This Scorpio insisted we get married. I wasn't 100% sure. The next day he just left. WHY?? HOW??
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Ginaqua on Tuesday, January 17, 2017 and has 17 replies.
So I am an Aquarius and he is a Scorpio. We were dating for 2 years and it wasn't easy at the beginning. The first months we used to fight in daily basis. It was crazy! And we are not babies, we are both 26 years old!
However, we had a special connection and we wanted this relationship to work. And it got much better, we stopped fighting and finally we were calm and happy.
The last few months he insisted that we should move in together and get engaged. I kept avoiding it. I wasn't 100% sure. The last month he insisted even more and kept complaining that i am not ready to commit and he is so worried that he feels he is "drowning".
Finally, i decided that I love him so much that i should do it and I told him that we can move in together when i finish my masters in 2 months. And we even started trying to have a baby.
In new years eve he started complaining again that i avoid him and that if i loved him why shall we wait for 2 months and not move in right now? And that the next day that i will finish my masters he wants us to arrange a meeting for our families to meet each other so we can get engaged. He was angry, mean and he almost shouted to me. So i got angry and I told him he cannot talk about marriage and shout to me the same time and that he should leave me alone.
And he broke up with me
I have tried to talk to him but he doesn't want to hear anything he told me he is not happy and it is over. Its been 2 weeks and he didn't contact me at all. I suffer so much
However, we had a special connection and we wanted this relationship to work. And it got much better, we stopped fighting and finally we were calm and happy.
The last few months he insisted that we should move in together and get engaged. I kept avoiding it. I wasn't 100% sure. The last month he insisted even more and kept complaining that i am not ready to commit and he is so worried that he feels he is "drowning".
Finally, i decided that I love him so much that i should do it and I told him that we can move in together when i finish my masters in 2 months. And we even started trying to have a baby.
In new years eve he started complaining again that i avoid him and that if i loved him why shall we wait for 2 months and not move in right now? And that the next day that i will finish my masters he wants us to arrange a meeting for our families to meet each other so we can get engaged. He was angry, mean and he almost shouted to me. So i got angry and I told him he cannot talk about marriage and shout to me the same time and that he should leave me alone.
And he broke up with me
I have tried to talk to him but he doesn't want to hear anything he told me he is not happy and it is over. Its been 2 weeks and he didn't contact me at all. I suffer so much 
So sorry to hear man....
You're feelings were right - he isnt the one for you!
man.... You're feelings were right - he isnt the one for you!
Imagine getting married with him and after a few months he leaves and you get divorced. His behavior is too unstable for my taste
LOL typical Scorpio jackass thinking he's all that, and that no woman would ever turn him down for anything.
You're far too good for him, luv.
You're far too good for him, luv.
Lucky escape
Living with a Scorp?
Living with a Scorp?
I keep hearing stories about weird Scorp guys
What's going on?
What's going on?
Posted by leowwwHow weird Leowww?Posted by MyStarsShine
I keep hearing stories about weird Scorp guys
What's going on?
The Scorpio I dated in the past also was weird... but op wins hands down...click to expand
I am worried for a friend of mine...she is a Cancer with a younger Scorp guy...he is overly controlling and very vindictive..she hasn't answered my text for 2 days...not like her. If he hurts her, i will sting him for real
Don't marry a scorpio. You will die. He did you a favor.
Posted by SassyKiwiAre you one?
Don't marry a scorpio. You will die. He did you a favor.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by SassyKiwiAre you one?
Don't marry a scorpio. You will die. He did you a favor.click to expand
Are you asking if I'm hazardous? I'm not, I promise
He may feel rejected and inadequate.
I find they can be all or nothing people with hidden clauses with most offers. He may have left out the now or never part. He probably didn't include his self serving reasons for it needing to happen in a certain timeline.I don't know his financial stability or expectations from his family; something tells me he didn't tell you either.
His irrational behavior and demanding disposition may be hiding his real motives
I find they can be all or nothing people with hidden clauses with most offers. He may have left out the now or never part. He probably didn't include his self serving reasons for it needing to happen in a certain timeline.I don't know his financial stability or expectations from his family; something tells me he didn't tell you either.
His irrational behavior and demanding disposition may be hiding his real motives
Posted by SassyKiwiNo i am asking you are you a ScorpioPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by SassyKiwiAre you one?
Don't marry a scorpio. You will die. He did you a favor.
Are you asking if I'm hazardous? I'm not, I promiseclick to expand
I admit to it lol
You made that bed, by rejecting him at every turn .... you must be a Princess with serious entitlement issues.
See, I knew there was a reason why I have never dated a Scorpio man before. lol
Posted by Ginaqua
So I am an Aquarius and he is a Scorpio. We were dating for 2 years and it wasn't easy at the beginning. The first months we used to fight in daily basis. It was crazy! And we are not babies, we are both 26 years old!
However, we had a special connection and we wanted this relationship to work. And it got much better, we stopped fighting and finally we were calm and happy.
The last few months he insisted that we should move in together and get engaged. I kept avoiding it. I wasn't 100% sure. The last month he insisted even more and kept complaining that i am not ready to commit and he is so worried that he feels he is "drowning".
Finally, i decided that I love him so much that i should do it and I told him that we can move in together when i finish my masters in 2 months. And we even started trying to have a baby.
In new years eve he started complaining again that i avoid him and that if i loved him why shall we wait for 2 months and not move in right now? And that the next day that i will finish my masters he wants us to arrange a meeting for our families to meet each other so we can get engaged. He was angry, mean and he almost shouted to me. So i got angry and I told him he cannot talk about marriage and shout to me the same time and that he should leave me alone.
And he broke up with me
I lived with a Scorpio for five years. Never again!
Just keep reminding yourself that Scorpio (men) have a pacifier hanging around their neck. When they don't get their way, they yell, kick, scream, bang their heads on the floor, etc. Since he didn't get his way, he needed his "Mom to stick his binkey in his mouth." Scorpio (men) are also JEALOUS. He didn't want you to make more $ $ than he does. That's why he gave you an "ultimatum" (marry me NOW or I'll leave). He's probably the joke around his family/friends because you will be making more money than he will. Sorry. So sorry he left you just like that. He's sulking (sucking his right thumb since he lost his "binkey"). Others commented that this was/is the best thing that happened to you. I agree. He wanted something yesterday and you said, "No". Saying no to a Scorpio (man) causes them to throw fits. He was probably spoiled as a child and always got what he wanted; not from you. Good job! ^5 (high five), thank your LUCKY stars, and cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by SassyKiwiNo i am asking you are you a ScorpioPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by SassyKiwiAre you one?
Don't marry a scorpio. You will die. He did you a favor.
Are you asking if I'm hazardous? I'm not, I promise
I admit to it lolclick to expand
No, I got saved
If you're fighting and unable to make your relationship run at the same speed, just chalk it up as life experience. I couldn't see myself doing that, I'd just want to enjoy every moment I could with my significant other. Fighting is futile if it isn't for you, for your relationship. Love is not about the itinerary that you guys aren't following.
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