Warning. Been out drinking...

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Walkergrl on Sunday, February 26, 2017 and has 74 replies.
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I've finally done it. Blocked the Scorp from everything after sending a final message, "Don't contact me. I'm done"


I'd like to move on from this toxic Scorpio and at the same time give that sign another chance.


What are common places that Scorpio's hang out? I'd really like to find an evolved Scorp and give it another try. I'm sure there's been a thread on this before but honestly, I haven't looked.
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aww, what happened with you and your Scorp? or rather ex Scorp..
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we usually like hiding in the dark (:


or maybe under a bridge (:


but most are probably at home cause we like homes and stuffs (:
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He's been ghosting me off and on for the past 8 months. It's been hard because he's under my skin and in my heart. I know it sounds bad but I really had deep feelings for him.


Last Monday he finally came over after ditching me before Christmas. All he wanted really was sex and I denied him that.


Thursday night, I cut him off. There had been no "connection" after Monday. This is all on the heels of him telling me how much he misses me and how much he misses my "passion".


I deleted his number, put him on the auto reject and sent him the message through FB posted above.


Tonight I'm out having beer and shooting pool (this is a rather small community) and ran into a friend who really dislikes his sister but didn't recall her having a brother. I pulled up his FB page and there is a picture of him with a woman who looks eerily like me. Really caught me off guard. I wasn't able to block him on FB apparently, they have a 48 hr rule. I was able to do that just now after I got home.


It hurts but it needed to be done. I can't take his shitty behavior anymore.


I'd like to move on and hopefully, meet an evolved Scorpio and move on. I still feel like Scorpios and Virgos are two sides of one coin and I'd really like to meet a "healthy" Scorpio.


I feel angry right now, I know I've been drinking but I'm so pissed for allowing this man to control my emotions, thoughts, and feelings. He's a player. Obviously. I'm sure that had everything to do with him ghosting me all these months.
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oh dear I'm sorry *sending e-hugs* make sure you drink plenty of water and maybe take some aspirin so you don't feel too terrible when you wake up tomorrow.


as for Scorp, well sometimes people aren't so much defined by their sign but rather the fact they just generally suck at being a decent human being.


I can honestly say if a Scorpio is interested (at least from my personal experience and the Scorps I've known in my own personal life) they will never ghost you, they either are all in or all out. I don't find it typical for it to be both.


I will say he probably did genuinely mean he missed the passion that once existed between you two, but it doesn't sound like he's evolved enough as a person to step up and put in real effort to rekindle it.


the Facebook thing is kinda creepy. but that's why you should always stalk the heck out of someone you are interested in before giving them your heart lol.


sorry, I don't mean to make light of your situation, I know you are hurting, and I truly empathize with you.


you did the right thing cutting him off cold like that, now watch as he will go crazy and try to find a way to contact you in some time. but hopefully by then you will realize you deserve someone who will not ghost you, but rather treasure having you in their life.


I know Virgos hurt deeply, but hide it quite well. so I hope you have a nice big comfy blanket to bring you a little comfort (:
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Appreciate your words. I've heard it time and time again and I agree, that if anyone is interested they will make time for you.


As for him "going crazy and trying to contact me" I don't believe he's that kind of guy. I think and feel that he's the type to use anyone as a band-aid for his damaged self. He's moved on and has been moving on in my opinion.


I was the one that was too blinded by my feelings to accept it and move on myself.
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well from what you've just said it sounds like you've reasoned with yourself that you are indeed making the best choice for yourself.


we have all been too blinded by feelings and wore those rose colored glasses just a little too tight.


I know Virgo's tend to suffer internally for quite a while, I sincerely hope that's not the case for you.


and I wouldn't go trying to meet Scorpio's per say, we can be quite a volatile lot (:


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Posted by Walkergrl
I've finally done it. Blocked the Scorp from everything after sending a final message, "Don't contact me. I'm done"


I'd like to move on from this toxic Scorpio and at the same time give that sign another chance.


