Valentine's Day Sting...

...this morning me and my scorp had a heated argument after he claimed I didn't love him. Never heard him say that. Kinda shocked me, but then again just last night (as usual lol) he started to show his insecurity and claim that I did not want him. All this got started because I won't allow him to bring his clothes back to my place until he feels he is stable enough to be with me.

I have lost friends because of him. He accuses me of letting guys around me who wants to treetrunk me hang around lol...and the thing is we have a home studio ...I shut it down ...put off my projects to make him more comfortable as well as myself because I needed a break from all the drama...the guys that we work with one of them being my own brother ...has told me directly that they don't want to come to the studio when he's around ...when I told him this he was hurt and accused me of "keeping things from him" ...

Then there used to be the constant need for him to point out that other women like him. lol...I just don't get it . I know sometimes (some) Scorps play little games of jealousy, but with him when I don't give a reaction to his little games he blows thing out of context saying that I don't care for him or that he probably is expecting to much out of me . And when I DO show the slightest bit of jealousy (which I hate to show and he knows it) he nags on how I shouldn't be jealous of the women he mentioned lol..he even named one girl on first named basis one day ** sigh***

Just the other night I mirrored him and walked out while I knew he was mad...but when I did I called him and asked told him "It doesn't feel good to be walked out on does it?" ...I said it so calmly and motherly ..he responded, I heard the pain in his voice when he admitted that it didn't . I came back home ... warmly sat around him as if nothing had happened. When I lied back down on the couch ..he tucked me into my throw, but he called to me asked me to stand up and embraced me tightly and said he was sorry and since then he has not walked without talking things over ...

...and now today he "just so happened" to walk into the same store I was in after we both left home...kinda felt like he stalked me or wanted to get me to talk since I went silent to keep from arguing...

I just hate arguing, I hate when he's insecure..how can I deal with this and not lose myself??

fire and water....when will you learn? unless both parties give up ego and immaturity; unless they try to bring out the BEST in each other instead of the worst, then this group will NEVER work.

Posted by ScorpioHubby
fire and water....when will you learn? unless both parties give up ego and immaturity; unless they try to bring out the BEST in each other instead of the worst, then this group will NEVER work.

So true. I would have saved myself a great deal of pain and suffering if I had known that Sags. are fire to my water. The devastation caused by my relationship with her is beyond anything I could have imagined.

WOW, interesting read, sorry I have no input though.

Hope you work things out! x

LOL @ elle's comment on gemini .. there goes the sun! 😉


With Leo and me (female scorp here experience with Leo male speaking):

Leo usually goes on and on about their own troubles, but when topic turns to scorpio's troubles, Leo doesn't want to hear it. Somewhere in the level of understanding in between these two signs, I find, as a Scorpio woman, that Leo can never reach to our level of emotional depth on how we feel or think about things.

Now, I do have best friends under Leo women. I love Leo women because they are reliable friends. It is just that emotionally, I don't think we can connect at a level that can respond to physical response. Words don't mean as much to us as actions. The only suggestion I can have for you is to show physical affection to your Scorpio man so he can also 'feel' your love. It is OK to give the limelight occasionally to your Scorpio.


I also believe that the definition of "stalking" is highly overused. Why would you call your partner 'stalking' when he (perhaps) simply followed you into the store?