soul left. It's like the soul is clothed with these layers of energy. The energy you intentionally want to put out there to the world : "I'm this, I'm that" "I'm happy, I'm sad, I'm successful etc..." In a half second, I , and probably other scorpios, can remove these superficial layers to see your soul directly.
With the opposite sex (women), it has something sexy to it. It is like ripping their clothes off (and lingerie) with just a look. Of course they have different reactions, some find it scary, some find it wild, sexy, very hot etc... Some scared, flee my stare. Others are hypnotized (literally, standing there frozen, watching me during many seconds). Others blushes very hard. "Why am I naked?" "Of course, I want to be your sex slave!" etc...
Sometimes it can be intense... for us too!
For example, at my job, there was a woman not very far from me, but I didn't talk to her, didn't look at her, I didn't care. After many months, one day, we finally look at each other in the eyes.... Most "intense" eyes moments of my life. Most of the time, women take control of my magnetic eyes. Their eyes tells me "stop it, we're in public!". And I smile.
But this woman didn't want me to stop. My magnetic pull had no end. My eyes telling her "I want to dominate you", hers "dominate me". After taking all of her "layers of energy". There's only the soul left like I told you. At the soul part, most people makes me understand to stop, as they are legitimately scared. But with her, this might sounds crazy, as she was completely "open", I kept the "magnet on" and I felt my soul starting to melt with hers literally, starting to become one.
I freaked out so I stopped. It really felt like jumping off a cliff without a bottom. Very rare intense moment, especially with a complete stranger!
Since then, when we look at each other , both of us feel like we already had sex together haha :-) Is this the secret of sex and love ? Soul-melting ? (short answer : yes it is.)
I think this is why Scorpios are sometimes associated with rape, as we can force upon others the very nature of sex/procreation (soul melting) just by looking at people.
Scorpio men easily feel like the masters of sex with this kind of power. But I don't engage in promiscuous sex. Because we feel like the masters of sex, we feel like we already f***** thousands of women, so one more won't change anything for our ego. Now as Scorpios, we need more, we need sex on another level. The soul melting experience. Can you handle it :-P ? When you realize that you can see and "suck" people souls just by looking at them, it is crazy. Personally, I think it is a power that Scorpios can and should use to do good around them. To see people as they truly are, give them confidence, hope, love and guidance in their lives.
BONUS : Just my 5cents for women trying to "Seduce scorpio men". Even though it is a very intense stare, if you want to get close to him you'll have to handle the stare, and not be scared of him or be "hypnotized". Don't want to be rude with my peers, but most "scorpio male romance" are very Beauty and the Beast-like. Can you see the real him past his scary look, and all his layers ? Treat him normally and offer him kindness, he will offer you the world and beyond.
"Now when I look at a person or talk to her, I look at their eyes. I think it is the window of the soul. I don't need to listen to what you say, or even understand your language, I just look at your eyes, I know exactly what you want to tell me, what you don't want to tell me, what are your deepest dreams, fears and lies.
If there are scientific people here, they probably already know that energy is information and that information is energy. People (or their souls) radiates energy. They radiate information. Their eyes are a mine full of it. They radiates constantly layers of energy, or layers of information.
Lucky scorpios can pick up intuitively these energies or informations. At the bottom, there's only your soul left. It's like the soul is clothed with these layers of energy. The energy you intentionally want to put out there to the world : "I'm this, I'm that" "I'm happy, I'm sad, I'm successful etc..." In a half second, I , and probably other scorpios, can remove these superficial layers to see your soul directly."