What are common places that Scorpio's hang out? I'd really like to find an evolved Scorp and give it another try. I'm sure there's been a thread on this before but honestly, I haven't looked.
OP, I don't know your story, but I have to ask, have you considered your role in your dealings with Scorpios? The reason I ask is the obvious. The common denominator is always yourself. I'm not saying you're a bad person or anything like that but you also have to be honest with yourself. It's not going to matter how "evolved" the Scorpio is if you haven't changed who you essentially are...if you haven't grown. Let's be real here. A lot of people blame the sign then want a better "version"of that sign...essentially trying to force something that's not meant to be and not going to work because they themselves haven't changed. If you constantly find yourself in toxic situations then you have consider the possibility that you yourself are toxic in some way. We are what we attract. That mantra doesn't change. It's not until we face the truth of ourselves...including the ugliness within us and deal with it...then things will change. There will always be toxic people, that won't change. But what and who we allow in our lives is our sole responsibility. Simply getting another Scorp won't do. Good luck smile


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I'm glad you got yourself out of that.I love how you're already trying to move on. It'll get better with time n you'll be ok Hug smile
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Posted by Walkergrl
He's been ghosting me off and on for the past 8 months. It's been hard because he's under my skin and in my heart. I know it sounds bad but I really had deep feelings for him.


Last Monday he finally came over after ditching me before Christmas. All he wanted really was sex and I denied him that.


Thursday night, I cut him off. There had been no "connection" after Monday. This is all on the heels of him telling me how much he misses me and how much he misses my "passion".


I deleted his number, put him on the auto reject and sent him the message through FB posted above.


Tonight I'm out having beer and shooting pool (this is a rather small community) and ran into a friend who really dislikes his sister but didn't recall her having a brother. I pulled up his FB page and there is a picture of him with a woman who looks eerily like me. Really caught me off guard. I wasn't able to block him on FB apparently, they have a 48 hr rule. I was able to do that just now after I got home.


It hurts but it needed to be done. I can't take his shitty behavior anymore.


I'd like to move on and hopefully, meet an evolved Scorpio and move on. I still feel like Scorpios and Virgos are two sides of one coin and I'd really like to meet a "healthy" Scorpio.


I feel angry right now, I know I've been drinking but I'm so pissed for allowing this man to control my emotions, thoughts, and feelings. He's a player. Obviously. I'm sure that had everything to do with him ghosting me all these months.


This reads like you plan to move on simply to feel better without taking the time to actually resolve and work through the feelings you have for this Scorp. If so, you're only going to get more of the same no matter how "healthy" the next Scorp is.


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Posted by Walkergrl
I've finally done it. Blocked the Scorp from everything after sending a final message, "Don't contact me. I'm done"


I'd like to move on from this toxic Scorpio and at the same time give that sign another chance.


What are common places that Scorpio's hang out? I'd really like to find an evolved Scorp and give it another try. I'm sure there's been a thread on this before but honestly, I haven't looked.
OP, I don't know your story, but I have to ask, have you considered your role in your dealings with Scorpios? The reason I ask is the obvious. The common denominator is always yourself. I'm not saying you're a bad person or anything like that but you also have to be honest with yourself. It's not going to matter how "evolved" the Scorpio is if you haven't changed who you essentially are...if you haven't grown. Let's be real here. A lot of people blame the sign then want a better "version"of that sign...essentially trying to force something that's not meant to be and not going to work because they themselves haven't changed. If you constantly find yourself in toxic situations then you have consider the possibility that you yourself are toxic in some way. We are what we attract. That mantra doesn't change. It's not until we face the truth of ourselves...including the ugliness within us and deal with it...then things will change. There will always be toxic people, that won't change. But what and who we allow in our lives is our sole responsibility. Simply getting another Scorp won't do. Good luck smile


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Posted by Gob_Shite

You know, I think Scorpios have the potential to be one of the best zodiac signs. I really do. Sadly, all the above prevents that from happening. It wouldn't be so bad if Scorpios didn't frequently inflict (or project) their shit onto others.


