Virgo/Scorpio Trauma...on/off again...ugh!
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by sophie68 on Saturday, March 25, 2006 and has 10 replies.
Hi All~
Well after a month and a half of fabulous times with Virgo...he did the dissapearing act again. Always after a great date, I do not hear from him until I make the move and call him (he promptly returns my calls) but this time its not happening.
Saw him last Tuesday night, he left Wednesday. Great date. It is now Saturday.
He worked last night at his bar and for the first time in a year I DID NOT go to his bar last night...I went elsewhere. Wondering if that was a shock for him.
I cannot keep making the effort. I was the one who called him while I was overseas, I was the one who called him to let him know I returned, I was the one who called him whn I saw him out w/ my friends at his bar. Although he returns my calls...this is ridiculous.
To me, if you like someone you follow up with them. And I understand the whole "Virgo's need to step back and analyze" but I am suppose to be going away on Monday for a week and he knows this, and mentioned in joking way "Ya, how am I going to handle you traveling all the time?".
So I thought he would want to touch base w/ me before I left but I guess not. Is he once again expecting ME to call?
Seems like I have been officially "virgoed".
Well after a month and a half of fabulous times with Virgo...he did the dissapearing act again. Always after a great date, I do not hear from him until I make the move and call him (he promptly returns my calls) but this time its not happening.
Saw him last Tuesday night, he left Wednesday. Great date. It is now Saturday.
He worked last night at his bar and for the first time in a year I DID NOT go to his bar last night...I went elsewhere. Wondering if that was a shock for him.
I cannot keep making the effort. I was the one who called him while I was overseas, I was the one who called him to let him know I returned, I was the one who called him whn I saw him out w/ my friends at his bar. Although he returns my calls...this is ridiculous.
To me, if you like someone you follow up with them. And I understand the whole "Virgo's need to step back and analyze" but I am suppose to be going away on Monday for a week and he knows this, and mentioned in joking way "Ya, how am I going to handle you traveling all the time?".
So I thought he would want to touch base w/ me before I left but I guess not. Is he once again expecting ME to call?
Seems like I have been officially "virgoed".
To me it sounds like either he toys with you or dont know what he wants.
How about just not calling him for a change..Just leave it, occupy your mind with something else and see how it goes..set yourself a period of time, if after this time he hasn't made any effort..ditch him, I say he's far too immature to be in a relationship..or doesn't know what he wants..
No. You have no time for men like this it is a waste of damn f---ing time. TELL HIM TO STOP F---ING around. Or some serious complications are going to start coming.
Hei BS~
You are so freakin right...this is such a waste of time. So do I come right out and say it? What do I say? What the hell is his problem for christ sakes. This is like a game and I'm not playig it.
Weirdly, I just got an email from his bartender (his friend and my realtor now) out of the blue this morning. They usually work together at the bar on Friday nights and I did not go there last night. It was very brief "How are you? Real estate is market going up in your area" Hope to see you soon.
Maybe he is just playing me ...the infamous "player" that everyone seems to think he is.
Ugh....
You are so freakin right...this is such a waste of time. So do I come right out and say it? What do I say? What the hell is his problem for christ sakes. This is like a game and I'm not playig it.
Weirdly, I just got an email from his bartender (his friend and my realtor now) out of the blue this morning. They usually work together at the bar on Friday nights and I did not go there last night. It was very brief "How are you? Real estate is market going up in your area" Hope to see you soon.
Maybe he is just playing me ...the infamous "player" that everyone seems to think he is.
Ugh....
Leave that fekker and let him call you. If not then forget him.
Don't charge in there with all guns blazing..just ignore him, give him a taste of his own medicine..he's not worth wasting your breath in..rise above it and just ignore him..if he asks for a reason after a few weeks, just say sorry got bored..
sophie, I would just cut him off.
This Scorpio is taking a break...this Virgo crap is BS....more like player crap.
I'm done...sticka fork in me...he's cut off.
I'm done...sticka fork in me...he's cut off.
"This Scorpio is taking a break...this Virgo crap is BS....more like player crap.
I'm done...sticka fork in me...he's cut off."
Heh. Love Scorps "bam and done" additude.
I'm done...sticka fork in me...he's cut off."
Heh. Love Scorps "bam and done" additude.
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