Yes. Yes. Yes.
I think that it fascinates people, that they look at us from afar, and think: whats with him/her? Why are they so mysterious, whats with that gaze? They are fascinating.... or do they hate everyone??
I've had countless girls and guys give me that look when they get close to me and speak to me the first few times. It says, "WHOA, okay I won't talk to you anymore! What did I DO? Why are you looking at me like that?" It's all in the eyes, hon.
Also, I have to laugh because I'm not even a bad person. I guess it's a shield, so to speak. I don't like whiners and babies. Also, people that like to take advantage of others seek those who look weak.
I have to tell people I am a nice person, sometimes I tell them I am sorry if I look angry or that I hate you.
I've been told SO many times I am sexy and one even told me I drive him nuts.. I never believe it, but hell, it's always nice to hear Winking
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Since then, when we look at each other , both of us feel like we already had sex together haha :-)



lol Big Grin
All one needs to know about the Scorpio stare.....

Manson looks a bit off at 13 too:


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Guys! The craziest thing I realized about Charles Manson is that he's only 5'2"! Holy shit. See, never underestimate tiny people. NEVER.
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Guys! The craziest thing I realized about Charles Manson is that he's only 5'2"! Holy shit. See, never underestimate tiny people. NEVER.

I try to tell people this all the time - just because I'm little, doesn't mean I don't pack a punch - hello dynamite, grenades.......... come on, little things make big impressions! Big Grin
I haven't pooped in 3 days. I think.

I bet my face looks like that Manson pic.
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Posted by MrScorp1on

Now when I look at a person or talk to her, I look at their eyes. I think it is the window of the soul. I don't need to listen to what you say, or even understand your language, I just look at your eyes, I know exactly what you want to tell me, what you don't want to tell me, what are your deepest dreams, fears and lies.
If there are scientific people here, they probably already know that energy is information and that information is energy. People (or their souls) radiates energy. They radiate information. Their eyes are a mine full of it. They radiates constantly layers of energy, or layers of information.
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If you really want to be scientific about this, then you should test your hypothesis. Next time you feel like you know someones deepest fears (not just that they ARE afraid because you are staring at them so long), their dreams, and what they do and don't want to tell you, walk right up to them and be like "I can see into your soul. Do you mind if I tell you what I see?". Spill the beans and see what kind of reaction you get. They'd probably be pretty impressed if you were as accurate as you think you are. Don't take it as a confirmation if they get frightened and run away.


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Is there a link between Scopios, the scorpio stare and their love for analigus?
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Posted by exxtasyx
To be quit honest I've never seen a Scorpio "stare" from a Scorpio Sun. Always see it with Scorpio Risings and Pluto in 1st House people though. And it doesn't even look like an actual, over-exaggerated, creepy stare.. It's almost like a vacant, focused stare. And they don't purposely stare like someone in here said they "focus on the eyes".... They kind of get lost in it and stare at another person or just into space. I can't describe it so here you go:
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Foh lol
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Posted by MrScorp1on
I look like the bad boy that came out of prison. Or like a Roman soldier, only here to fight and conquer. I didn't ask to be like this. I don't try to be like this on purpose. I just am. (so please be understanding non-scorpios!)



I am going to share some Bro-Science with you, because you are my Bro.

Scientific Factoid #1: Eye contact with strangers builds intimacy.

Scientific Factoid #2: Black eyes are alluring. It actually makes your eyes more reflective, contrastive, and noticeable. So much so that women used to use drops to purposely dilate their pupils to make them more attractive.

Scientific Factoid #3: The pupils naturally dilate when you are more attracted to a person, or even an object. In people this creates a feedback effect where even subconsciously noticing that dilation can create more attraction on the part of the person you are eye stalking.

Scientific Factoid #4 (I've saved the one that will be hardest for you to accept, for last): You do not have magical powers.

You are a Scorpio and you often feel strongly about people you stare at, hence your hypnotically engorged black pupils. Plus you stare excessively at people you decide to stare at. It creeps everyone out. Pounce on the ones that are curious about that creepy feeling.

P. S. - You are embarrassing other Scorpios.


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With your ego, you will probably always feel like you are God's gift to God. But with age and wisdom, you will learn to keep this between you and God.
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LOL and LOLBig Grin
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Geez dude... Get over yourself. What'd you write, a damn novel? Understandably so, most men sort of have that effect with their eyes when they stare at someone of course. Those were the most vague descriptions of a typical reaction from the opposite sex. You can't just stare and expect something indifferent in return.