What's most annoying, though, is that wasted potential to enrich the lives of themselves and others, BUT more on a long-term basis. Just because you have a stinger, doesn't mean you have to use it with wild abandon. Unfortunately, many of you do.


And as for needing to control and manipulate others to compensate for your own insecurities...


I guess it's just one of those cases of close but no cigar.



For what it's worth, if you wrote more posts on this board like this, something a Scorp could actually reflect on, it would be much more appreciated.


With that stated, this post was helpful.


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Please take heed...


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Scorpios love to suffer themselves, while projecting their guilt outwards with intentions of trying to make other people be responsible by implying that it is someone other than themselves who has chosen to subject themselves to their own misery.
That is pretty much Scorpio in a nutshell, and doesn't sound at all like someone Aqua would care to relate to, since Aqua is fond of people being self-accountible.
Virgo's are probably the only ones dumb enough to make excuses for it once it's figured out, so they would be the likely perfect match. Other signs would figure it out and attempt to tolerate for a short period of time ... but, all the other signs would finally walk away and just let the Scorpio sting itself .... whereas the Virgo would spend a longer time falling for it = very gullible.

Aqua would last maybe half a dozen times that the Scorpio tried this ...... give or take a self-inflicted sting or two


https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/This-is-only-for-scorpios-2981129


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You know, I think Scorpios have the potential to be one of the best zodiac signs. I really do. Sadly, all the above prevents that from happening. It wouldn't be so bad if Scorpios didn't frequently inflict (or project) their shit onto others.


What's most annoying, though, is that wasted potential to enrich the lives of themselves and others, BUT more on a long-term basis. Just because you have a stinger, doesn't mean you have to use it with wild abandon. Unfortunately, many of you do.


And as for needing to control and manipulate others to compensate for your own insecurities...


I guess it's just one of those cases of close but no cigar.


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I think that just sounds like an unhappy person/individual. they sting but only if they are unhappy. they are stinging because of something they are unhappy in their lives with. the long-suffering of it. Not all of them are like this. A scorpionic person/individual who is gonna sting and project their unhappiness is because they don't like their life and holds it in.


happy individuals don't need to do that.

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Posted by Walkergrl
I've finally done it. Blocked the Scorp from everything after sending a final message, "Don't contact me. I'm done"


I'd like to move on from this toxic Scorpio and at the same time give that sign another chance.


What are common places that Scorpio's hang out? I'd really like to find an evolved Scorp and give it another try. I'm sure there's been a thread on this before but honestly, I haven't looked.
they're not hanging out drinking and moping around, that's for sure.


the ones you see in Hollywood are probably happier.


especially the married ones. Even the cuspers are happy, (ie, Simon Lebon, Ryan Gosling, Matthew McConnaughy, Anne Hathaway, Mads Mikkelsen, ect. when they find a happy partner who is self assured and confident and happy too, that they got their shit together, they don't need to wallow in pity)
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oh dear I'm sorry *sending e-hugs* make sure you drink plenty of water and maybe take some aspirin so you don't feel too terrible when you wake up tomorrow.


as for Scorp, well sometimes people aren't so much defined by their sign but rather the fact they just generally suck at being a decent human being.


I can honestly say if a Scorpio is interested (at least from my personal experience and the Scorps I've known in my own personal life) they will never ghost you, they either are all in or all out. I don't find it typical for it to be both.


I will say he probably did genuinely mean he missed the passion that once existed between you two, but it doesn't sound like he's evolved enough as a person to step up and put in real effort to rekindle it.


the Facebook thing is kinda creepy. but that's why you should always stalk the heck out of someone you are interested in before giving them your heart lol.


sorry, I don't mean to make light of your situation, I know you are hurting, and I truly empathize with you.


you did the right thing cutting him off cold like that, now watch as he will go crazy and try to find a way to contact you in some time. but hopefully by then you will realize you deserve someone who will not ghost you, but rather treasure having you in their life.


