Venus scorpio or Mars Scorpio men ? How does it show in your personality ?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Already-use on Tuesday, January 10, 2017 and has 2 replies.
I am a virgo and my last relationship was with a scorpio sun / mars scorpio guy / mercury in scorpio / moon in gemini/ venus in virgo / .

Pretty intense person , somehow quite over the top with declarations , romantic and I could definitely feel attracted to him rather quickly .

However he had his moon in gemini so he was easily bored , or I would say distracted . Always looking for new adventures , new things to try out . Rather outgoing . Private '' I don't share much with people " but he shared a lot with me , he would honestly say " ask me anything" . But the thing is , he appeared to be quite "emotional" but cold at the same time . Especially when it comes to sadness , I would never see him cry (according to him "he never cries" ) so I figured he was actually not sincere . How can you love someone but then you act as if you are not that affected ? Very confusing . I told him that I had a hard time figuring him if he was sincere or not .

The "new" one is scorpio sun / mars in sag / mercury in libra / moon in cap / venus in scorpio . I don't know him that well but I felt attracted to him real quick . But he seemed to be quite intense as well . I am positevely sure he was joking and possibly intoxicated but he said that he "loved" me when we barely just met - why ppl use these words just for fun , I will never know smh .

I read that venus in scorpio are not that expressive .

However I'd like to know your insight about it . Everyone is different but maybe some common points will show.

Me

7th house : Scorpio

Venus : Leo

Sun : Virgo

Mars : Libra

Mercury : virgo

I have Scorpio in 7th house and Mars in Scorpio (7th house).

From my point of view, Mars is my dark side - it gives a lot of negative energy and I tend to be very unstable inside, even if I don't show it. In 1 on 1 relationships I can get annoyed easily and then I either become very sarcastic or very toxic. I also don't forget anyone who does me bad things while also thinking a lot of depressing and dark thoughts myself. Something which I desire is power, it admittedly turns me on.