Went clubbing last night with old old ex scorpio..

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by happykitsune on Friday, September 2, 2011 and has 45 replies.
...and as I was leaving I go in for a kiss. Everyone was shocked, as was he. Then I just left.
Hmm wonder what kinda plot twist that'll throw into my love life
Was the Leo there? Could get ugly. Heh.
Funny, I went to a club with my ex scorp too last night we are just friends now so no kiss but we had a good time him buying me drinks all night and talking to me and then my scorp friend (a girl)taking me home.
Posted by Nights22
Do you make this shit up? Or are you just Mormon?


Ew, definitely not mormon lol
I'm a sag, of course I'm not making this up.
I remember now, I was thinking back last night after I got my hair done and thought "man I'm really doing good just sticking with one guy even though we're technically not official. I'm surprised I'm not letting myself outta the cage." Well the kitsune got out...
But I mean really, it was just a kiss. And we were all pretty far gone so I'm hoping either he forgot or I can use the excuse of being drunk to say I don't remember Tongue
Either way it was a nice shock affect and I'm glad I got it outta my system.
...............WHORE
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Well that's not very nice now is it ?


Well atleast she hasnt fallen off the roof. smile
She was drunk and only kissed an old guy smile
Boon for the old ex,bane for the poor lion Tongue
Seeing the bright side only
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Different boy every other week, so it's kinda par for the course (no offense HK, you remind me of a hyperactive puppy when it comes to boys).
Next week back yo hot boys gtting her all flustered while she's folding T-shirts or something.


Its more like many wannabe heroes enter her life and shes waiting for a anti hero?
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Well that's not very nice now is it ?



IKR?! thats what im saying! its like why would you do that when you're seeing someone else
Winking
Posted by piroglesic
She was drunk and only kissed an old guy smile


Actually he's my age. I use "old old" to differentiate between him and my recent ex scorp
Posted by westside
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Well that's not very nice now is it ?



IKR?! thats what im saying! its like why would you do that when you're seeing someone else
Winking
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Why? Because nothings official with the leo and a kiss is...well a kiss. It can mean a lot of things to different people, but it all depends on the person giving and receiving them.
Posted by happykitsune
Posted by piroglesic
She was drunk and only kissed an old guy smile


Actually he's my age. I use "old old" to differentiate between him and my recent ex scorp
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Oh!
"Hmm wonder what kinda plot twist that'll throw into my love life"
Kinda bubbles may turn into square twist .Unknown smile
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Posted by piroglesic
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Different boy every other week, so it's kinda par for the course (no offense HK, you remind me of a hyperactive puppy when it comes to boys).
Next week back yo hot boys gtting her all flustered while she's folding T-shirts or something.


Its more like many wannabe heroes enter her life and shes waiting for a anti hero?



She sounds like a whole load of hassle imo.
Nice, but yeah..hassle.
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Haha sure sure.
If I'm official I don't cheat. Never have, never will. But when there's nothing defined...I'm sorry, but everything is fair game.
Don't get me wrong. I've been good up until this point. But I guess something had to give...just took some alcohol to do it
Sags are veryyyyyy broad minded in their outlook .I know from experience .Not defending anyone .Not so much of a startling revelation to me here there thats it smile
Posted by piroglesic
Posted by happykitsune
Posted by piroglesic
She was drunk and only kissed an old guy smile


Actually he's my age. I use "old old" to differentiate between him and my recent ex scorp


Oh!
"Hmm wonder what kinda plot twist that'll throw into my love life"
Kinda bubbles may turn into square twist .Unknown smile
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Haha honestly I really don't think there will be any plot twist. Leo and scorpio don't know each other and even if the leo did happen to find out he's not going to get hurt over a kiss. Maybe a little offended, but a kiss under the influence of alcohol is something we just kinda brush off. Now if it were sex...well heck I'd be mad at myself.
Posted by happykitsune
Posted by westside
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Well that's not very nice now is it ?



IKR?! thats what im saying! its like why would you do that when you're seeing someone else
Winking


Why? Because nothings official with the leo and a kiss is...well a kiss. It can mean a lot of things to different people, but it all depends on the person giving and receiving them.

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whatever you have to tell yourself, i suppose
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Posted by happykitsune
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Posted by piroglesic
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Different boy every other week, so it's kinda par for the course (no offense HK, you remind me of a hyperactive puppy when it comes to boys).
Next week back yo hot boys gtting her all flustered while she's folding T-shirts or something.