I know Virgos hurt deeply, but hide it quite well. so I hope you have a nice big comfy blanket to bring you a little comfort (:
Thank you. I am hurting. And my 2 am post was a drunk, feeling sorry for myself thing. I'm actually kind of embarrassed that I even asked where to find other Scorpios to date. That was my own lame idea of using another person to soothe the hurt that I feel.
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Posted by Walkergrl
I've finally done it. Blocked the Scorp from everything after sending a final message, "Don't contact me. I'm done"


I'd like to move on from this toxic Scorpio and at the same time give that sign another chance.


What are common places that Scorpio's hang out? I'd really like to find an evolved Scorp and give it another try. I'm sure there's been a thread on this before but honestly, I haven't looked.
OP, I don't know your story, but I have to ask, have you considered your role in your dealings with Scorpios? The reason I ask is the obvious. The common denominator is always yourself. I'm not saying you're a bad person or anything like that but you also have to be honest with yourself. It's not going to matter how "evolved" the Scorpio is if you haven't changed who you essentially are...if you haven't grown. Let's be real here. A lot of people blame the sign then want a better "version"of that sign...essentially trying to force something that's not meant to be and not going to work because they themselves haven't changed. If you constantly find yourself in toxic situations then you have consider the possibility that you yourself are toxic in some way. We are what we attract. That mantra doesn't change. It's not until we face the truth of ourselves...including the ugliness within us and deal with it...then things will change. There will always be toxic people, that won't change. But what and who we allow in our lives is our sole responsibility. Simply getting another Scorp won't do. Good luck smile


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if only people would LISTEN to this.



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Posted by beautifulsoul74
Posted by Walkergrl
I've finally done it. Blocked the Scorp from everything after sending a final message, "Don't contact me. I'm done"


I'd like to move on from this toxic Scorpio and at the same time give that sign another chance.


What are common places that Scorpio's hang out? I'd really like to find an evolved Scorp and give it another try. I'm sure there's been a thread on this before but honestly, I haven't looked.
OP, I don't know your story, but I have to ask, have you considered your role in your dealings with Scorpios? The reason I ask is the obvious. The common denominator is always yourself. I'm not saying you're a bad person or anything like that but you also have to be honest with yourself. It's not going to matter how "evolved" the Scorpio is if you haven't changed who you essentially are...if you haven't grown. Let's be real here. A lot of people blame the sign then want a better "version"of that sign...essentially trying to force something that's not meant to be and not going to work because they themselves haven't changed. If you constantly find yourself in toxic situations then you have consider the possibility that you yourself are toxic in some way. We are what we attract. That mantra doesn't change. It's not until we face the truth of ourselves...including the ugliness within us and deal with it...then things will change. There will always be toxic people, that won't change. But what and who we allow in our lives is our sole responsibility. Simply getting another Scorp won't do. Good luck smile


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I appreciate what you've written here. I don't have any experience with this sign except for the one guy. I'm not a bad person and I know you weren't insinuating that I am. I have my own damaged parts. I have a better version of myself and the worst version. I'm human. I don't even know if I'm made for relationships. I've been alone for many years of my life. I suppose that's what makes it so hard. I just want to love and be loved.


"Simply getting another Scorp won't do."


This. I realize. I was thinking through beer goggles last night.
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I'm glad you got yourself out of that.I love how you're already trying to move on. It'll get better with time n you'll be ok Hug smile
Thank you, Teena.

I was being ridiculous in thinking that I could just move on. I can't. I need to process through all of my emotions first.
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Please take heed...


Posted by P-Angel
Scorpios love to suffer themselves, while projecting their guilt outwards with intentions of trying to make other people be responsible by implying that it is someone other than themselves who has chosen to subject themselves to their own misery.
That is pretty much Scorpio in a nutshell, and doesn't sound at all like someone Aqua would care to relate to, since Aqua is fond of people being self-accountible.
Virgo's are probably the only ones dumb enough to make excuses for it once it's figured out, so they would be the likely perfect match. Other signs would figure it out and attempt to tolerate for a short period of time ... but, all the other signs would finally walk away and just let the Scorpio sting itself .... whereas the Virgo would spend a longer time falling for it = very gullible.

