The struggle.

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Skykomish on Thursday, February 17, 2011 and has 10 replies.
Between head and heart. God damn it, I hate it. Ever feel a certain way and KNOW you shouldn't? KNOW its not logical? % $ @% $ #% I miss the Taurus. I just love being with him so much. Which is absolutely rediculous since I've known him like 2 weeks. *shoots emotion center of the psyche in the head* Wish I could just turn it off.
*tackle* Maybe I should show you why I don't date girls. Tongue
When has feeling and deep connection ever been logical? Common sense and rational thought hold no sway in this realm. It is natural to miss the presence of someone who has made an impression upon you. And may I just say to grab onto that and hold on to it. In other words, roll with it. Enjoy all the butterflies and madness, where it feels like the very air you breathe. And let it go, smile and laugh and stop thinking it's something mad or silly. It's a natural occurrence Skykomish. Let go of the control aspect of it and BREATHE.
Between head & heart there is no corralation. I agree with venusianbull, its not very often one takes your breath away unless you fall for everyone you meet, which is highly doubtful with being a scorp, quite the contrary in many cases. Enjoy the moment and go with it. We have to go with the logical every moment of every day. Go with the butterflies,the giddy school girl feeling, the constant on my mind, the passion, the excitement of the thrill. Follow your heart,have fun and don't complicate it with such thoughts...you never know..he could be the one!
When do you ever Dom? Tongue Another day on dxp then.
Thanks misscorp, like your reply too. smile ^5
It depends why you "know you shouldn't".
You've only known him two weeks. So it's a new guy you met and you're just crushing hard? No worries. Enjoy the good times. When it comes to matters of the heart, the heart should take the lead.
If it's someone who has done you wrong and you need to get away... that's when it sucks to not be able to "turn it off".
Ya, I think Sid is right. Crushing.
I had that connection once. With the libsco. I opened up too fast and got scared, he ultimately thinks im crazy for it. Never again.
Posted by Scorporella
When are emotions ever logical? Regardless of the emotion, whether it's a crush, desire, love, they are not based upon emotions. You're excited and feel as though you shouldn't be this caught up in the Taurus because you've just met him, but some people make connections quickly. I can remember a man I met (and am still in love with) how within a few days, I felt a connection and bond with him that I had never experienced before (or since). We both experienced that connection, and extremely quickly for the both of us. We both felt as though we'd always known each other. He's very cautious when meeting new people, as am I, but somehow he and I connected. Yeah, it didn't make sense. My head was telling me that it was crazy. I've never met anyone that I just automatically trusted from the very beginning and my head kept reminding me of that. It drove me crazy to feel that close to someone I had just met. That's so very un-scorpio like of me. But he most definitely was worth that "crazy" and our closeness was most definitely worth ignoring my head. Go with your heart Skykomish. It may get you in some difficult places at times, but it lets you know you're alive.


This made me sigh and smile.
And what on earth is wrong with crushing? Whether you're 13, 30, 40, 50, or 70 it's still awfully fun to doodle dippy things on notebooks and get a sappy grin on your face. We tend to over complicate the simplest things. Yeh, it's a roller coaster ride, but it's up to you whether you puke or scream because it's so fun. In other words, why miss out on the best thing ever because you're too fearful? Grab it with both hands and hang on tight. Enjoy your time with him, enjoy him as a human, as a man, and give a cheerful middle finger to sense every once in a while. And yes you get your ass kicked every once in a while. Big deal, come up swinging.
Sometimes..love takes time and others... love knows no time. Your logical is telling you its too soon & it just may be, your heart is telling you it wasn't soon enough..."Time" will soon tell and then you'll know!The only regrets you will live to have are the risks you never took
Awww, well you should have said so Dom *patting back*. Chin up. We'll make a cake. smile

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