Update: Can I break the silence and earn his forgiveness?

Posted by GirlyATL12

I wanted to clarify some things from my first post. The male is the scorpio. And we were in a FWB situation well I assume it was which I had no issue with when we matched on the site I asked what type of relationship he was looking for and he said whatever happens happens. I never have sex the first time I meet with a guy but the attraction was so intense it just happened. We were really addicted to each other and he always asked for more. I was very inexperienced and he loves teaching me everything and loves I was willing to do anything he asked and let him take control. Also I agree that I should’ve told him that I needed space or what I was going through but the sex made me feel better temporarily and he gave me my first orgasms from intercourse and I wanted more, I let my lust cloud my judgment. I also I thought I could handle my grief and stayed strong, I was doing fine for awhile, working a lot and having sex with him distracted me, it wasn’t until my job shut down and I was sitting a home was when I started to wallow in my negative thoughts. Regret over not visiting those family members in the past years when i had a chance, angry that my wonderful mom was suffering and I couldn’t do anything about it. Angry about the pandemic. And a few days after we last met up, I saw a old pic of one of the family members who passed and I had a breakdown. I cried so bad and I was sad and angry and he sent me a text and I snapped for no reason. I snapped on other friends too.


I so a few days after my original post I used my sisters phone (cause he blocked me) and told him that I wrote him a letter explaining everything that I should’ve told him. And I briefly explained what I was going through. I mentioned how all I can ask is for his forgiveness and I hope that I can get at least a few minutes of his time to apologize in person. I sent a gift with the letter and i sent him a pic to show him what it was. The mail on our city has been getting delayed and lost cause of covid and I wanted to let him know I sent something. He responded after I sent the pic and said we can talk when he gets back from vacation, he’s been outside of the country.


I hope it’s a good sign that he wants to talk in person. Or maybe he’s gonna break it off in person. I’d rather he do it over the phone but i appreciate it anyway. I’m nervous to face him, I’ve never lashed out on anyone before in my life, I’ve always been a nice person. I don’t know how I should approach him. I want to hug him and apologize but I don’t want to make him uncomfortable. The grief counseling has helped drastically. They helped me find ways to cope and find closure. I was also able to afford a plane ticket to visit back home and say goodbye at their graves. I feel so much better and I’m still focusing on myself. My mom is still the same but I vow to stay strong for her. I hope me and the scorpio can work things out.

Posted by Marai

That he is willing to talk in person and hear you out is a good sign I think. Just be honest about it all, no hiding, he will appreciate that.


I'm glad things are a bit better now. Take this time to focus on yourself and your mom for a bit. She needs you 🙂

Posted by sweethearts

This isn’t a dig at you, it’s an observation but you stated he was a FWB which you mutually decided. I think for you, it’s a lot more than that and I think you need to admit that to yourself first and before meeting with him so you know what it is you are asking him for.

Posted by sweethearts

This isn’t a dig at you, it’s an observation but you stated he was a FWB which you mutually decided. I think for you, it’s a lot more than that and I think you need to admit that to yourself first and before meeting with him so you know what it is you are asking him for.

Posted by sweethearts

If you say so, you’d know but I’ve had a FWB and haven’t had this much emotion or concern with any of them. In fact the only time we met up was to meet have a few drinks/dinner and then sex and then leaving straight after. No texting or keeping in contact afterwards.

Posted by bad_at_usernames

He agreed to talk definitely means he's gonna try to make things better. Till then, focus on yourself, try to stop worrying about him. If he feels for you/wants you then he will forgive you for what you did. You didn't do anything unforgivable.

Also, I've realized during my time on dxp, if you're down plz do not come on dxp to help you feel better. People only support strong people here who don't giving a fuck about anything or anyone. If you're weak and emotional, they'll only actively work their assess off to bring you further down.

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Posted by bad_at_usernames

He agreed to talk definitely means he's gonna try to make things better. Till then, focus on yourself, try to stop worrying about him. If he feels for you/wants you then he will forgive you for what you did. You didn't do anything unforgivable.

Also, I've realized during my time on dxp, if you're down plz do not come on dxp to help you feel better. People only support strong people here who don't giving a fuck about anything or anyone. If you're weak and emotional, they'll only actively work their assess off to bring you further down.

Bravo! Weak need not to apply.

However if you are genuinely down and seeking clarification - people here WILL...TRY helping you.


It’s when you turning into not listening little bitch who ‘actually knew it all’ - you’ll get your ass handed to you on a cheapest paper plate...that won’t be able to hold all shit so it’ll run all over you...and will make you wish you had never came here again...so most delete and come back as they’ve never been here before. Good luck!