Aqua would last maybe half a dozen times that the Scorpio tried this ...... give or take a self-inflicted sting or two


https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/This-is-only-for-scorpios-2981129


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"Virgo's are probably the only ones dumb enough to make excuses for it once it's figured out."


Sensitive, giving and forgiving. Yes. Dumb. No.


That is a fault of mine. I forgive far too often until I reach the point of enough. And even then, it still hurts my soul. The worst form of abuse, emotional abuse.
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The LAST thing you need is expose yourself to another Scorpio while you're SOOOO on the rebound. And here I am supposed to be the glutton for punishment.


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Posted by Vageenka
Why do you need to meet another Scorpio? An "evolved" Scorpio?


Just go with the flow. You may have an amazing connection with someone who isn't a Scorp.
I know. You're right. I was being ridiculous thinking that, in the dark of the night.
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I'm glad you got yourself out of that.I love how you're already trying to move on. It'll get better with time n you'll be ok Hug smile
Thank you, Teena.

I was being ridiculous in thinking that I could just move on. I can't. I need to process through all of my emotions first.
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It's ok. Take your time. Just don't fall back. It's tough...it always is. But we'll be fine really smile
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He's been ghosting me off and on for the past 8 months. It's been hard because he's under my skin and in my heart. I know it sounds bad but I really had deep feelings for him.


Last Monday he finally came over after ditching me before Christmas. All he wanted really was sex and I denied him that.


Thursday night, I cut him off. There had been no "connection" after Monday. This is all on the heels of him telling me how much he misses me and how much he misses my "passion".


I deleted his number, put him on the auto reject and sent him the message through FB posted above.


Tonight I'm out having beer and shooting pool (this is a rather small community) and ran into a friend who really dislikes his sister but didn't recall her having a brother. I pulled up his FB page and there is a picture of him with a woman who looks eerily like me. Really caught me off guard. I wasn't able to block him on FB apparently, they have a 48 hr rule. I was able to do that just now after I got home.


It hurts but it needed to be done. I can't take his shitty behavior anymore.


I'd like to move on and hopefully, meet an evolved Scorpio and move on. I still feel like Scorpios and Virgos are two sides of one coin and I'd really like to meet a "healthy" Scorpio.


I feel angry right now, I know I've been drinking but I'm so pissed for allowing this man to control my emotions, thoughts, and feelings. He's a player. Obviously. I'm sure that had everything to do with him ghosting me all these months.


This reads like you plan to move on simply to feel better without taking the time to actually resolve and work through the feelings you have for this Scorp. If so, you're only going to get more of the same no matter how "healthy" the next Scorp is.


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You're right. That was exactly how I was feeling. In the light of day... and without the beer goggles, a different perspective.


By the way, PhoenixRising, I've always appreciated your sound, sage advice here on DXP.
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I'm sorry. Good for you!


I'm being ignored right now too. Feeling like a giant idiot and like I'm far too old for this shite.
I don't understand this kind of behavior. I've never experienced it before. When he was around he was very attentive, loving, sensitive, but never giving. I suppose the "good" parts of him kept me hooked. I must end this.
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Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
Im usually at home. Perhaps you could meet a nice man volunteering somewhere. Maybe volunteer at a hospital. There should be compassionate Scorpios there.

Also, stay strong and NEVER unblock him or contact him. He does not add anything good to your life. Good Luck
Thanks, UVD. I think I'm just going to focus on my financial house, spiritual house, and taking care of my son for now. I am strong and I've reached the point of no return with this guy. He's locked out.
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Posted by Distilled
To the Op- I known you've been posting about this dude for a while and you're hurt.