If you have any Scorpio friends specifically with Scorpio Venus, they all think they have magic powers exactly like this bruh.
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sounds like a scorp fawked your girl my friend....holy sheete you are putting too much energy into this thread....ITS TWO YRS OLD! lol that scorp is long gone....Let it go
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Posted by Gem20Redux
Geez dude... Get over yourself. What'd you write, a damn novel? Understandably so, most men sort of have that effect with their eyes when they stare at someone of course. Those were the most vague descriptions of a typical reaction from the opposite sex. You can't just stare and expect something indifferent in return.

If you have any Scorpio friends specifically with Scorpio Venus, they all think they have magic powers exactly like this bruh.






sounds like a scorp fawked your girl my friend....holy sheete you are putting too much energy into this thread....ITS TWO YRS OLD! lol that scorp is long gone....Let it go

Hahah oops didn't notice that. You're right. My apologies
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wait, that wasnt direction towards you lol i was talkin to EnochTheWise
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Posted by Gem20Redux
Geez dude... Get over yourself. What'd you write, a damn novel? Understandably so, most men sort of have that effect with their eyes when they stare at someone of course. Those were the most vague descriptions of a typical reaction from the opposite sex. You can't just stare and expect something indifferent in return.

If you have any Scorpio friends specifically with Scorpio Venus, they all think they have magic powers exactly like this bruh.






sounds like a scorp fawked your girl my friend....holy sheete you are putting too much energy into this thread....ITS TWO YRS OLD! lol that scorp is long gone....Let it go

Don't be mad bro. I'm new here, have a really sarcastic sense of humor, and just saw that the thread was bumped and went in. I didn't read the dates. And you might be surprised to know that I am a Scorpio Sun, though it is not my dominant sign or influence. I just am what I see as atypical for my sign and don't see being a Scorpio as anything great. I am not mad at Scorpios or Scorpio dominant people and I get along with Scorpios and have Scorpio friends, but I don't trust Scorpios in general because a lot of them are sick fuqs. You're right though that I have been hurt really bad by a Scorpio in my life so kudos to you on that. And you got that without even looking into my eyes bruh.


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wait, youre a scorpio???? fawkkk why u aint say so....I treat astrology like a gang, whether I like you or not, we are part of the same gang lol we' all bloods here .....maybe I was talkin to the previous guy lol
There is no "Scorpio stare" I stare at people too and there's nothing Scorpio in my chart except Uranus in the 11th. I mostly do it because I think it's funny when people get intimidated by the intensity of someone holding eye contact for what is longer than socially acceptable. I also think eye contact is an extremely powerful tool that not many people utilize.
Then again I had an ex who told his grandma to look at my eyes because they're slightly different colors. She did and then said "I can see the evil in your eyes" LOL Kinda freaked me out.
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I'm a Pisces female. I've avoided scorpios my whole life because they terrified me. The only sign that I can't seduce. The only sign that seduces me.

I recently became single for the first time in over a decade.

I decided what I was missing in my previous relationships was a passion that matched mine. I wanted passion that overtook logic. (Too many taureans) so I set out on a quest in January to experience a Scorpio.

Ive had four since then. One was inexperienced and in the middle of heartbreak. One was just going thru women like tissues - the moment was hot but didn't hold my interest.

The other two? Holy Toledo. I've never experienced sex like this in my life. It's everything I have ever wanted. But the STARE! It's raises the temperature of sexual heat like nothing I have ever known.

One of them has eyes that I swear flash like lightening during sex. It's like I'm with one of the Xmen

The other one - we took things extremely slow. Half because I'm not into one night stands and really like to get to know someone - but also- to be honest I just wasn't physically attracted to him. We got along great and enjoyed hanging out - but he just didn't turn me on.

