Posted by Velocity
From experience they can come off very intense and straightforward if they're aware the other person has interest (my only reference is a Scorpio sun/Scorip venus). I'd say they make you go through tests before being comfortable enough to make moves, whether it's just verbally being able to click with them or something, they have to be able to feel something worthy.
Posted by degenerate_ingenue
I've never made a first move that's for sure. maybe it has to do w my self-conscious Virgo moon tendencies, but even if I get the vibe that they are hinting I tell myself I'm exaggerating and also say to myself "well what if I'm wrong, and they stop talking to me altogether and I ruin the friendship". therefore I don't get anything done. this one guy threw hints at me here and there and I SAW them but he would also act aloof and we were friends so I sensed it; however, I didn't want to do anything about it in fear that I was wrong and over analyzing possible innocent gestures/expressions.
I also act very aloof. I definitely show subtle hints like remembering things they like/don't like and then surprise them w those things, but that's about it. from there I just hope they'll do something about it if anything is there. lmao. I'm very cautious
Posted by BetaBananaPosted by degenerate_ingenue
I've never made a first move that's for sure. maybe it has to do w my self-conscious Virgo moon tendencies, but even if I get the vibe that they are hinting I tell myself I'm exaggerating and also say to myself "well what if I'm wrong, and they stop talking to me altogether and I ruin the friendship". therefore I don't get anything done. this one guy threw hints at me here and there and I SAW them but he would also act aloof and we were friends so I sensed it; however, I didn't want to do anything about it in fear that I was wrong and over analyzing possible innocent gestures/expressions.
I also act very aloof. I definitely show subtle hints like remembering things they like/don't like and then surprise them w those things, but that's about it. from there I just hope they'll do something about it if anything is there. lmao. I'm very cautious
Yeah everything u said but i have virg moon too . I will also think things r innocent and someone will be like wow he's really flirting I'm like hmmm are you sure? Nahhhclick to expand
Posted by duchesslibroPosted by Velocity
From experience they can come off very intense and straightforward if they're aware the other person has interest (my only reference is a Scorpio sun/Scorip venus). I'd say they make you go through tests before being comfortable enough to make moves, whether it's just verbally being able to click with them or something, they have to be able to feel something worthy.
Tests, such as..?
Posted by MiketheScorp
Fortunately for myself.... I'm a Scorp / Sun - Scorp / Venus, in the past, I had learned to bait women through selective wording a litlle bit to see what and how their responses / body language is first to truly figure out what the interest is..
I don't deal with reejection very well, so I generally try to be aware enough to not set myself up for it.click to expand
Posted by PlatoPosted by degenerate_ingenue
if they are aloof, I am aloof. mixed signals for days. maybe that's why I'm single LOL
Yes...no Way to live life.... Waiting for that guy that can read your mind despite your mixed signals...that guy doesn't exist. Be proactiveclick to expand
Posted by Wynter
Ugh, I won't do more than give a few hints if a gentleman has my attention.
If he doesn't respond positively, I will retreat with my broken heart and comfort myself with cat and booze until the next soul mate comes along. Which is fairly quickly.
Posted by Impulsv
Plato I did tell him finally. But reason took so long was due to his mixed signals of hot n cold. I told him I liked him when we got together but love well how can one explain love at first sight at the very start. Yeah last time I saw him I said it " I loved you from the day I saw you n it has been consistent since day one" no expectations of reciprocity just to finally say it n have no regrets.
Posted by Montgomery
Do you all, as ViScorpio, attach (heavy) sentimental value
to Things?
For instance-- say your favourite aunt gave you a piece of furniture
when you got your first place on your own... and you're entire
home NOW (however many decades later) is furnished with
high end things, but you still have that piece of furniture.
Not because you love it necessarily, but because you love
your aunt... and you just can't part with it.
Posted by Montgomery
Do you all, as ViScorpio, attach (heavy) sentimental value
to Things?
For instance-- say your favourite aunt gave you a piece of furniture
when you got your first place on your own... and you're entire
home NOW (however many decades later) is furnished with
high end things, but you still have that piece of furniture.
Not because you love it necessarily, but because you love
your aunt... and you just can't part with it.
Posted by degenerate_ingenuePosted by Montgomery
Do you all, as ViScorpio, attach (heavy) sentimental value
to Things?
For instance-- say your favourite aunt gave you a piece of furniture
when you got your first place on your own... and you're entire
home NOW (however many decades later) is furnished with
high end things, but you still have that piece of furniture.
Not because you love it necessarily, but because you love
your aunt... and you just can't part with it.
