Virgo trying to attack Scorpio :)

A big hello to everyone on this forum 🙂 I am new to this, and this is in fact only my second post (my first post was to reply to 'what Virgo men want from a woman').

I would appreciate it VERY much if any of you could shed some light into my case, and hopefuly help me figure this one out...

She is a 23 y.o. Scorpio and I am a 28 y.o. Virgo, and we met through a common friend. This guy also happens to be one of her two closest friends here at university. He helps me out by giving me info that I can then use (effectively and not so...) to pursue her and understand her more.

We have been around each other for only a couple of weeks, and always in small or large groups. She laughts at all my jokers and finds me very funny, and I am captivated by her wit and smile/laughter. She has onlt had one relationship, for 6 years (between the ages of 17 and 23). I am not sure about how much she is over him (I guess almost totally, but not sure).

Anyway...my style is totally direct and quick. Soon after we met at a lunch prepeared by our common friend, I got her email by that guy (not by asking her directly) and send her a very witty message, starting a 'game' about how she can work for my secret organisation in order to destroy our common friend 🙂 (I and that guy were competing for a prize...all in great atmosphere of course!). She replied with an equally witty message, which she had obviosuly spent some time writing. A couple more messages were exchanged around the same theme, and then my group won the prize. That was on Wednesday. On the same day I and our common friend (we are both doing the same Master's course; she is doing a different course) came back to his flat for a coffee, and he promptly invited her down. As soon as I saw her I grabbed her and kissed her on the cheeks (I was happy about winning), and then all three of us laughed and had a good time over coffee, as usual.

The same evening I called her for the first time (again, getting her number from our common friend), and we talked for some time, just joking as usual.

On Friday, I sent her an e-card inviting her to dinner as a way of thanking her for her 'help' in defeating the enemy group hehe. She did not reply to my e-card, and so I called her on the same day. She said that she was ill and had a big deadline for Wed, and so she could not go for dinner that day or at the weekend, but that we could go next week (i.e. this week). I said that's fine.

Next day, I send her a packet of Jelly Babies with a get well note. I called her and she thanked me for them, but said she could not talk because she was on Skype with some other people (did not specify). She said she would call me later, after she had finished chatting. That was at around 7 p.m., and after waiting until 9, I called her. She said she was still on Skype, and would call me when she finished. I did not call again that night, and she did not call either.

Next day she send me an email apologising for not calling, and saying that by the time she remembered to call me it was really late. I said it's ok, don't worry, and that in fact I should be the one apologising for maybe pressuring her. Also, in her email she said she was going to call me when she came back from university that day. Again, she did not call me.

Any suggestions or advice would be greatly appreciated 🙂 Please tell me what I am doing right and where I am failing!

Thanks!

dyrstr8z thank you very much for your helpful posts, they gave me a fresh new perspective on the situation 🙂 By the way, what you said about offering to help her out with her work hit a raw nerve hehe...guess what, I was close to offering to proof-read the literature review she has to submit for her MRes course by Wednesday! It is in my nature to always offer a helping hand, and I can do a good job with essays and most academic work (I am Greek and study/will work in England, btw). I cannot even remember how many assignments I did for my gf (also a Virgo) when we were both at the same university, and it was always a pleasure to help out.

I agree that I should take it easy right now. It's just so hard to step back when you meet someone who you really enjoy being around. I am very picky and tend to go for girls who can really give me a run for my money in the mental/wit arena, and unfortunately this type is not very common!

It sounds to me as if you two are really a winning combination, and I can just imagine the long sexy debates and play fights you can have 🙂 I wish you all the best with this person, and feel that you are the right person to bring out the best in her! Of course, this works both ways, and I am happy to see how excited you are! Excitement and good vibes are contagious, so keep spreading them!

I didn't have time to read your comments..as they are too long but generally I find virgo men intriguing and intelligent..not to mention some of them have a deep soothing sexy voice..yummm

Let me give you an example: my gemini friend and I are out on a night..she fancies this Virgo guy from south africa..not appealing to my physical senses but intelligent..lovely guy..i love the whole sarcasm thing that virgos possess..it cracks me up..i met him once, she's been chasing him for about 3 weeks..so the other night we are out and she really wants him to come out, he's with his friends..she says to me, please write a text message because he likes you for some reason, you made quite an impression on him..So I send him a text message and he responds with an arrogant message, so I respond with "get over yourself, your not that special"..and he laughs..and responds..this is not the gemini girl..this is the scorpio response..lol..and he keeps telling this gemini friend of mine that he really loved my text messages..and he keeps asking about me..I am 29 he's 22!..aint gonna happen..but nevertheless..I love the way he just keeps asking about me...lol..my gemini friend isn't amused but she finds it hillarious that I had the power to make him respond when she has been trying for 2 days and he didn't respond to her text message..lol..

Missmorals do you always steal your friends' love interestes from under their nose? Just joking of course 🙂 In my case I didn't get a response, which by the way gives me all the information I need to know = that we are not compatible. If someone finds me pushy/too much/too loud/ too anything, sorry I am 28 years old and chances are that any changes in my character will be cosmetic hehe.