Two partners with Scorpio Moon

I am Pisces/Sun, Scorpio/Moon, he is Scorpio sun and moon. Both have emotional walls we can't seem to get over, fear of intimacy. Is this combo completely hopeless?

not hopeless, but requiring paitence/understanding. clear motives on both parts. what stage is your relationship at?

Posted by Lakshmi66
I am Pisces/Sun, Scorpio/Moon, he is Scorpio sun and moon. Both have emotional walls we can't seem to get over, fear of intimacy. Is this combo completely hopeless?

That surprises me that you are having trouble emotionally. First off because of your sun signs, and secondly, I would think the moon signs would be icing on the cake.

I agree with Qstorm. I met a cap with taurus moon and it was great. We understood each other perfectly emotionally. It was like I met the emotional male version of myself. After that experience I realized how heavenly it is to share the same moon sign! BUT it does have it's downfalls. The taurus moon makes us more stubborn and no one wants to give in. That is doubled by my scorp sun. Two scorp moons would probably be the same way, I would think.

Maybe it also has to do with other parts of your charts? Like venus, mars or mercury?

I bet you'll kill eachother 😛

Well, it's been an interesting ride. When we first met 4 years ago, I could not stand him. I found him aloof, arrogant, offensive, full of himself and generally annoying to be around. I had a serious aversion to him. He lives in another state and I did not see him again until nearly a year later. He came to teach a course (we are both teachers of meditation) in my city and I hosted him in my home. Strangely, I had a completely different experience of him and found that we connected quickly and were at ease with each other. I wasn't romantically attracted to him at all, but instead saw him as a friend and mentor (he is older than me), someone I really admired. It wasn't until almost a year later when he was back in my state that I began to have romantic feelings towards him. Our friendship grew closer and he became a great source of emotional support in my life as I was going through some major challenges. He would also confide in me and we have become close via talks on the phone and skype. He has been clearly flirtatious with me with those long scorpio stares, calling me to tell me how much he misses me, telling me I am magical and beautiful, yada yada yada. Everyone who sees us together feels the connection between us and assumes we're a couple. So, a little over a year ago, he was out of the country teaching and I sent a letter to him, black and white with my feelings about him. He responded that he adores me but is not interested in a relationship with me or anyone else as he is very committed to his spiritual path. So, I was sad, but accepted this. We continued as friends. Normally a guy would pull back a bit so as not to give the wrong impression. He redoubled his efforts by calling me more, spending more time with me, flirting more with words, eyes, touch and just being so loving and supportive in my life. I more confused and frustrated. A year after the first letter, I confronted him again and told him to declare himself. He says he has chosen the single life (meaning celibate, but he can't seem to say the word!). I know he does not behave this way with other women. We have many mutual friends and people are clearly clued in to the energy between us. We were both married and divorced previously. He had a very painful marriage that ended long ago and I feel he is hiding in his spiritual path to prevent himself from being hurt again. I feel like there is a tug of war between his head and heart. Wish I could walk away. Heart won't let me...

Our other signs if anyone can take a look:

Venus: I am Aquarious, he is Sagittarious
Mars: I am Aries, he is Capricorn
Mecury: I am Aries, he is Sagittarious

For those of you who believe in past lives, our charts show we have had a number of lives together which is why I initially had such an aversion to someone who was practically a stranger to me and later what really feels like unconditional love between us. Maybe it's only meant to be a spiritual connection and friendship, but the physical attraction is overpowering. Oy vey...

two scorp moons = stalemate

Posted by Lakshmi66
Well, it's been an interesting ride. When we first met 4 years ago, I could not stand him. I found him aloof, arrogant, offensive, full of himself and generally annoying to be around. I had a serious aversion to him.

that sounds so much like a scorp dude i used to talk to, how weird. i learned later all the arrogance/annoyance etc was a front though. i saw him as a mentor type at first too, but our friendship diminished; i didn't have the paitence for his barriers.

i'm sun pisces, scorp moon too. never checked his chart though.

think i agree with dmv, you'd have to both be on the same page emotionally, or else one's dragging the other down. i think you're spot on about him hiding in his spiritual path to avoid being hurt. and say there is a karmic link between you, don't know how the two of you would overcome that.

@DMV, Stalemate, that's what I was thinking... That's what it feels like to me. There is definitely strong karmic links between us. My guy who is very evolved spiritually (sees and intuits lots) says that we have had a lot of previous lives together. I recently had a reading done that said we both owe each other a karmic debt but also had lives of great friendship, unconditional love and uncomsumated love. Oy vey. I just need to buck-up and accept that he may never move past where he is and move on. That is far easier said than done, his presence and energy and this connection in general is like a drug for me. Must find the will-power to pull away and not get sucked in to the illusion.