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He agreed to talk definitely means he's gonna try to make things better. Till then, focus on yourself, try to stop worrying about him. If he feels for you/wants you then he will forgive you for what you did. You didn't do anything unforgivable.

Also, I've realized during my time on dxp, if you're down plz do not come on dxp to help you feel better. People only support strong people here who don't giving a fuck about anything or anyone. If you're weak and emotional, they'll only actively work their assess off to bring you further down.

Bravo! Weak need not to apply.

However if you are genuinely down and seeking clarification - people here WILL...TRY helping you.


It’s when you turning into not listening little bitch who ‘actually knew it all’ - you’ll get your ass handed to you on a cheapest paper plate...that won’t be able to hold all shit so it’ll run all over you...and will make you wish you had never came here again...so most delete and come back as they’ve never been here before. Good luck!

That or you guys are genuinely vile creatures no matter what bullshit way you try to explain your bitterness in, I do not see any humanity in lashing out on a person who's already down. Do you do that to the people you love? Ohh yes, you do!!

Don’t let the door to hit you on your way OUT!


It’s a hint that NOBODY need you here. This forum is decades old and it’s been without you and it’ll BE without you.

If you DONT SEE humanity here - it’s because there aren’t any OR (most likely) you are a whiny little bitch and you need a shoulder to cry on and it’s a wrong place to cry. And REMEMBER - there is an EXIT sign - right where you looking AT!

You come here and accusing Dxp if not having humanity? Where there any promises?

Where does it say

DXPnet - WE ARE THE FACE OF HUMANITY!

NOWHERE!!! It doesn’t say this shit NOWHERE!

So...ever ridden an elephant? Do they like being ridden? Just trying to be social...🤔😂😂😂

Tati, calm down woman 😂

I just BEGGED dog to poop! And she laughed at me and rolled in a wet grass...then she pooped but I was already all ripped in shreds.

Calm down my ass!!! 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

😂😂😂


Leave your dog alone and let him do his business in peace.

ITS A GIRL!!! 🧟‍♀️

ITS A GIRL!!!

BITCH!!! Her name is...Emily Elisabeth Jr.

🤦‍♀️

Why would you do that to her? 😲

Me? It’s Aries! And who even knows why are they doing anything? 🤷‍♀️

Why is he hugging me with both hands in my neck?

Why doesn’t he wake up when alarm goes OFF to walk a dog? 🧟‍♀️

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He agreed to talk definitely means he's gonna try to make things better. Till then, focus on yourself, try to stop worrying about him. If he feels for you/wants you then he will forgive you for what you did. You didn't do anything unforgivable.

Also, I've realized during my time on dxp, if you're down plz do not come on dxp to help you feel better. People only support strong people here who don't giving a fuck about anything or anyone. If you're weak and emotional, they'll only actively work their assess off to bring you further down.

Bravo! Weak need not to apply.

However if you are genuinely down and seeking clarification - people here WILL...TRY helping you.


It’s when you turning into not listening little bitch who ‘actually knew it all’ - you’ll get your ass handed to you on a cheapest paper plate...that won’t be able to hold all shit so it’ll run all over you...and will make you wish you had never came here again...so most delete and come back as they’ve never been here before. Good luck!

That or you guys are genuinely vile creatures no matter what bullshit way you try to explain your bitterness in, I do not see any humanity in lashing out on a person who's already down. Do you do that to the people you love? Ohh yes, you do!!

Don’t let the door to hit you on your way OUT!


It’s a hint that NOBODY need you here. This forum is decades old and it’s been without you and it’ll BE without you.

If you DONT SEE humanity here - it’s because there aren’t any OR (most likely) you are a whiny little bitch and you need a shoulder to cry on and it’s a wrong place to cry. And REMEMBER - there is an EXIT sign - right where you looking AT!

You come here and accusing Dxp if not having humanity? Where there any promises?

Where does it say

DXPnet - WE ARE THE FACE OF HUMANITY!

NOWHERE!!! It doesn’t say this shit NOWHERE!

So...ever ridden an elephant? Do they like being ridden? Just trying to be social...🤔😂😂😂

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Posted by bad_at_usernames

He agreed to talk definitely means he's gonna try to make things better. Till then, focus on yourself, try to stop worrying about him. If he feels for you/wants you then he will forgive you for what you did. You didn't do anything unforgivable.

Also, I've realized during my time on dxp, if you're down plz do not come on dxp to help you feel better. People only support strong people here who don't giving a fuck about anything or anyone. If you're weak and emotional, they'll only actively work their assess off to bring you further down.

Bravo! Weak need not to apply.