So what happened was I got so hung up on the first Scorpio to the point it wasn't feeling "balanced" and I didn't want to ruin the potential by getting obsessed.... So I decided to give the other Scorpio a shot just to dilute my emotional fixation on the Xman

(To be clear all parties are being open and communicative there is no deception going on)

So I tell the Scorpio I don't find attractive that I'm ready to try something physical just to get my mind off of some things.

He takes me up on it.

And what I experienced next was something I have never in my life seen - as soon as clothes were removed and the stare started - his entire physical appearance changed. He went from meh to smoldering gorgeous - and the uh sex? Incredible. And went on forever. So much so we got dressed and went out to dinner in the middle of it - he turned back into meh - then after dinner we returned to sexy time and he was insanely hot again! And it was all because of that stare!

I'm sticking with scorpios for the rest of this lifetime.
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I'm a Pisces female. I've avoided scorpios my whole life because they terrified me. The only sign that I can't seduce. The only sign that seduces me.

I recently became single for the first time in over a decade.

I decided what I was missing in my previous relationships was a passion that matched mine. I wanted passion that overtook logic. (Too many taureans) so I set out on a quest in January to experience a Scorpio.

Ive had four since then. One was inexperienced and in the middle of heartbreak. One was just going thru women like tissues - the moment was hot but didn't hold my interest.

The other two? Holy Toledo. I've never experienced sex like this in my life. It's everything I have ever wanted. But the STARE! It's raises the temperature of sexual heat like nothing I have ever known.

One of them has eyes that I swear flash like lightening during sex. It's like I'm with one of the Xmen

The other one - we took things extremely slow. Half because I'm not into one night stands and really like to get to know someone - but also- to be honest I just wasn't physically attracted to him. We got along great and enjoyed hanging out - but he just didn't turn me on.

So what happened was I got so hung up on the first Scorpio to the point it wasn't feeling "balanced" and I didn't want to ruin the potential by getting obsessed.... So I decided to give the other Scorpio a shot just to dilute my emotional fixation on the Xman

(To be clear all parties are being open and communicative there is no deception going on)

So I tell the Scorpio I don't find attractive that I'm ready to try something physical just to get my mind off of some things.

He takes me up on it.

And what I experienced next was something I have never in my life seen - as soon as clothes were removed and the stare started - his entire physical appearance changed. He went from meh to smoldering gorgeous - and the uh sex? Incredible. And went on forever. So much so we got dressed and went out to dinner in the middle of it - he turned back into meh - then after dinner we returned to sexy time and he was insanely hot again! And it was all because of that stare!

I'm sticking with scorpios for the rest of this lifetime.

is scorpion good with fishes?
The scorpio stare is so sexy lol can be intimidating i once knew someone who would stare at me and it felt like they was reading my mind or something lol i had to look away its so intense its crazy! Hard to explain
This has to be the best explain yet about our stare. *tip of the hat to you good sir*
This is my first comment here... I was just looking here to get answers, maybe i just GOT them!
So, about this hypnotized, frozen stare, i have had that with a guy i believe may have been a scorpio! It's a really long story, first time i believe i SAW him was in 1994. I remember i was just watching him, i was only about 15 then. I dont think he SAW me back then. I had the most crazy thoughts about him and how much i wanted him! But inside i knew that the age difference was to big so i thought to myself that someday he was gonna be mine....
Years went by and i forgot him. Finished school, GOT my boyfriends, GOT a job. Then suddenly, in 2013 i SAW him again! IT all came back to me in a split second. The one that i knew in my heart was suppose to be mine Winking.
So for me, the hypnotized stare is me wanting to see AS much i can of him while i can. I know nothing personal of him, and i dont know when i will see him again!
That stare is not a sex thing, ITS a love thing!
I have my mars comjunct pluto in Scorpio. I know that Scorpio stare and I usually challenge it. I can usually seduce any man that is open. And its crazy because no matter where I go or work place that I work in I ALWAYS attract men or men are attracted to me. I find it funny. I understand the stare because I only do it if I really like someone and when I stare I focus my attention and tune everyone else out and its saying I want to conquer you and do freaky, unthinkable things to you. Kind of like an animal instinct. But Im in a relationship now and he has this intimidating, bad boy look to him. Hes a Cap and I love it. But the original poster did a great job explaining the stare
What's all these threads about scorpio stares though!! My stare isn't intimidating,scary,sexy.. Nothing!!! It's just blank!! Hell ...I never stare!! Tongue
Hello, since this is a Scorpion forum I'm really seeking for a help ? My boss is a Scorpion and I'm not sure if he's into me or no ? We usually stare at each other a lot and now a days he avoids staring while I'm talking but he still smiles infact he smiles a lot than usual ? What does this mean ? Whenever we stare at each other we just understand each other by a stare ! And as far as I know scorpions wouldn't prefer to play around much but what is he upto ?
Fuck off with this stare bullshit.
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Posted by MrScorp1on
I look like the bad boy that came out of prison. Or like a Roman soldier, only here to fight and conquer. I didn't ask to be like this. I don't try to be like this on purpose. I just am. (so please be understanding non-scorpios!)