I'll share a little something through a similar experience I had- Scorpios(even the "low" types)- will not settle for less than what they deserve. This is the greatest lessons they can teach everyone- boundaries and never to settle! Why should they? Why should we, or anyone? Players and people like this don't have to because there are always people out there willing to give give give. It takes a strong person to actually change, and it's a very lonely path. It seems that some people, even bad people, seem to have it all when they don't choose you- but, their "all" is usually very shallow and you can put a price on it. Even the ones who change overnight and move on quick.. The cracks are still there and believe me they will show and blow up- people like this cannot run from themselves!

That's why it's up to you to also know that you deserve better, it's not up to him to see it. He knows what it's like to be with you and how special it is. You can't convince anyone but yourself! If people push your boundaries and then claim you should have some- it doesn't speak much for themselves either if they push them! Healthy people respect others and move at their levels. Unhealthy people mirror and project.

This man maybe came into your life to teach you a lesson. maybe his own lesson lies elsewhere. Please take some time to heal and know you can't control who you like and love- but you can control your own fate, as can they! Time is so precious once you think it's running out with someone, but so long when you have to be by yourself- use it wisely!


Cheers and hugs!
Thank you. I agree. The struggle all these months stem from him opening up that vulnerable part of myself that for the first time in 9 years was willing to love again. Clearly, I have an issue with setting boundaries. It's not just with him. It's with certain friendships as well. I have a deep well of forgiveness until I reach that breaking point.


" Please take some time to heal and know you can't control who you like and love- but you can control your own fate"


This. I will do. I'm not jumping into anything with anyone until I'm ready.
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The LAST thing you need is expose yourself to another Scorpio while you're SOOOO on the rebound.
I know, and I SOOOO agree with you!
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I'm glad you got yourself out of that.I love how you're already trying to move on. It'll get better with time n you'll be ok Hug smile
Thank you, Teena.

I was being ridiculous in thinking that I could just move on. I can't. I need to process through all of my emotions first.
It's ok. Take your time. Just don't fall back. It's tough...it always is. But we'll be fine really smile
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No falling back. No leaving the door open just a crack. I've put myself on lockdown.
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I'm sorry. Good for you!


I'm being ignored right now too. Feeling like a giant idiot and like I'm far too old for this shite.
I don't understand this kind of behavior. I've never experienced it before. When he was around he was very attentive, loving, sensitive, but never giving. I suppose the "good" parts of him kept me hooked. I must end this.
*hug*

I've never been treated like this before either. I think part of the reason we let it go on is because it's so confusing, we almost can't believe it's really happening. There must be something we're missing or not doing right, right? SMH. I know how painful it is. I'm sorry.
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IT IS CONFUSING. I hate it.
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Posted by tiziani
I honestly don't think you should deny yourself.
What do you mean?
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The LAST thing you need is expose yourself to another Scorpio while you're SOOOO on the rebound.
I know, and I SOOOO agree with you!
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You couldn't have waited 30 seconds before quoting me so you could grab the final version of my post? Bah...


I like it when Virgos agree with me. It gives me ultimate power over them!

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What would you do without me? So you keep agreeing, and you live long & prosper.

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I'm sorry. Good for you!


I'm being ignored right now too. Feeling like a giant idiot and like I'm far too old for this shite.
I don't understand this kind of behavior. I've never experienced it before. When he was around he was very attentive, loving, sensitive, but never giving. I suppose the "good" parts of him kept me hooked. I must end this.
*hug*

I've never been treated like this before either. I think part of the reason we let it go on is because it's so confusing, we almost can't believe it's really happening. There must be something we're missing or not doing right, right? SMH. I know how painful it is. I'm sorry.
IT IS CONFUSING. I hate it.
I feel like a dog that has been beat. I know I'm bad, and my owner hates me. But I don't know why.


I thought I figured it out and apologized, but I guess I didn't.