However if you are genuinely down and seeking clarification - people here WILL...TRY helping you.


It’s when you turning into not listening little bitch who ‘actually knew it all’ - you’ll get your ass handed to you on a cheapest paper plate...that won’t be able to hold all shit so it’ll run all over you...and will make you wish you had never came here again...so most delete and come back as they’ve never been here before. Good luck!

That or you guys are genuinely vile creatures no matter what bullshit way you try to explain your bitterness in, I do not see any humanity in lashing out on a person who's already down. Do you do that to the people you love? Ohh yes, you do!!

Don’t let the door to hit you on your way OUT!


It’s a hint that NOBODY need you here. This forum is decades old and it’s been without you and it’ll BE without you.

If you DONT SEE humanity here - it’s because there aren’t any OR (most likely) you are a whiny little bitch and you need a shoulder to cry on and it’s a wrong place to cry. And REMEMBER - there is an EXIT sign - right where you looking AT!

You come here and accusing Dxp if not having humanity? Where there any promises?

Where does it say

DXPnet - WE ARE THE FACE OF HUMANITY!

NOWHERE!!! It doesn’t say this shit NOWHERE!

So...ever ridden an elephant? Do they like being ridden? Just trying to be social...🤔😂😂😂

Tati, calm down woman 😂

I just BEGGED dog to poop! And she laughed at me and rolled in a wet grass...then she pooped but I was already all ripped in shreds.

Calm down my ass!!! 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

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Posted by bad_at_usernames

He agreed to talk definitely means he's gonna try to make things better. Till then, focus on yourself, try to stop worrying about him. If he feels for you/wants you then he will forgive you for what you did. You didn't do anything unforgivable.

Also, I've realized during my time on dxp, if you're down plz do not come on dxp to help you feel better. People only support strong people here who don't giving a fuck about anything or anyone. If you're weak and emotional, they'll only actively work their assess off to bring you further down.

Thanks for your advice and encouragement. Honestly I didn’t think it was abnormal to care about your FWB. I don’t love him and I’m fine with our arrangement, I still go on dates. But if I hurt anyone in anyway I’m gonna feel bad. He did not deserve to be cursed out or to hear the mean things I said. When he was always patient and nice to me. I don’t like being mean to anyone so of course I feel extreme remorse. I’m not worrying like I did before. I haven’t bothered him at all since his last message and I don’t plan on to. I’m getting better and focusing on myself also

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Posted by pinkbird03

You don’t create a thread on a guy who’s just a friend (with benefits). You have deep feelings about him and you miss the feeling of security you had with him being there for you.


But the dude blocked you.... he doesn’t care. If he does reach out, it most likely won’t be the same relationship you had before. Will take a lot of rebuilding. Hope you have a plan for that.

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Posted by sweethearts

This isn’t a dig at you, it’s an observation but you stated he was a FWB which you mutually decided. I think for you, it’s a lot more than that and I think you need to admit that to yourself first and before meeting with him so you know what it is you are asking him for.

All I’m asking from him is forgiveness and if he would like to continue our sexual relationship when I’m 100 percent back to my normal self

Aaawww...it’s so sad...you fell in love and you don’t know it...

You can fix it. But only if he gives a damn about you. And I wish I could be more positive but Scorpios offering to cook doesn’t mean a damn thing...I first went BINGO! (Because I have a soft spot for stingers) then I remembered that cooking isn’t a love language for them...

His willingness to talk in my opinion - he might loved sex with you and upon return he might had decided why not? So you have a chance...


However he saw your rage. And if it was really bad as you had described - he won’t forget it!

Scorpios (unlike Aries) don’t welcome disturbance of their world and remember forever.


Anyway good luck to you and I am feeling you CAN make it work on his terms. Just remember - your problems aren’t his and DONT tell him a long story of why you snapped. That will turn him off. And don’t apologize like if you’ve killed his pet...

That’s also a turn off.


Run your chart at groupovenus and it might tell you what grave mistakes to avoid. 👍

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He agreed to talk definitely means he's gonna try to make things better. Till then, focus on yourself, try to stop worrying about him. If he feels for you/wants you then he will forgive you for what you did. You didn't do anything unforgivable.

Also, I've realized during my time on dxp, if you're down plz do not come on dxp to help you feel better. People only support strong people here who don't giving a fuck about anything or anyone. If you're weak and emotional, they'll only actively work their assess off to bring you further down.

Bravo! Weak need not to apply.

However if you are genuinely down and seeking clarification - people here WILL...TRY helping you.


