This is one reason i would still break up with a girl.
Issue I had with one of my ex's that I just threw out the window was somewhere around the middle of our two month relationship. At the time I kept in touch with a lot of people via text msg. just to talk etc.. So this girl got into a habit of taking my phone and looking at my text and phonebook contacts, I had no problem with that because I had nothing to hide and was able to justify any misunderstanding that might arise from such behavior. Then came a time where I started to take her phone and look threw her text msg. and she took such offence at this that we had a fierce argument of how I don't trust her, wtf, yayay, blah blaha and I ended up breaking my phone. So for the next week that we stayed together she would never let me touch her phone and we would always end up arguing over it, but when I got my new phone the next day she wanted to see what numbers I put in etc. Do you think she was cheating? Explain? And I will tell you what happened.
Perhaps she was. Or it could of been a 'privacy' issue. Some people don't like to share their personal stuff...me being one. It almost drives me insane if someone 'borrows' something of mine. On another note, I have this sort of weird mantra that if I wanted you to know, I would tell you. Doesn't mean I am hiding anything, it's just that I don't like having to explain myself to others.
Four-Eyes wrote: "if i had nothing to hide i wouldn't have minded at all, like you."
Wouldnt it be just fantastic if we had X-ray vision (no pun intended) and could look into all of our lovers communications - emails, IM's, text's, telephone calls, conversations, etc?
Or would it be?
And FEAR, whats up with breaking a cellphone over some chicks head? You got anger issues or something? lol
LMAO!!! Fear, I got this same reaction from my Scorp friend. He used to always try to pry and look at my phone. I could care less about his, but we weren't in a relationship. He would basically try and shove his in my face to prove he didn't have any unacceptable msgs or pics. However I didn't care. He did have a few booty shots of other women. But all I said was "wow nice ass. Where did you find that one?" LOL!!! He was testing me I am sure. Who the hell cares. I didn't like him looking through mine, but I didn't fight him about it. He saw tons of msgs from males, especially. Happy Thanks giving, christmas. How are you etc. These ofcourse were basically male platonic friends. Ofcourse he tried to make more of it. But who was he to ask? I definitely had nothing to hide.
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Issue I had with one of my ex's that I just threw out the window was somewhere around the middle of our two month relationship. At the time I kept in touch with a lot of people via text msg. just to talk etc.. So this girl got into a habit of taking my phone and looking at my text and phonebook contacts, I had no problem with that because I had nothing to hide and was able to justify any misunderstanding that might arise from such behavior. Then came a time where I started to take her phone and look threw her text msg. and she took such offence at this that we had a fierce argument of how I don't trust her, wtf, yayay, blah blaha and I ended up breaking my phone. So for the next week that we stayed together she would never let me touch her phone and we would always end up arguing over it, but when I got my new phone the next day she wanted to see what numbers I put in etc. Do you think she was cheating? Explain? And I will tell you what happened.