I am going to share some Bro-Science with you, because you are my Bro.

Scientific Factoid #1: Eye contact with strangers builds intimacy.

Scientific Factoid #2: Black eyes are alluring. It actually makes your eyes more reflective, contrastive, and noticeable. So much so that women used to use drops to purposely dilate their pupils to make them more attractive.

Scientific Factoid #3: The pupils naturally dilate when you are more attracted to a person, or even an object. In people this creates a feedback effect where even subconsciously noticing that dilation can create more attraction on the part of the person you are eye stalking.

Scientific Factoid #4 (I've saved the one that will be hardest for you to accept, for last): You do not have magical powers.

You are a Scorpio and you often feel strongly about people you stare at, hence your hypnotically engorged black pupils. Plus you stare excessively at people you decide to stare at. It creeps everyone out. Pounce on the ones that are curious about that creepy feeling.

P. S. - You are embarrassing other Scorpios.


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LMAO @God's gift to God.
Scorpio stare....

Is this a Western

occurrence only?

Staring in the East is

considered very rude.

No one walks around

staring or expecting to

be stared at in any way.

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Posted by TachibanaSan
Scorpio stare....

Is this a Western

occurrence only?

Staring in the East is

considered very rude.

No one walks around

staring or expecting to

be stared at in any way.

When I wen't to Japan I stared at everyone.
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Those ignorant to our culture

usually and unfortunately do.

But in all fairness and honesty,

we stare at foreigners as well.

But not for rudeness, as we are

only truly curious about them.
Posted by Taniwha
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Taniwha
Posted by TachibanaSan
Scorpio stare....

Is this a Western

occurrence only?

Staring in the East is

considered very rude.

No one walks around

staring or expecting to

be stared at in any way.

When I wen't to Japan I stared at everyone.
Those ignorant to our culture

usually and unfortunately do.

But in all fairness and honesty,

we stare at foreigners as well.

But not for rudeness, as we are

only truly curious about them.


You understand, there is allot to stare at in Japan!

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You are a foreigner

so you do think this.

But we are used to it.

Just do not stare so

much at people long.

Or trouble will happen.
Posted by Taniwha
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Taniwha
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Taniwha
Posted by TachibanaSan
Scorpio stare....

Is this a Western

occurrence only?

Staring in the East is

considered very rude.

No one walks around

staring or expecting to

be stared at in any way.

When I wen't to Japan I stared at everyone.
Those ignorant to our culture

usually and unfortunately do.

But in all fairness and honesty,

we stare at foreigners as well.

But not for rudeness, as we are

only truly curious about them.


You understand, there is allot to stare at in Japan!

You are a foreigner

so you do think this.

But we are used to it.

Just do not stare so

much at people long.

Or trouble will happen.


I still stare at everything in my own country,

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Maybe you are just odd.

Whatever gives you joy.