It’s when you turning into not listening little bitch who ‘actually knew it all’ - you’ll get your ass handed to you on a cheapest paper plate...that won’t be able to hold all shit so it’ll run all over you...and will make you wish you had never came here again...so most delete and come back as they’ve never been here before. Good luck!

That or you guys are genuinely vile creatures no matter what bullshit way you try to explain your bitterness in, I do not see any humanity in lashing out on a person who's already down. Do you do that to the people you love? Ohh yes, you do!!

Don’t let the door to hit you on your way OUT!


It’s a hint that NOBODY need you here. This forum is decades old and it’s been without you and it’ll BE without you.

If you DONT SEE humanity here - it’s because there aren’t any OR (most likely) you are a whiny little bitch and you need a shoulder to cry on and it’s a wrong place to cry. And REMEMBER - there is an EXIT sign - right where you looking AT!

You come here and accusing Dxp if not having humanity? Where there any promises?

Where does it say

DXPnet - WE ARE THE FACE OF HUMANITY!

NOWHERE!!! It doesn’t say this shit NOWHERE!

So...ever ridden an elephant? Do they like being ridden? Just trying to be social...🤔😂😂😂

Tati, calm down woman 😂

I just BEGGED dog to poop! And she laughed at me and rolled in a wet grass...then she pooped but I was already all ripped in shreds.

Calm down my ass!!! 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

😂😂😂


Leave your dog alone and let him do his business in peace.

ITS A GIRL!!! 🧟‍♀️

ITS A GIRL!!!

BITCH!!! Her name is...Emily Elisabeth Jr.

🤦‍♀️

Why would you do that to her? 😲

Me? It’s Aries! And who even knows why are they doing anything? 🤷‍♀️

Why is he hugging me with both hands in my neck?

Why doesn’t he wake up when alarm goes OFF to walk a dog? 🧟‍♀️

Not getting up when the alarm goes off 😡 Aries thing?? So annoying to hear the alarm go off 6 times.. at least I got him to stop using the duck sound. That was the worst one. It’s now barking dogs and motorcycles.

Lmao...you know - he is VERY responsible because he is a dad and all...but when I am here he gets all relaxed. And I said a few weeks ago - I am ain’t walking the dog in this weather!

And today is the first time he didn’t get up.

But yeah...I am listening to the music...alarm symphonies!

Duck sound??? 😂😂😂😂

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Posted by pinkbird03

You don’t create a thread on a guy who’s just a friend (with benefits). You have deep feelings about him and you miss the feeling of security you had with him being there for you.


But the dude blocked you.... he doesn’t care. If he does reach out, it most likely won’t be the same relationship you had before. Will take a lot of rebuilding. Hope you have a plan for that.

I don’t have feelings for him I created a thread for someone that I had great sex with and I feel horrible for treating like shit when he didn’t do anything wrong to me. I said horrible things to him when I was going through my issues. And I’m never a mean person so I felt extremely bad about it. And we just had sex, that’s it so I didn’t feel a since of security around him. I don’t blame him for blocking me, I said horrible things to him and I never told him the crap I was going through

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Posted by pinkbird03

You don’t create a thread on a guy who’s just a friend (with benefits). You have deep feelings about him and you miss the feeling of security you had with him being there for you.


But the dude blocked you.... he doesn’t care. If he does reach out, it most likely won’t be the same relationship you had before. Will take a lot of rebuilding. Hope you have a plan for that.

I don’t have feelings for him I created a thread for someone that I had great sex with and I feel horrible for treating like shit when he didn’t do anything wrong to me. I said horrible things to him when I was going through my issues. And I’m never a mean person so I felt extremely bad about it. And we just had sex, that’s it so I didn’t feel a since of security around him. I don’t blame him for blocking me, I said horrible things to him and I never told him the crap I was going through

You wrote him a letter. All these things are something someone in love does. Never for a fwb that’s why it’s bizarre. You said you were sorry and he responded instead of ghosting. Take that as a sign of forgiveness and stop dwelling on it. It’s all good.

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Posted by pinkbird03

You don’t create a thread on a guy who’s just a friend (with benefits). You have deep feelings about him and you miss the feeling of security you had with him being there for you.


But the dude blocked you.... he doesn’t care. If he does reach out, it most likely won’t be the same relationship you had before. Will take a lot of rebuilding. Hope you have a plan for that.

I don’t have feelings for him I created a thread for someone that I had great sex with and I feel horrible for treating like shit when he didn’t do anything wrong to me. I said horrible things to him when I was going through my issues. And I’m never a mean person so I felt extremely bad about it. And we just had sex, that’s it so I didn’t feel a since of security around him. I don’t blame him for blocking me, I said horrible things to him and I never told him the crap I was going through

You wrote him a letter. All these things are something someone in love does. Never for a fwb that’s why it’s bizarre. You said you were sorry and he responded instead of ghosting. Take that as a sign of forgiveness and stop dwelling on it. It’s all good.