And here I am, a capable, intelligent woman bending over left, right, backwards, and into myself trying to figure out what I did wrong on a forum because he won't speak to me.
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I know I've seen you write about him "lovingly". How long have you been seeing him? Are you living together?
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I honestly don't think you should deny yourself.
What do you mean?
I mean, in your position, if I had to lock myself down then I know I would be more and more tempted as time passes. It would prey on my mind, and I'd be devoting more and more of my thoughts and energy to not doing it, not contacting them.


But that's me. Your mind and impulses work differently to mine.
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I get what you're trying to tell. I've been in both the situations actually. Locking down n letting myself go with the flow. Two completely opposite situations.The latter was less traumatic I must say. N when the time came for me to actually move on, surprisingly it was very easy. I can't stress how easy it was. I thought I'll complicate things by falling deeper n making it more harder to let go when I have to. But that is not what happened. I cherish the whole thing more.
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Posted by tiziani
I honestly don't think you should deny yourself.
What do you mean?
I mean, in your position, if I had to lock myself down then I know I would be more and more tempted as time passes. It would prey on my mind, and I'd be devoting more and more of my thoughts and energy to not doing it, not contacting them.


But that's me. Your mind and impulses work differently to mine.
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I hear what you're saying. I agree in that respect. My mind is always working, thinking, replaying situations, so on and so forth. It's incredibly hard to shut my mind off just to sleep, most nights. Locking myself down was probably too strong of a statement. It implies that I'm not willing to love again, and that's not true. I want to keep my heart open. When I stated that, I was referring to keeping myself busy with life things and making an effort to not focus on meeting someone new. I'm in a new job right now which keeps me in the public eye. I'm sure I'll meet and make some new friends.


"more tempted as time passes."


This would happen because he would always text me unexpectedly. It was like he wouldn't allow me to forget him and move on. I would exacerbate the situation by having one glass of wine too many. Next thing you know, my resolve is gone and would cave in contacting him back. This time, though, I've done all I can to prevent him contacting me. I've blocked him on FB. I have no desire to know what he's up to. I'll always run the risk of bumping into him. It's a rather small city and we run in the same circles.


Sorry. I feel like I just ran off on another tangent. Need more coffee.
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The LAST thing you need is expose yourself to another Scorpio while you're SOOOO on the rebound.
I know, and I SOOOO agree with you!
You couldn't have waited 30 seconds before quoting me so you could grab the final version of my post? Bah...


I like it when Virgos agree with me. It gives me ultimate power over them!

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What would you do without me? So you keep agreeing, and you live long & prosper.

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Sorry. I'm on a roll. Thanks for the LOL moment. Made me feel better. Winking
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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
lol they could be anywhere like under your bed, closet or backseat of your car.
Nice. The boogyman.
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lol they could be anywhere like under your bed, closet or backseat of your car.
Nice. The boogyman.
Maybe you really don't need a Scorpio try a different sign you'll never know.
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Yeah. I'm certainly not going to focus on it.
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You know, I think Scorpios have the potential to be one of the best zodiac signs. I really do. Sadly, all the above prevents that from happening. It wouldn't be so bad if Scorpios didn't frequently inflict (or project) their shit onto others.


What's most annoying, though, is that wasted potential to enrich the lives of themselves and others, BUT more on a long-term basis. Just because you have a stinger, doesn't mean you have to use it with wild abandon. Unfortunately, many of you do.


And as for needing to control and manipulate others to compensate for your own insecurities...


I guess it's just one of those cases of close but no cigar.



For what it's worth, if you wrote more posts on this board like this, something a Scorp could actually reflect on, it would be much more appreciated.


With that stated, this post was helpful.




Life's too short to reason with a fixed sign...

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Lol. Fair enough. I feel the same way.


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I'm sorry. Good for you!


I'm being ignored right now too. Feeling like a giant idiot and like I'm far too old for this shite.
I don't understand this kind of behavior. I've never experienced it before. When he was around he was very attentive, loving, sensitive, but never giving. I suppose the "good" parts of him kept me hooked. I must end this.
*hug*

I've never been treated like this before either. I think part of the reason we let it go on is because it's so confusing, we almost can't believe it's really happening. There must be something we're missing or not doing right, right? SMH. I know how painful it is. I'm sorry.
IT IS CONFUSING. I hate it.


