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Mar 05, 2013Comments: 0 · Posts: 2089 · Topics: 147
Do you find that the description of having secret lovers and obsession as true? If so, are you ever willing to commit and stay loyal and why the obsession- stalkerish or just more of a mental over thinking?
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Lmao, amorous surveillance! Love it! Ligeia, what kind of tests are you talking about? Straight up fuck with your head or more subtle?
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Not a stalker but I do over analyze, I'm very committed in a relationship, not really one for secret lovers
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Feb 28, 2013Comments: 0 · Posts: 504 · Topics: 22
Do you find that the description of having secret lovers and obsession as true?
It's not "secret", it's just sex and not worthy of mentioning to anyone i am trying to establish something concrete with.
i also need sex to live, so, if i cannot get it from someone i am not fully committed to yet, i will need backup.
If so, are you ever willing to commit and stay loyal?
I am loyal only to those that do not leave me guessing on our status after i have made it clear that i need clarification.
and why the obsession- stalkerish or just more of a mental over thinking?
i need to get all up in my target.
by nature, anything i am interested in, i need to know thoroughly.
i don't like being caught off guard or looking like a fool.
this is a precaution that i need as i am liable to jump in things head first with no helmet.
before i get in too deep, i have to figure out what i am in.
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Mar 05, 2013Comments: 0 · Posts: 2089 · Topics: 147
Thanks everyone for the responses. When I read secret lovers my mind automatically went to cheating. So your answers definitely gave me a different perspective.
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What are these tests of yours?