After I lashed out on everyone, friends/family/acquaintances some people blocked me cause I was being so mean. I wrote letters to the people I was blocked by cause I couldn’t get in contact with them. Ik also a big writer and love to write and I’m good at it so I chose to write letters to those people. I felt very bad for what I did. Doesn’t mean I’m in love, he had me blocked completely at first so I wrote him a letter

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He agreed to talk definitely means he's gonna try to make things better. Till then, focus on yourself, try to stop worrying about him. If he feels for you/wants you then he will forgive you for what you did. You didn't do anything unforgivable.

Also, I've realized during my time on dxp, if you're down plz do not come on dxp to help you feel better. People only support strong people here who don't giving a fuck about anything or anyone. If you're weak and emotional, they'll only actively work their assess off to bring you further down.

Bravo! Weak need not to apply.

However if you are genuinely down and seeking clarification - people here WILL...TRY helping you.


It’s when you turning into not listening little bitch who ‘actually knew it all’ - you’ll get your ass handed to you on a cheapest paper plate...that won’t be able to hold all shit so it’ll run all over you...and will make you wish you had never came here again...so most delete and come back as they’ve never been here before. Good luck!

That or you guys are genuinely vile creatures no matter what bullshit way you try to explain your bitterness in, I do not see any humanity in lashing out on a person who's already down. Do you do that to the people you love? Ohh yes, you do!!

Don’t let the door to hit you on your way OUT!


It’s a hint that NOBODY need you here. This forum is decades old and it’s been without you and it’ll BE without you.

If you DONT SEE humanity here - it’s because there aren’t any OR (most likely) you are a whiny little bitch and you need a shoulder to cry on and it’s a wrong place to cry. And REMEMBER - there is an EXIT sign - right where you looking AT!

You come here and accusing Dxp if not having humanity? Where there any promises?

Where does it say

DXPnet - WE ARE THE FACE OF HUMANITY!

NOWHERE!!! It doesn’t say this shit NOWHERE!

So...ever ridden an elephant? Do they like being ridden? Just trying to be social...🤔😂😂😂

Great you're atleast sound enough to accept your asshole-ness. You're proving my point with every comment you post. Thanks😍😍😍😍😍

And don’t forget that MY life goes in regardless of your acceptance or rejection. Because I don’t give a shit about being rejected by rejects.

And stuck those emojis up your ass! 🖕

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Posted by sweethearts

This isn’t a dig at you, it’s an observation but you stated he was a FWB which you mutually decided. I think for you, it’s a lot more than that and I think you need to admit that to yourself first and before meeting with him so you know what it is you are asking him for.

All I’m asking from him is forgiveness and if he would like to continue our sexual relationship when I’m 100 percent back to my normal self

Aaawww...it’s so sad...you fell in love and you don’t know it...

You can fix it. But only if he gives a damn about you. And I wish I could be more positive but Scorpios offering to cook doesn’t mean a damn thing...I first went BINGO! (Because I have a soft spot for stingers) then I remembered that cooking isn’t a love language for them...

His willingness to talk in my opinion - he might loved sex with you and upon return he might had decided why not? So you have a chance...


However he saw your rage. And if it was really bad as you had described - he won’t forget it!

Scorpios (unlike Aries) don’t welcome disturbance of their world and remember forever.


Anyway good luck to you and I am feeling you CAN make it work on his terms. Just remember - your problems aren’t his and DONT tell him a long story of why you snapped. That will turn him off. And don’t apologize like if you’ve killed his pet...

That’s also a turn off.


Run your chart at groupovenus and it might tell you what grave mistakes to avoid. 👍

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For entertainment purposes only:


All those dark, brooding, monosyllabic types, who fill the pages of cheap romantic novels with their strong jaws and piercing eyes, are Scorpios. You know the story: boy meets girl. Boy tortures girl because of a series of very silly misunderstandings and because he enjoys it. Girl becomes a psychological wreck. Boy sweeps girl into his arms and mumbles something about undying love. (He has to sweep her into his arms because by this stage the poor woman has completely fallen apart.). This is where the book ends. There is a very good reason for this. Mills & Boon know what is to come is far too awful to be published. Yet, this paperback ideal of love still manages to override the common sense of most women. We find the strong, silent, manipulative type irresistible. And we sit prettily on our hope chests with our long auburn curls in charming disarray, waiting breathlessly with much fluttering of eyelashes for Scorpio to stride into our lives. (NB: Romantic heroes never walk, they always stride – manfully and purposefully. Its dreadfully tiring for them, and its one of the reasons why they are so moody and irritable.) And once a Scorpio bastard arrives? Well, there’s nothing like a spot of good-old-fashioned-bodice-ripping to get things started. Just swoon gracefully into his arms and let him have his wicked way with you. Then have your head examined.