Thanks for your input, nimbue, that he is likely hiding behind his spirituality. It's something beyond us he is fighting, he seems to be in a tug-of-war in this lifetime of celibate spiritual life vs. relationship. He started out as a Trappist monk, left that, married, divorced, now on a different spiritual path (eastern thought) but clearly so torn. I guess it's one of those situations of Scorpios swininging from one extreme to another.

Thanks for the input, Ellybd. Wow. I had no idea declaration of celibacy was a Scorpio thing! The crazy thing is that he and I are both on the same spiritual path, both teachers of meditation, etc, and I have no desire to pull him away from his path but want to walk with him on it. You are totally right though, I get that it needs to be 100% his idea/decision or it will blow up in my face. This is me, running the other direction!!

Posted by Lakshmi66
@DMV, Stalemate, that's what I was thinking... That's what it feels like to me. There is definitely strong karmic links between us. My guy who is very evolved spiritually (sees and intuits lots) says that we have had a lot of previous lives together. I recently had a reading done that said we both owe each other a karmic debt but also had lives of great friendship, unconditional love and uncomsumated love. Oy vey. I just need to buck-up and accept that he may never move past where he is and move on. That is far easier said than done, his presence and energy and this connection in general is like a drug for me. Must find the will-power to pull away and not get sucked in to the illusion.

Thanks for your input, nimbue, that he is likely hiding behind his spirituality. It's something beyond us he is fighting, he seems to be in a tug-of-war in this lifetime of celibate spiritual life vs. relationship. He started out as a Trappist monk, left that, married, divorced, now on a different spiritual path (eastern thought) but clearly so torn. I guess it's one of those situations of Scorpios swininging from one extreme to another.

you're welcome 🙂 i dunno, it's a bit out there but if you relax and let things unfold...that would be more emotionally manageable. if you're on the right path, you'll see indicators of that...and even if it doesn't come to pass, at least you will have had an amazing experience with a person who speaks to you on every level. that's pretty rare.

but again, easier said than done 🙂

scorpio moons dont relax...

Haha! DMV, I have been trying to relax about this, the minute I think I am cool and detached, something transpires that sucks me right back in. I am living in the village of the damned! LOL! Will be seeing him in a couple of weeks, this will be interesting. Cool and detached, cool and detached - my new mantra

lol. im a scorp moon.


"cool and detached." yeah, sure keep telling yourself that. 🙂

Posted by DMV
scorpio moons dont relax...

true that. i'd swap my scorp moon for a libra any day of the week :p

i mean really, when someone is ony my brain...i cant relax with them in the same room or when theyre not around.

everything's too damn intense. but you're sagittarius, right dmv? that must take a load off...

My thoughts lean towards obsessive with him. My only consolation is that since he is a Scorp Sun/Moon, he is probably obsessing as much as me in his own weird way. I think the energy between us is so intense that it draws him in and then freaks him out. I guess I just have to let this thing play its course to fizzle out, explode in my face or turn into the most incredible connection of this lifetime.

Thanks for all the support, my fellow scorpio moons.

Posted by nimbue
everything's too damn intense. but you're sagittarius, right dmv? that must take a load off...

yes it does, if i dont give 2 donkeys about the person. but when im emotionally invested, its all moon.

Posted by Lakshmi66
My thoughts lean towards obsessive with him. My only consolation is that since he is a Scorp Sun/Moon, he is probably obsessing as much as me in his own weird way. I think the energy between us is so intense that it draws him in and then freaks him out. I guess I just have to let this thing play its course to fizzle out, explode in my face or turn into the most incredible connection of this lifetime.

Thanks for all the support, my fellow scorpio moons.

so hes a double whammy. yeah hes doing alot of thinking.

i used to mess with a scorp who had a venus and mercury in sag and they would show up here and there. hes used humor alot to get out his feelings. his flirtatious style is playful..

maybe keep that in mind...

@DMV, yep, my guy uses humor a lot, often twisted humor which I LOVE. He is often very playful in his flirtation but can be very sultry and gentle, too. He just may send me to the loony bin.

he will...lol

Will be seeing him on his turf in early Sept - going to take a course he is teaching but then will spend some one-on-one time with him. This will be a first and an interesting experience since he will be in his domain. I am taking him up on some "revenge pampering" he promised me. One step closer to the nice young men in their clean white coats to haul me off in a straight jacket to the loony bin! LOL

Posted by DMV
two scorp moons = stalemate

Right! Lol

Interesting. I have wondered what it would be like to be romantically involved with another person with this placement.

its kinda like, youll both be suspicious of one another...for a very long time. who will jump first? who will lay their cards on the table first? who will give up control?

yeah I'm learning it's a fuck load of ups and downs....... but seems worth it when it works.....

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Posted by Lobo
yeah I'm learning it's a fuck load of ups and downs....... but seems worth it when it works.....

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reality pulled me away... but I've missed this mental ward that is DXP lol sup Dazed!!!!