Venus in Scorpio

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Ugh. I deal with a gemini venus, cancer mars. im a scorp venus, libra mars. never again lol.

two other guys who were attracted to me both had scorpio venus. One with a scorp sun another with capricorn sun. The scorp with the scorp venus was just toooo intense for me. The cap and i are best friends.

I notice that all of my mutual feeling crushes happen because of that scorpio venus. they sniff it out or something.
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thx for all the responses!! the new guy I'm dating is a sag with a Venus in scorp and mars in lib. I'm a cancer with venus in virgo and mars in cancer. Just taking notes 🙂



your new guy has my exact placements and you have my ex-husband's placements.
that was a relationship i couldn't WAIT to escape!
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interesting... well love to hear anything you want to tell, relating to the placements and all.
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i haven't gotten a true handle on what compliments me because i am trying to handle just having this placement...lol!



ugh I know, lol.

This is definitely the hardest Venus placement to have in the entire zodiac.



Why is this particular placement particularly difficult?
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yeh I'd like to know why as well. I hear a lot of intense, passion. That don't scare me 🙂
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i haven't gotten a true handle on what compliments me because i am trying to handle just having this placement...lol!



ugh I know, lol.

This is definitely the hardest Venus placement to have in the entire zodiac.



Why is this particular placement particularly difficult?


yeh I'd like to know why as well. I hear a lot of intense, passion. That don't scare me 🙂
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when he begins to call, text you 24/7 you will know why.
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Posted by msX
i haven't gotten a true handle on what compliments me because i am trying to handle just having this placement...lol!



ugh I know, lol.

This is definitely the hardest Venus placement to have in the entire zodiac.



Why is this particular placement particularly difficult?


yeh I'd like to know why as well. I hear a lot of intense, passion. That don't scare me 🙂



when he begins to call, text you 24/7 you will know why.
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hmm ok I like attention but I guess I will see thx!
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i haven't gotten a true handle on what compliments me because i am trying to handle just having this placement...lol!



ugh I know, lol.

This is definitely the hardest Venus placement to have in the entire zodiac.



Why is this particular placement particularly difficult?



Because it makes u obsessive, jealous and desiring complete commitment which is hard to find.

It's a GREAT placement for the person's lovers...they get all the love. But the affected person themselves usually has to accept that they're not going to get that in return. They are always the one more invested in the relationship.

And the one who is more invested has less power. 😢
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+1000000000000

I have said this once and will say it again. If i am into someone... EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING gets blocked out mentally and physically. my attention is only directed to that one person. There is no more 2nd guessing myself.. if i like them.. I will boarder line be obsessed (which is why it is such a hard placement to control). I still have no idea how to control this other than just isolating myself sometimes from people, sounds emo, but it's true.

On the plus side yes.. the other party will feel completely loved and cherished. Feelings likely won't be mutual though.

Not trying to make this about myself - just giving personal experience.

Your venus in scorpio guy will cherish and love you to the end.. he will go above and beyond to satisfy your needs and wants. Everything will be about you. You first, him second.
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it is pure agony. especially with me being a sag with a cancer rising sign. i had often hated what i have become, but after the breakup i went through two months ago, i realized that i am the shit, really, and all this can't be wasted on chumps. i will cast no pearls before swine anymore.
and, hey...in the meantime, i plan on getting the nastiest, grimiest, most luscious sex i can possibly have while calling on my sag sun to sever the attached strings.

i will say this - the best thing about having this placement and why i no longer hate it is that i get to experience passion and love more intensely than anyone has ever felt or would dare to feel because they are scared and i am not...or they don't know how to do it and i do. the fact that i can bounce back after such intensity has been broken is amazing. i watch myself and marvel at how the passion i have for these men is the same passion i have for myself. many, many people never get to experience any of this.

all i ever want is for someone to give it to me like i give it to them...times ten thousand. and mean it. and have a big dick. and be a superfreak. and love music. and be super intelligent and humble. and cape for me immediately and ask questions later.
if not, they can go to hell. you gotta kiss a lot of frogs before you find a king.
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thx for all the responses!! the new guy I'm dating is a sag with a Venus in scorp and mars in lib. I'm a cancer with venus in virgo and mars in cancer. Just taking notes 🙂



your new guy has my exact placements and you have my ex-husband's placements.
that was a relationship i couldn't WAIT to escape!


interesting... well love to hear anything you want to tell, relating to the placements and all.
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of the top, cancers and sagittarians are not compatible. at all. initially, yes...but it will come out. cancers are introverts and homebodies and will retreat and avoid confrontation. they are the type that wouldn't mind going to bed angry and holding a grudge. they have secrets and will hold on to something or someone longer than they should. this is everything a sagittarius is not. mind you, all of this is on a general scale.

my mars being in libra makes me only attracted to classy, well-rounded and -adjusted men that don't do drama. my venus in scorpio makes it all about the business of love and sex. this is probably why venus in virgos are always attracted to me. but they can never hang on. they love to try to be that classy, well-adjusted and well-rounded guy that is only about serious loving, but they don't have it as honestly as i and they fall the fuck off...everytime. and, the thing is, i don't have to tell them they are falling off, they already know. i just tell them so when i step out on the relationship, they cannot say i didn't warn them. i find most venus in virgo want the tidy and pristine mate, on the outside. nothing wrong with that. but a venus in scorpio wants you to LIVE it, not just show it...whatever "it" is. a cancer with a venus in virgo would be more concerned with how well our relationship looks to the observer while a sagittarius with a venus in scorpio would be tormented to find that the appearance is just that, and not true. that cancer would be horrified to be embarrased. the sagittarius would not be able to find one fuck to give about being embarrased, for the proper cause. the cancer would not mind a white lie to save the relatinship. the sagittarius would be horrified to find ANY lies, big or small, in the relationship.

yo
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Just want to add to that: I'm currently chasing like crazy after a guy. And I??ve always thought, that was something, I would NEVER do, like EVAAAARHH! But now I'm feeling kind of empowered by it, ??cause I'm at least staying true to my own feelings. But I don't know, maybe the guy is just good at being chased (and never won, ha ha)



what is fucked up is that i loooooove chasing guys, but many don't know how to chase back! it's a game, men...i chase you...you chase me...smh...
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thx for all the responses!! the new guy I'm dating is a sag with a Venus in scorp and mars in lib. I'm a cancer with venus in virgo and mars in cancer. Just taking notes 🙂



your new guy has my exact placements and you have my ex-husband's placements.
that was a relationship i couldn't WAIT to escape!


interesting... well love to hear anything you want to tell, relating to the placements and all.
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(cont.)

sorry...i didn't know it had been cut off.

your mars in cancer wants something that the new guy probably cannot live up to. you may want this man to slow down and he won't be able to. the more you grasp, the more he slips out of your fingers. then the fun stops and he stops and it all stops and a disgruntled sag with a venus in scorp is something you never want to be in the presence of. we will fuck you up. not like you think, though. we like to make you fuck yourself up. minimum effort, maximum effect.
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Simple. No one. My Venus in Scorpio is too intense for everybody. I'm either 100% in or a 100% out.

However, when I'm in, I'm way too intense, it's scary.



it would be interesting to see how a couple with both venus in scorpio act in a relationship.
Intense obsessive behavior x 2 ?
I guess I can picture epic loud "I HATE YOU!" type of arguments followed by..intense "omg I love you... you're the only one" make up sex.