The strong, silent type is what you should look for when purchasing white goods. Whilst these are desirable attributes in a washing machine, you won’t enjoy them in Scorpio. He is strong. Much stronger than you. Which means when there’s a fight, you’ll lose. And he is silent. Which means communication within the relationship is going to be a little one-sided. Holding back information is actually one of his favourite pastimes. Mostly because it upsets you. Well, what did you expect? Anyone described as “dark” and “brooding” is not going to be a naturally open, caring, sharing person. And Scorpio has a dark side that makes Darth Vader look like Mr. Whippy. As for brooding ability, he leaves Heathcliffe out on the moors: he’ll hold a grudge against you until the day you die. And your death will only appease him a little. However, you’ll never even know he has a grudge against you. A Scorpio bastard won’t confront you openly. That would be too much like fair play. He’s more likely to watch and wait – decades if necessary – for the chance to launch an attack when you’re not paying attention. And when it finally hits, it’ll make a stealth bomber look weak and clumsy.


Unfortunately, because of the amount of literature (if books featuring Fabio on the cover, count as literature) you’ve absorbed, you’ll class all his behavior as normal. You’ll revel in all the angst. Being miserable all the time must mean it’s true love. This is all so romantic. You’ll even be flattered by his possessiveness (despite the fact that you’re not allowed to go anywhere of see anyone). It means he can’t bear to be without you. Of course, he can’t bear to be with you either – not when there are still so many things wrong with you.


He’ll manipulate you until you become exactly what he wants you to be. Then he’ll lose respect for you, as you’re so easily manipulated. Then he’ll start looking around for someone else to manipulate. This is when you start looking around too. For reputable psychiatric help. Because, in the midst of torturing you, Scorpio will suddenly turn into a model of gentleness and consideration. He’ll even be kind to animals (standard behavior for all romantic hero types – designed to suck you into believing they have a soft, sensitive side). Don’t be fooled. Its just part if the callous game he’s playing with your mental and emotional health. His objective is to annihilate you. But if he can make you believe he is capable of such an act, it makes it all so much more fun when he actually does destroy you.


And destroy you he will. This is what Scorpio does best. And besides, its how he likes to spend his spare time. Once you are a broken mess on the floor he’ll pick you up and glue the pieces, so you are whole once more, and he can start all over again. He takes his hobby very seriously. It brings him hours of enjoyment and allows him to explore his destructive talents. And you’ll get something out of it too. A hobby of your own: a lifelong obsession with him. Which allows you to spend your spare time in expensive 12-step programs undergoing extensive counselling. Check into group therapy when you find yourself getting upset just because he is sleeping with other women. It’s really none of your business. You are only his girlfriend / wife / mother of his children. And anyway, you’ll meet his mistress soon enough when she joins the group after she discovers he is doing the same thing to her. Then you can console each other about your mutual stupidity. You’ll both be introduced to a nationwide Unhealthily Obsessed Co-dependant Support Network for Women who have dated Scorpio. It comes with a 24-hour hotline, which you’ll put to very good use. (This is a free-of-charge service, one of many sponsored by the Aspiring Romantic Novelists Association who use it for research purposes.)


The reason Scorpio inspires such obsessive behavior is because he is so obsessive himself – about sex. He thinks about it twice as much as other men, which basically means it’s on his mind all the time. Which makes him the blueprint for the complete and utter bastard. Which in turn, makes women think he’s sexy. Which therefore means he really can’t help but catch one or two of the airborne little-black-dress-clad oestrogen packages continually heading his way. (Warning: Don’t be tempted to have an affair yourself to get back at your Scorpio bastard. Right now, you’re in no emotional state to witness a jealous streak the size of the San Andreas Fault. This is probably unnecessary advice, as you won’t have time between those ever-increasing therapy sessions and that compulsive shopping habit you recently developed. And, lets face it, the nervous twitch and chronic alcoholism aren’t exactly going to be attracting men in droves.)


If it helps your sanity, blame the other poor, obsessed women. Or their therapists. Or the government. Or, better yet, blame yourself. No one forced you to read all those ridiculous love stories. You wanted a club-wielding, hair-dragging, heroic bastard. You’ve got him. Now you have to live with him. So, just throw yourself into his arms or under the next passing truck. Either way, the ending will be the same.