I'm right there with you Walkergrl, what the heck is it with that Virgo/Scorpio connection? They get inside us in ways I've not let most men do, tearing down that normal Virgo reserve making us feel things not previously felt.


My advice? Don't try to figure it out, just take from it the fact that you now remember that you can fall and feel deeply... It takes time to get that Scorpio drug out of our systems, but it will happen and hopefully you'll be glad for the experience!

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I don't know what it's all about. I've never felt anything like this before. I'd like to feel it again but in a healthy way of course.
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You're 52 lol you sound stupid as fuk instead of looking for a healthy relationship you're looking for another Scorpio.


You pathetic lady. In the end it don't matter the zodiac it's all about



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Thank you. For kicking a girl while she's down. You're special.
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Posted by Teena
I'm glad you got yourself out of that.I love how you're already trying to move on. It'll get better with time n you'll be ok Hug smile
No it won't! Get better! Ever!

Just have to learn how to live with it!

And not to be looking for signs but good men'!

Gee! I thought I am the oldest idiot here...

What a relieve...lol
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Lol you're way too old for this sheet!


I eat Scorpius for breakfast. Make them feel like sheet.


Don't fuk with me like that
Flat sheet Or fitted sheet?
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There's no connection strong enough to be strung like a violin.
Poor putz! Pray you will never find one and die having no idea what love is!


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Sorry you can't plan to meet a Scorpio .... They are very mysterious ... Hidden... The Scorpio finds you... You can't force something to become with them...
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
You're 52 lol you sound stupid as fuk instead of looking for a healthy relationship you're looking for another Scorpio.


You pathetic lady. In the end it don't matter the zodiac it's all about



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Well! Some of these posts are for real strong but true! I can chime in with 'sorry this happened to you' but I won't.

I am 50 and I am dealing with my Scorp for 8 years now.

I love him to the point that o don't care about anything he is doing (he is an awesome man though) as long as he is by my side when it suits are both!


I've dealt with dissapearance. But my feeling always prevailed. Hear his voice on the phone is enough to keep living!


If you can't and fed up - you made your choice and stick to it. And don't even count on hurt to stop. Until next love will come. Unfortunately for me I can't count on that.

Good luck and you can lm me of you want.
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Sorry you can't plan to meet a Scorpio .... They are very mysterious ... Hidden... The Scorpio finds you... You can't force something to become with them...
Exactly!


However one thing...you can technically 'force' one to be with you - it's called seduction...
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Sorry you can't plan to meet a Scorpio .... They are very mysterious ... Hidden... The Scorpio finds you... You can't force something to become with them...
That was the beer talking. I'm past that now.
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Posted by Bottabing
Sorry you can't plan to meet a Scorpio .... They are very mysterious ... Hidden... The Scorpio finds you... You can't force something to become with them...
Exactly!


However one thing...you can technically 'force' one to be with you - it's called seduction...
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But it won't last... Anything with a motive or a manipulation with a Scorpio ... Be prepared to get stung .....

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Sorry you can't plan to meet a Scorpio .... They are very mysterious ... Hidden... The Scorpio finds you... You can't force something to become with them...
Exactly!


However one thing...you can technically 'force' one to be with you - it's called seduction...


But it won't last... Anything with a motive or a manipulation with a Scorpio ... Be prepared to get stung .....

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Oh...it's for my friend...


Also seduction and manipulation is 2 different things. I might really want you so I am deducing you into liking me and then we will see...
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Posted by Bottabing
Sorry you can't plan to meet a Scorpio .... They are very mysterious ... Hidden... The Scorpio finds you... You can't force something to become with them...
That was the beer talking. I'm past that now.
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already??? past that? What kind of beer were you drinking???
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