Very curious about out charts...

ME:


Planet Longitude

Sun --------Pisces
Moon -----Pisces
Mercury----- Pisces
Venus------- Aries
Mars------- Aries
Jupiter------Aquarius
Saturn------Scorpio
Uranus------Sagittarius
Neptune------Capricorn
Pluto-------- Scorpio
Chiron-------Gemini
Node-------Taurus
Ascendant---- Taurus
Midheaven-----Capricorn


HIM:

Sun----- Scorpio
Moon ------ Gemini
Mercury ------ Sagittarius
Venus ------- Scorpio
Mars --------- Sagittarius
Jupiter --------- Leo
Saturn --------- Virgo
Uranus --------- Scorpio
Neptune -------- Sagittarius
Pluto ---------- Libra
Chiron ---------Taurus
Node ----------- Virgo
Ascendant -------- Virgo
Midheaven--------- Taurus

Is it positive or negative that my rising sign and Node are his sun sign's polar opposite AND at the same time his rising sign and node are my sun sign's polar opposite?

Or is it completely insignificant? Also does it look like we are compatible? We have been in a relationship, but not for too long. It's been a hell of a bumpy ride with him. Things are looking up as we work it out and I would love to hear any insight.

Thanks 😄

p.s.- If it matters at all... I am at the Aquarius/Pisces cusp.

No idea what a midheaven is... but I wanna figure it out! LOL Why do you say that? Cause of all that Pisces? Ughh it's almost like drowning...

Don't be aggressive and bossy.

"Don't be aggressive and bossy." --- Awesome, I have started to get the hang of that.
"'p.s.- If it matters at all... I am at the Aquarius/Pisces cusp.'

Exactly what day would that be—

And just from a quick obsevation seems like a 50/50 chance of survival.." --- February 20. I'll hope for the best.


Thank you both!

"viv, what is a midheaven? I've never heard that one before. How do you calculate it? "

Wikipedia's Midheaven explanation

According to Wiki it determinds a person's goals (spirtitual, business, personal, etc...)

Seems to be calculated according to your rising sign and place of birth... interesting. I'm sure you'll find it especially interesting since you are so business oriented Scorpius.

determines*

Yeah but aren't you a scorpio star? Lol ... Scorps like being in charge right? 🙂 So there you go boss!

I get him to do what I want. I just can't demand or be too up on his ass. Basically it'll chase him away if I'm too overbearing and diva-ish. He told me from the get he'll do anything I want as long as I don't make him feel like he's being taken advantage of. So what GG said about not being aggressive and bossy I totally understand. It's what broke us up the first time we tried to be together (last summer). After I gave him space he came back and we gave it another shot. Besides, I don't really mind letting him take control of the wheel. He has proven so far to be capable of driving us without crashing into things... metaphorically speaking.

:buckles metaphorical seatbelt:

And Scorpius, I'm glad your happy with your midheaven result. I have to read more up on mine, but from what I know about Capricorns, they are about their money.

$ ) I'm all about that! 🙂

I agree Satori.
I'm a strong personality and I like my control but that is not the way relationships works. I have to have someone equally as strong as I am to knock me off my high horse every now and then. Ironically I lose respect for someone who doesn't stand up to me. I know when I'm wrong but the problem is admitting to it. A partner that will point that out to me and take a stand is someone I can respect. With respect comes love.
I tone it way down once I know I can trust someone to tell me when I'm being a brat. That's what makes my Aries and I so perfect. 🙂 It's a turbulant relationship. We've had alot of showdowns but I admire his strength. He stands his ground.

"Just be honest with Scorps about what you really want, people! We are more flexible than most people think when we trust, like you said, Ginger.

To be with a Scorp takes a ton of understanding or a person with the guts and desire to stick up to us. We want you to... really!"


Yep. I'll bend over backwards for someone I trust as long as I know they aren't taking advantage of my kindness. And even though I act like I can do it on my own in a relationship I actually WANT my partners input. I want to make sure he is happy too. It's not all about me. I'll push for it to be that way because if I can get away with it I will 😛 I'm a brat..... alot. But tell me I'm being a brat and stick to your guns I'll pout a little but I'll appreciate it later 😉

Lol don't be sorry for high jacking my thread, it's still relavent. 🙂 I made myself sound so subservient though, so I will elaborate on why I'm letting him have the wheel. I had a lot of trouble letting him have any control at all when we first dated (plus I have severe trust issues, which didn't help). I do voice my opinion to him, if he's wrong I'll tell him, and if he's right then he's right. I've always been honest with him so thats why I think we mesh together well, I don't like dishonesty either, it makes me anxious. Especially with someone I respect, because I don't want to jeopardize in my credibility, EVER! I am okay with letting him take the wheel because he has never given me a reason to doubt him. He has proven to be very logical and his intentions have always been in my best interest. I still have my guard up because I'm not a jackass, but I'm not as hard as I used to be with him. I didn't show him my soft side for a long time, and he wanted to see it so bad.

So he has some control, I let him believe that he has more than he does, but I think he is aware that I do that (and doesn't mind it). I don't mind it either... He doesn't act like a brat. Just an ass sometimes, but I entertain his bullshit. He keeps me sharp, and my comeback skills have benefitted from his ass-like nature. LOL