HOW TO SPOT ONE

When a Scorpio bastard looks at you, you will feel a strong urge to shed your underwear. He will have this baffling effect upon you, even if you’re in a very public place and you find him most unattractive.


WHERE TO FIND ONE

Follow the trail of emotional wrecks to his door. Or, better still, let him find you. Because then, at least, you won’t be the one who started the relationship which ruined your life.


HOW TO INTRIGUE ONE

Be sunny and happy and full of life. He won’t be able to resist the challenge of luring you into the pits of hell. Once there, just be whatever he wants you to be. Holding onto your personality will only cause you a lot of unnecessary pain.


THE FIRST DATE

Scorpio will charm you into submission. Or else he’ll worm his way into your life and affections without you noticing – like cancer or some other terminal disease. And after just one date, he’ll know everything there is to know about you, and you’ll know absolutely nothing about him. This sets the tone for the entire relationship.


WHEN TO DO THE DEED

Because Scorpio has so many hidden agendas, you’ll never be able to pick the right time. So go to bed when he wants to, generally just after you’ve been introduced. (Tip: When you do it, make like a porn star, but somehow give the impression you’ve never done it before.)


WHEN TO POP THE QUESTION

When you feel the inclination to do this, have yourself committed.


IF HE DROPS YOU

Trying to exact revenge will only serve to amuse Scorpio, as your attempts will seem so amateur. Besides, he’ll be flattered he still has total control over your emotions and your life. On the other hand, running after him, doing your best impersonation of a doormat will only invite him to clean his boots on you. Don’t waste your energy. You’ll need it over the next few years, just to get through therapy.


IF YOU DROP HIM

He’ll get over it. If, however, he thinks you’ve slighted him, its best to watch out for yourself and take extra precautions for the next ten or 20 years – at least.

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He agreed to talk definitely means he's gonna try to make things better. Till then, focus on yourself, try to stop worrying about him. If he feels for you/wants you then he will forgive you for what you did. You didn't do anything unforgivable.

Also, I've realized during my time on dxp, if you're down plz do not come on dxp to help you feel better. People only support strong people here who don't giving a fuck about anything or anyone. If you're weak and emotional, they'll only actively work their assess off to bring you further down.

Thanks for your advice and encouragement. Honestly I didn’t think it was abnormal to care about your FWB. I don’t love him and I’m fine with our arrangement, I still go on dates. But if I hurt anyone in anyway I’m gonna feel bad. He did not deserve to be cursed out or to hear the mean things I said. When he was always patient and nice to me. I don’t like being mean to anyone so of course I feel extreme remorse. I’m not worrying like I did before. I haven’t bothered him at all since his last message and I don’t plan on to. I’m getting better and focusing on myself also

Glad you're feeling better. Sending you lots of love. Please take care of yourself and your family. Good luck😘😍

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Posted by bad_at_usernames

He agreed to talk definitely means he's gonna try to make things better. Till then, focus on yourself, try to stop worrying about him. If he feels for you/wants you then he will forgive you for what you did. You didn't do anything unforgivable.

Also, I've realized during my time on dxp, if you're down plz do not come on dxp to help you feel better. People only support strong people here who don't giving a fuck about anything or anyone. If you're weak and emotional, they'll only actively work their assess off to bring you further down.

Thanks for your advice and encouragement. Honestly I didn’t think it was abnormal to care about your FWB. I don’t love him and I’m fine with our arrangement, I still go on dates. But if I hurt anyone in anyway I’m gonna feel bad. He did not deserve to be cursed out or to hear the mean things I said. When he was always patient and nice to me. I don’t like being mean to anyone so of course I feel extreme remorse. I’m not worrying like I did before. I haven’t bothered him at all since his last message and I don’t plan on to. I’m getting better and focusing on myself also

Glad you're feeling better. Sending you lots of love. Please take care of yourself and your family. Good luck😘😍

Thanks! I messages you, if you don’t mind

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Posted by bad_at_usernames

He agreed to talk definitely means he's gonna try to make things better. Till then, focus on yourself, try to stop worrying about him. If he feels for you/wants you then he will forgive you for what you did. You didn't do anything unforgivable.

Also, I've realized during my time on dxp, if you're down plz do not come on dxp to help you feel better. People only support strong people here who don't giving a fuck about anything or anyone. If you're weak and emotional, they'll only actively work their assess off to bring you further down.

