Was I THAT wrong?

Was I THAT wrong?

Sorry... about that one.
I was on the phone with my Cancer friend, we've been friends for a long time and have liked eachother once, but nothing happened.

Well, he made a move for the fourth time and I turned him down. He has been trying to be with me for a very long time. So he asked me why, and I told him no, because I just didn't want to go there. He kept asking so I told him, I said he did not have what I wanted in someone that I am having a relationship with, I do not get that feeling that I should get when I'm around him, and that I do not think he can handle me, because he can't. He began to say that he would treat me better than some people, hinting at my ex boyfriend, and started to cry. He wasn't BOO HOOING, but he was crying. He is a crybaby, and that is another thing that pissed me off. So he hung up on me...I did not call him back. Should I apologize for what I said to him? I don't want to, but maybe I should. And would that hurt your feelings that bad if someone said that to you?

I didn't tell him that I was interested or anything. And he is expecting so much out of me. So I am not playing with his head at all.

If you really love a person and they don't love you back, of course it hurts. But, you feel the way you feel and you were being honest with him. Continuing a friendship where one person feels more than friendship is hard..darn near impossible. It may be best if the two of you don't hang out for awhile. Maybe wait until he has moved on, or better yet, has someone new in his life before renewing your friendship.

Ive had almost the same expeirince accept i didnt cry,
almost,
and it was thru the internet,...
at least i didnt cry at the moment,
and i think it changed my life,
i now know NEVER EVER EVER EVER,
show your true feelings because its usual too mutch for the girl to handle,
wich is understandable if you a water sign guy like me...
because theres alot.

It scarred me mentally but life goes on.

and to answer:

I think you shouldnt really apologize Directly and blunt but explain that you like him mutch more as a freind and that you didnt mean to completely destroy his feelings/make him start to cry.

Ive had almost the same expeirince accept i didnt cry,
almost,
and it was thru the internet,...
at least i didnt cry at the moment,
and i think it changed my life,
i now know NEVER EVER EVER EVER,
show your true feelings because its usual too mutch for the girl to handle,
wich is understandable if you a water sign guy like me...
because theres alot.

It scarred me mentally but life goes on.

and to answer:

I think you shouldnt really apologize Directly and blunt but explain that you like him mutch more as a freind and that you didnt mean to completely destroy his feelings/make him start to cry.

The heart will not go foward before two brains will agree on doing so. This guy let his heart go before his brain told it to do so.

I wouldn't apologize fot it,He asked he got an answer.I guess I would say that sea sirens more on the same track as too what im thinking.Take a break from each other for a while,it will work out if the friendship is that important and not replacable with a little time.