To scorpio women: How fast do U fall inlove?

Also, do you find yourselves building walls, for someone who cares enough to break them? (hope you know what i mean)! Im asking this because id like to know is it only me, or its our trait that make us maybe "panic" or "put our guards up" whenever someone tries to get close!

Thank you ladies!

Wow is all I can say. I have experienced exactly what you are talking about with a scorpio first hand. It seems like everytime I get close to my scorpio I would get pushed back and a wall goes up. Id try and try to break them down but everytime its like a new wall comes up whenever she felt like she may be getting close. Or even worse she looked for a reason to keep me away outside of those walls. I know I may not have the answer but I definitely have seen this before firsthand. I hope that whoever the person is that they manage to get through these walls and you let them in because ive seen some seriously loyal scorpios once they finally let a person in.

How fast do you fall in love?

Very fast.


How quickly would I express so?

Infinitesimally slow.


How long does it take for my walls to but crumble down and let vulnerability emerge?

Perhaps never? I jest. . . in reality, until they have proven themselves as much as I have, in our love, and in our commitment to each other. Although there is no fail - proof or safe strategy, it is a risk, difference being whether I believe it worthwhile or not, for the person and for what we have, together.

Each time it has happened for me it has been fast.

Used to be slow & careful about expressing my feelings but I have learned a very valuable lesson on keeping stuff to myself, so I have been working on that.

Getting much better with expressing. I figure what's the worst that can happen? I feel like a fool for a short time? So what!! It's better than spending days/weeks/months/years being miserable. 🙂

The whole walls thing kinda goes along with what I said above. I'm trying to be more open & trusting so unless you've given me a reason not to trust you, the walls can be easily scaled lol. 🙂

Also, if I think you're the right one, it's easy to get close to me, if you know how. It's all in how you treat me & what questions you ask, etc.

Posted by seapearl2014
Also, do you find yourselves building walls, for someone who cares enough to break them? (hope you know what i mean)! Im asking this because id like to know is it only me, or its our trait that make us maybe "panic" or "put our guards up" whenever someone tries to get close!

Thank you ladies!

So you meet someone one you fall for and are interested in, and you build a wall so they can't communicate which inevitably pushes them further away?

Does that make sense? Especially since communication is the key to any relationship?

It's one thing to be feeling someone out, it's another to play the "prove yourself to me" game.
Instead of building a potential relationship in your mind with someone and building a wall outwardly, why not go with the flow and feel it out to at least SEE where it can go with a real guage.

Posted by seapearl2014
Also, do you find yourselves building walls, for someone who cares enough to break them? (hope you know what i mean)! Im asking this because id like to know is it only me, or its our trait that make us maybe "panic" or "put our guards up" whenever someone tries to get close!

Thank you ladies!

I've never fallen in love. Its never happened because its never got to that stage I guess. I have go to know guys and each experience has been a disappointment in its own way.. The older I got and from the experience, I've put my guard up and use my humour or light bullyness as a defence. I know personally that I am soft at heart. I do get hurt easily by someone's negative actions/words, but eventually I get over it. I am a caring woman and I do go out of my way to help or do something out of the blue for someone. I am just waiting for someone that can break down my wall and figures me out.