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Hi...anyone Venus in scorpio or sun scorpio can tell me how to know when he is in love.
He do not look into my eyes & look at me when when i m not noticing him.Gets Super Jealous as if does not want to listen about any other man..avoid the conversation regarding even if they are my male friend.
But do not give me full attention.In starting he was available,now back & forth.but till now he did nt told me about his feelings what he feels about me...He tease me in good way & even say sorry when it is worth.
Do you feel he is in love..but why he is not opening up.
Sometimes he says he is confused & not able to understand me..I dnt know what you all think..He has most of the planets in scorpio..We both are looking for serious,stable & long term relationship.
He is scorpio sun
Venus & mercury in scorpio
moon in cancer
mars in leo
gemini ascendant

I have also lot of water but also fire elements.
scorpio mars
pisces moon
capricorn ascendant
leo venus
leo sun

he talk very less about his feeling & thinking
like in argument
or when he is sorry or hurted me.but still limited.
What i can do open him up...which should not hinder my dignity also..& he should not feel uncomfortable also.i dnt want to trouble him in any way...pls tell me

Just keep being honest and open. Time is the only cure for trust to come about. Trust does not come easily. Feelings of possessiveness come first, and the desire to control others in order to see them as trustworthy.

Yeah, ironic and backwards sounding, I know. Because trying to control people generally pushes them away, and if someone IS actually being controlled, well.... that's not trust at all. But emotion is not often logical. And emotion sure does drive a Scorpio.

I love the people who allow me to be myself. Unashamedly, unabashedly, with no fear of retribution OR of hurting them by being myself. When I can be angry and sad in front of someone, and this person doesn't look down on me, or *especially* in fear of me. When I can be happy and joyous too, and am not mocked, though this is somewhat less important.

If he's not looking you in the eyes right now, he's afraid. Eventually he'll try. A glimpse at a time. Testing the waters. When he can stare you full-on and you are more intrigued than insulted, he'll gain respect for you. But this is not a challenge, as it might feel to be. It is... 'Can I be me in front of you. Can I be all of me.'

Yeah... respect is important. Not in a cold and detached way. Respect for you would make you valuable. Scorpio wants to protect those he values. Those he wants to protect the most, he loves.

Posted by Draumstafir
Just keep being honest and open. Time is the only cure for trust to come about. Trust does not come easily. Feelings of possessiveness come first, and the desire to control others in order to see them as trustworthy.

Yeah, ironic and backwards sounding, I know. Because trying to control people generally pushes them away, and if someone IS actually being controlled, well.... that's not trust at all. But emotion is not often logical. And emotion sure does drive a Scorpio.

I love the people who allow me to be myself. Unashamedly, unabashedly, with no fear of retribution OR of hurting them by being myself. When I can be angry and sad in front of someone, and this person doesn't look down on me, or *especially* in fear of me. When I can be happy and joyous too, and am not mocked, though this is somewhat less important.

If he's not looking you in the eyes right now, he's afraid. Eventually he'll try. A glimpse at a time. Testing the waters. When he can stare you full-on and you are more intrigued than insulted, he'll gain respect for you. But this is not a challenge, as it might feel to be. It is... 'Can I be me in front of you. Can I be all of me.'

Yeah... respect is important. Not in a cold and detached way. Respect for you would make you valuable. Scorpio wants to protect those he values. Those he wants to protect the most, he loves.

Thanks...for sharing your view...I know its really too hard to earn trust but i m ready to be patient with him.i can wait for much more time to see how we both can go far away.after all we both want long term & stable relation...so time does'nt matter....It's important that we should be with right person
🙂

If he is your boyfriend.Don't ask if he is in love.

Scorpio when in love they have this courage to court you and be their gf.

If he is not opening up... that's Mystery you cannot solve. Just ask he will answer.

I am sun in Scorpio
and Venus in Scorpio.

Most guys in general aren't gonna be interested in listening to you talk about other guys. It's just perceived as tacky and disrespectful, even though you might not intend it.

Posted by munchkin
Most guys in general aren't gonna be interested in listening to you talk about other guys. It's just perceived as tacky and disrespectful, even though you might not intend it.

+ a trillion.


It's like reminding me that something else has been here before.
You're reducing yourself in the eyes of the man who is with you.

In a serious relationship, no man wants to be reminded about xs


Chasity is almost a lost reality. Chaste virtues are worth more than gold.

Wait a minute, the OP is a LEO.


It's a lost cause.

Posted by ladyluck
Hi...anyone Venus in scorpio or sun scorpio can tell me how to know when he is in love.
He do not look into my eyes & look at me when when i m not noticing him.Gets Super Jealous as if does not want to listen about any other man..avoid the conversation regarding even if they are my male friend.
But do not give me full attention.In starting he was available,now back & forth.but till now he did nt told me about his feelings what he feels about me...He tease me in good way & even say sorry when it is worth.
Do you feel he is in love..but why he is not opening up.
Sometimes he says he is confused & not able to understand me..I dnt know what you all think..He has most of the planets in scorpio..We both are looking for serious,stable & long term relationship.
He is scorpio sun
Venus & mercury in scorpio
moon in cancer
mars in leo
gemini ascendant

I have also lot of water but also fire elements.
scorpio mars
pisces moon
capricorn ascendant
leo venus
leo sun

he talk very less about his feeling & thinking
like in argument
or when he is sorry or hurted me.but still limited.
What i can do open him up...which should not hinder my dignity also..& he should not feel uncomfortable also.i dnt want to trouble him in any way...pls tell me

How long have you two been together? How often do you see him?

there is no love for you