It depends what it is and the value of it. I loved my grandparents, and I still have the orange tag that I had to stick to my windshield that says "Funeral". It will be my last memory of him, and I never want to forget that he was there for me in the beginning and there for me even in the end. I'm not sure why I decided to keep the funeral tag...I just did. I didn't want to part with it or throw it away. I have everything they ever gave to me in memory of them and their love for me and my love for them.click to expand
Posted by RainDancer
I have a couple things that fall under this category.
A hideous magnet that was my grandma's, and an angel knick knack from my mom. I'm more sentimental than I'd ever let on to someone. I play the stone cold, " your shit can burn" face but then secretly keep it .... Sounds stupid typing it.
My mom gave me this... I really love it.
There is a whole slew of specific angels for everything.
This one is mine. "The Angel of the Heart."
Posted by RainDancer
What about you, Monty?? You have your aunt's hammydown couch still ???click to expand
Posted by magma
Everything is a test in a way, yet I never had any structured or strategized tests that I recall. I saw a bumper sticker once that read: "I'm not shy, I'm just examining my prey." Sounds kind of ViS to me, lol. I never thought of people as prey but my "testing" was definitely like examining (observing), passively but yet pretty intensely. I didn't take action unless I saw that interest was high, as in obvious and tangible. My entourage is small but sweet, and forever.
I don't attach "heavy" sentimental value to things.
Posted by thefierybull
Do venus in Scorpios avoid telling the person they like how they feel if the person is not showing any signs of being interested? Do they try to find out if they like them first before making any moves? If so, how would they try to figure out if that person likes them?
Posted by RainDancerPosted by MsTeeq1974Posted by thefierybull
Do venus in Scorpios avoid telling the person they like how they feel if the person is not showing any signs of being interested? Do they try to find out if they like them first before making any moves? If so, how would they try to figure out if that person likes them?
In my experience, they express interest by holding on and trying to get "in" there by different means until they're finally IN there. lol My Saggie bestie did this with a guy for TWO YEARS. There was an immediate attraction that they both admitted to, but the more he got to know her, the less she fit his mold of an ideal wife. So they went back and forth, but when he would go cold, she wouldn't abandon the mission. She even changed her religion for that guy. That piece was KIND of weird, but anyways...she became a gamer this one time when he went cold and she knew he liked to play a particular game. He was actually in another country with his parents attempting to find him a mate and she baited him into getting back involved with her simply by staying up all hours of the time (due to time difference) playing this damn game with him. She enjoyed EVERY SINGLE MINUTE of it. smh lol So, I guess if the interest is genuine, they just don't give up. The Sun Cap/Venus in Scorp dude is texting me right now and we've been off/on for five years. We're off and I've completely avoided seeing him, because I'm in a relationship...still new, but in a relationship no less. He just keeps texting me about one or twice a week to say hello. It's cordial and nice, he's respectful so...I'm like...cool. So I would say from my experience and observation, Venus in Scorp is relentless. LMBO!!!! I'm a Pisces sun/Venus in Cap so I don't have that energy in my chart. Just wanted to make it clear that my input is based on how it feels on the recipient end and watching a Venus in Scorp hunt a love interest down.
Shit.
Hahah
We still don't care. We wan t what we want and we keep holding on like damned fools, trying to make it seem inobviousclick to expand
Posted by RainDancerPosted by MsTeeq1974Posted by RainDancerPosted by MsTeeq1974Posted by thefierybull
Do venus in Scorpios avoid telling the person they like how they feel if the person is not showing any signs of being interested? Do they try to find out if they like them first before making any moves? If so, how would they try to figure out if that person likes them?
In my experience, they express interest by holding on and trying to get "in" there by different means until they're finally IN there. lol My Saggie bestie did this with a guy for TWO YEARS. There was an immediate attraction that they both admitted to, but the more he got to know her, the less she fit his mold of an ideal wife. So they went back and forth, but when he would go cold, she wouldn't abandon the mission. She even changed her religion for that guy. That piece was KIND of weird, but anyways...she became a gamer this one time when he went cold and she knew he liked to play a particular game. He was actually in another country with his parents attempting to find him a mate and she baited him into getting back involved with her simply by staying up all hours of the time (due to time difference) playing this damn game with him. She enjoyed EVERY SINGLE MINUTE of it. smh lol
Shit.
Hahah
We still don't care. We wan t what we want and we keep holding on like damned fools, trying to make it seem inobvious
Man...she almost had dude too! I swear to heaven if things don't work out between me and my Scorp and I ever give up on finding the ideal mate...I can totally see myself marrying the Cap just to seal that door. lol ha ha ha ha
I laughed out loud!!!
I am tour biggest fan in that regard.click to expand
Posted by thefierybull
Do venus in Scorpios avoid telling the person they like how they feel if the person is not showing any signs of being interested? Do they try to find out if they like them first before making any moves? If so, how would they try to figure out if that person likes them?