Thanks for your advice and encouragement. Honestly I didn’t think it was abnormal to care about your FWB. I don’t love him and I’m fine with our arrangement, I still go on dates. But if I hurt anyone in anyway I’m gonna feel bad. He did not deserve to be cursed out or to hear the mean things I said. When he was always patient and nice to me. I don’t like being mean to anyone so of course I feel extreme remorse. I’m not worrying like I did before. I haven’t bothered him at all since his last message and I don’t plan on to. I’m getting better and focusing on myself also

Glad you're feeling better. Sending you lots of love. Please take care of yourself and your family. Good luck😘😍

Thanks! I messages you, if you don’t mind

Yes, sure❤

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Posted by bad_at_usernames

He agreed to talk definitely means he's gonna try to make things better. Till then, focus on yourself, try to stop worrying about him. If he feels for you/wants you then he will forgive you for what you did. You didn't do anything unforgivable.

Also, I've realized during my time on dxp, if you're down plz do not come on dxp to help you feel better. People only support strong people here who don't giving a fuck about anything or anyone. If you're weak and emotional, they'll only actively work their assess off to bring you further down.

Thanks for your advice and encouragement. Honestly I didn’t think it was abnormal to care about your FWB. I don’t love him and I’m fine with our arrangement, I still go on dates. But if I hurt anyone in anyway I’m gonna feel bad. He did not deserve to be cursed out or to hear the mean things I said. When he was always patient and nice to me. I don’t like being mean to anyone so of course I feel extreme remorse. I’m not worrying like I did before. I haven’t bothered him at all since his last message and I don’t plan on to. I’m getting better and focusing on myself also

Glad you're feeling better. Sending you lots of love. Please take care of yourself and your family. Good luck😘😍

Thanks! I messages you, if you don’t mind

Yes, sure❤

I keep sending it but I don’t think you’re getting them u can message me

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Posted by peachy06

One thing I don't understand...if it was just a fwb then why do you take it so seriously ?

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One thing I don't understand...if it was just a fwb then why do you take it so seriously ?

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Posted by GirlyATL12

Posted by bad_at_usernames

He agreed to talk definitely means he's gonna try to make things better. Till then, focus on yourself, try to stop worrying about him. If he feels for you/wants you then he will forgive you for what you did. You didn't do anything unforgivable.

Also, I've realized during my time on dxp, if you're down plz do not come on dxp to help you feel better. People only support strong people here who don't giving a fuck about anything or anyone. If you're weak and emotional, they'll only actively work their assess off to bring you further down.

Thanks for your advice and encouragement. Honestly I didn’t think it was abnormal to care about your FWB. I don’t love him and I’m fine with our arrangement, I still go on dates. But if I hurt anyone in anyway I’m gonna feel bad. He did not deserve to be cursed out or to hear the mean things I said. When he was always patient and nice to me. I don’t like being mean to anyone so of course I feel extreme remorse. I’m not worrying like I did before. I haven’t bothered him at all since his last message and I don’t plan on to. I’m getting better and focusing on myself also

Glad you're feeling better. Sending you lots of love. Please take care of yourself and your family. Good luck😘😍

Thanks! I messages you, if you don’t mind

Yes, sure❤

I keep sending it but I don’t think you’re getting them u can message me

Yeah I'm not. I just sent you❤

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Posted by GirlyATL12

Posted by bad_at_usernames

He agreed to talk definitely means he's gonna try to make things better. Till then, focus on yourself, try to stop worrying about him. If he feels for you/wants you then he will forgive you for what you did. You didn't do anything unforgivable.

Also, I've realized during my time on dxp, if you're down plz do not come on dxp to help you feel better. People only support strong people here who don't giving a fuck about anything or anyone. If you're weak and emotional, they'll only actively work their assess off to bring you further down.

Thanks for your advice and encouragement. Honestly I didn’t think it was abnormal to care about your FWB. I don’t love him and I’m fine with our arrangement, I still go on dates. But if I hurt anyone in anyway I’m gonna feel bad. He did not deserve to be cursed out or to hear the mean things I said. When he was always patient and nice to me. I don’t like being mean to anyone so of course I feel extreme remorse. I’m not worrying like I did before. I haven’t bothered him at all since his last message and I don’t plan on to. I’m getting better and focusing on myself also

Glad you're feeling better. Sending you lots of love. Please take care of yourself and your family. Good luck😘😍

Thanks! I messages you, if you don’t mind

Yes, sure❤

I keep sending it but I don’t think you’re getting them u can message me

Yeah I'm not. I just sent you❤

I think your settings make it so I can’t send you messages but I received yours I just can’t respond to you like I was able to with others

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Posted by Sailor_Mars

the best advice I can give you is to RUN. He caught you and you are in love. Scorpio has you dancing to his melody, and he has no respect for that.