Two scorpios

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Foreign_flower on Friday, January 20, 2017 and has 5 replies.
I and my bestie both scorpios were super close for more than a year. Great connection like with nobody else in my life before. He is a guy, I am a girl , both on our late 20s. We would fight but always make it up in few hours. The thing is that I somehow always got the feeling that something else was going on besides our friendship.. we never got closer than just a hug physically tho. If I tried to friend zone him he would always try to get out of this zone but would never move forward for a relationship because of reasons I don't want to share. Any way.. he is dating this girl he is not in love with but it's kind of convenient for him right now( he gets some benefits out of it). He went almost silent for 3 weeks and then told me his gf is pregnant. We fought a lot!! I said that I can't believe that he got her pregnant so he can get the benefits he was after being with her and he went crazy.. told me to erase his number and never text him again!! He gave me so much hate for what I said.. he said I hurted him a lot and he won't let it happened again.. I don't know.. he would be jealous and possessive over me and called me my love while he is still with her and now he wants me to move on only because of what I said.. is this realistic at all!! I don't want to be a drama queen.. either way he will have a kid from his gf and I have to back off but he blames it all on me.. I just don't understand the real reason of him being mad only because of what I said. He would have explain it to me and not telling me to f@ck off since we were so close
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Seems like he is still immature, both in his sign and just in general. He will come back, we all do. However, why be bothered of what he does with his partner, you can still be his friend even tho he knocked up some girl he says he does not like (likely a lie since scorpios kinda fall in love with something about everyone and need other people).
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He sounds like a baby
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Posted by SofiaV87
He sounds like a baby
We usually are xD
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When a male Scorpio is upset by something you said that didn't seem that bad to you, logic says " why are you so upset about this simple comment??" When all the while they are thinking "how the F#% did that come out of your mouth!!!" What must be considered is He is in a situation where he may be trying to do the right thing even if he is in love with you. He will carry the burden of having his heart somewhere else and trying to be a stand up guy with his gf only because she is pregnant. Scorpios are responsible and dependable and these qualities connect them with ppl they do not necessarily "love" because they will carry what they feel they got themselves in to and try to fix it/make it right.

My Scorpio male friend once said he would get back together with a recent ex if she became pregnant, even if you had a gf, because he did not have a father growing up and he would lie in the bed he made, because his child deserved a family.

So when you made that comment that anger swelled up from you not knowing all the facts to his decision and love or not, simple things can make you be the enemy and they will attack hard, with no regard to how long/deeply they loved or knew you just like a stranger in the street trying to harm them.

All you can do is apologize and buy him some baby items and put the ball in his court, if you want to mend things. Depending on his personality and pattern he may come around eventually.

That will show him you are NOT JUDGING but supportive and a true friend. They hate be judged or you throw shame in their face.
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