totally confused by a scorpio man

i am a Sag girl, and was dating a scorpio man for about a month and a half...and we are not dating anymore because i finally just ended it because it was too freaking confusing for me!

this guy was gorgeous, had that whole scorp stare that i am reading about. thats why i was so drawn to him. he took me out to dinner like 4 times...but the thing is...he wouldn't ever follow up after a date unless i would text him or call to say hi first. now, i know that whole "he's not that into you" thing if the guy doesn't call...but this guy would be so happy to hear from me and ask me to dinner again and we'd go and he'd tell me that i was the only girl he was dating and that he liked me, etc. and then i wouldn't hear from him again for like a week or a week and a half...which was confusing. once i even called him to ask him if he still wanted to date and if not, just let me know...cuz i just like honesty (i'm a Sag girl...so it's not that big of a deal if he didn't want to keep dating, just tell me!).

and, well...i didn't sleep with him. which i thought maybe that's why he was weird, but to be honest i just wasn't ready because he was always sending me mixed signals so i didn't want to get myself into that situation where i'd want more and he was over it after sleeping with me. that was a catch-22.

he also said he had been hurt really bad two years ago and he was really closed off to a lot of stuff and he wasn't sure what he wanted with me--to be serious or not. and he also noticed the fact that i date a lot...which is true, i told him from the beginning that i was dating other people. i don't know if that scared him or not, but it didn't seem like he cared cuz he never really called. and he's 7 years older than me.

anyways...i can explain more, but that's all the info i have for now. can anyone shed some light on this scorpio guy?

thank god...there a people still out there who dont put out when there confused.

LOL..

how should I know where bling is??
U can ask Tanya though...

Tanya.

I was saying its nice to know she kept her legs closed and didnt think sex could solve the issue...
(if you read so many DXP "relationship" tales you'd understand...)

I appreciate your 'tsk tsk.. 😛

**giggles** @ egem.

Hi mgem!

Tanya...what were you thinking...(hope i dont regret asking)...

hmmmm....someones dreaming of bling eh...😛

purty.

He doesnt like to be sold, bling that is...I had a business and well...he didnt like it too much...

he threw a world class strop 😛


ooooh Tanya...nope wasnt talking about you...this time 😛

"he wouldn't ever follow up after a date unless i would text him or call to say hi first."

My advice to you from own experience----please do not be fooled by that. Scorp males are like that. I feel that the more special you are (for them), the greater the tendency to HIDE from you, all the while making it appear as if they are ignoring you and you just do not matter to them..

I do not know whether it is the case with this scorp. But if he were like mine, then this is the truth....so when you meet/talk, all the love and intesity spills out nonverbally, exposiing the vulnerability so efficiently hidden behind a mask of indifference.

🙂 just my humble view, my dear Emgem 🙂

Tanya.

It seems like you need a session on the cherry red couch...

Oohh! thank you dear 🙂 I am a 'bit' in to my work. But I do skim through the posts. But do not respond mainly due to lack of time.

But this is so similar to my situation 'earlier'. But I could feel like this only in this case, so I just remained there persistently, bearing a LOT and finally we have reached a compromise. And I know only too well, what that means to a scorp (him taking that HUGE laep of faith 🙂 And I respect that and would bear anything and go to any length for that....)

ummm ok...

well you need a session.

thank you...so many replies (to the actual topic, hahaha).

y'all are right...it's over so why ponder, but its hard when there's no closure.

tanya023--why did u post those lyrics? you know what's weird...when i was dating this scorpio, that's the song i would always play that made me think of him! weird!

archer-- i think you are dead on. but what confused me about him was that he didn't say that me dating other people bothered him. so i just thought it was okay.

topazwoman- thank you!!! for a while i struggle with whether i should be more patient with him or not, but i admire you for sticking with it. if i feel like i have to chase the guy, then i am done. i don't do it, i just let it go...which is what happened in this situation, but it's for the best.

thanks everyone for responding! moving on to the next!

or may be 'confused' in themselves