Virgo~~ You were all right...

...that he was shy and scared.

I walked into the bar...he was standing there, staring at me, a big smile came across his face when I walked in and waved me over. I went over to him happy and looking HOT (hehehe). I was with a bunch of the regular crowd.

He asked how I've been/where I've been. Explained death in family and he said "I'm so sorry to hear that why didn't you call me?" I explained I was taking all the initiative previously and if he wanted to see me...he could have called me" He said he assumed I would be in the bar last week, he was waiting for me to show up. He then Introduced me to many of his "best friends from highschool" who were there...almost showing me off in a way....his stare and smile was amazing.

I just bought a new car I had just picked up that day so he wanted to see it. He hoped in and was fiddling with it for awhile. We came back in and he was telling all his friends " Meet Sophie68 ...She has a house over at the Country Club down the street and she just bought a beautiful new car...my god...you should see this thing "(his favorite car BTW I just found out).

I told him (when we were alone at the bar) "You know, I have a great time and really like you and would like ot see you again" He said he liked me too and felt the same way. He had such a smile on his face, his eyes lit up. He said "How about next week?...I'll call you in the beg. of the week" I went back to my friend and left shortly after...I did not say goodbye.

It went really well...I could tell how excited he was to see me and his aloofness seems to be the shyness in him...maybe insecurity.

So we will see.....

Thanks Virgotome...any other feedback from the crowd?

Hu DY...
So you think its a game right now? I am giving him space...I'm very busy with work and my house issues, but just to be called after every intimate night together would be nice. Why he waits for ME to call or "figured I would see you at the restaurant" is beyond me.

I think he is really analyzing now. I don;t have anyone to talk to abou thim at the bar because he has never dated any patron at his place (good thing?)

SOOO whats my strategy here?

He is also violating his rule by dating me...I'm a Patron...must be a little strange for him.

Ok...so my strategy is....what?

I just replied to your post....pls. read.....you are so digin her...I knew it!

Hey Dy...

Ya...he certainly has the ball alright...still no call.

I guess its only Monday.

I'm trying to be strong and not call.

this is truly frustrating but its teaching me patience. I am listening to all you guys tell me to let him take it slow. If I was truly being used this whole time and I never hear from him I will truly feel like a fool....

However, I noticed he likes to make "last minute plans" so this planning thing you keep talking about baffles me. Couple Examples:

1. One of our first dates he called "why don't you come by the bar tonight and we'll go grab dinner when I get off".

2. The day I got home from LA (I was gone for a month) he wanted to see me "right away" so we went to dinner that very night. He was over my house w/in 20 minutes of the call.

3. The next time he said "what are you doing tomorrow night?" Very spontanious...so the planning thing I don't see.