Its more like many wannabe heroes enter her life and shes waiting for a anti hero?



She sounds like a whole load of hassle imo.
Nice, but yeah..hassle.


Haha sure sure.
If I'm official I don't cheat. Never have, never will. But when there's nothing defined...I'm sorry, but everything is fair game.
Don't get me wrong. I've been good up until this point. But I guess something had to give...just took some alcohol to do it


I get where you're coming from but at the same time if the Leo did the same I bet you'd flip smile
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I've thought about it. I'm not into the whole double standards thing. Trust me, I've dealt with worse and forgiven the person. This was back when I was less controlled in my emotions. Now it might bother me a little, but I'd get over it. Like I said, if it's just a kiss its just a kiss.
Posted by happykitsune
Posted by piroglesic
Posted by happykitsune
Posted by piroglesic
She was drunk and only kissed an old guy smile


Actually he's my age. I use "old old" to differentiate between him and my recent ex scorp


Oh!
"Hmm wonder what kinda plot twist that'll throw into my love life"
Kinda bubbles may turn into square twist .Unknown smile


Haha honestly I really don't think there will be any plot twist. Leo and scorpio don't know each other and even if the leo did happen to find out he's not going to get hurt over a kiss. Maybe a little offended, but a kiss under the influence of alcohol is something we just kinda brush off. Now if it were sex...well heck I'd be mad at myself.
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Well dont forget to give the onion treatment if lion starts to roar.Should make him sick for a day or two again
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Srs Kitsune, you're only at 'Happy' stage, so maybe only 3 tails ? (sorry, had to throw that one in there arf arf smile)
At sardonic stage as I think it's my right to point out these things to help you on your way. smile


Thanks triple E. Appreciate that
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Not even a 'so you've had 9 tails' comeback in sight either lol.


That reeks of talent Tongue Tongue
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Not even a 'so you've had 9 tails' comeback in sight either lol.


haha I'm not one to judge if you have or haven't had them ;P
Posted by exoskeleton
happykit, straight up, if you're content with the leo like you said on your other thread, why are you constantly searching for attention and affection elsewhere? when it comes down to it, you just stirred shit up with your ex for that. you create these kinds of situations/dilemmas and then wonder why things goes sour for you in the end.


Actually I dont go searching for attention. If I did I'd be taking the offers I get to go on dates and I'd be hanging out with guys other than my bff and my leo.
The only reason I saw the scorpio is because I was out with the girls and he happened to be there. A kiss isn't going to get me into any trouble...that is if he even finds out. But I guess a lot of people on here see a kiss as something big... :/ That's cool, but I don't always see them that way. Only when I really love the person is the kiss really significant.
So far none of my endeavors with these guys have ended because I've been with other guys. They've ended because the other person or I decided we didn't want to carry on with it.
Posted by exoskeleton
happykit, straight up, if you're content with the leo like you said on your other thread, why are you constantly searching for attention and affection elsewhere? when it comes down to it, you just stirred shit up with your ex for that. you create these kinds of situations/dilemmas and then wonder why things goes sour for you in the end.


This is why situations sometimes end up becoming violent with men and women. I don't think women should ever stir up something between men for entertainment purposes. It never ends well. happy, maybe that's not your intentions, but its presented as if your now sitting back and twiddling your thumbs.
ugh, it's not like anyone knows what the leo's up to. i get that being exclusive is good, but so many of my girls have been straight, only to find their guys been necking on (and worse) with other people. and then some aren't so good, that never plays out well...
then again, you get out what you put in? to kiss or not to kiss...i don't think it's that bad. the old 'ex' factor...it wasn't some random.
i just got too libra with this. and there's no libra in my chart
*leaves thread*
Posted by exoskeleton
happy, yes, he only happened to be there, and you just happened to kiss him. lol. maybe the kiss wasn't a big deal to you, and maybe the leo wouldn't see it as a big deal either if he found out, but have you thought about how the scorp may have felt about it? do you care?
lnana, truth.
nimbue, LOL.


Big Grin
Posted by happykitsune
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Posted by piroglesic
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Different boy every other week, so it's kinda par for the course (no offense HK, you remind me of a hyperactive puppy when it comes to boys).
Next week back yo hot boys gtting her all flustered while she's folding T-shirts or something.


Its more like many wannabe heroes enter her life and shes waiting for a anti hero?



She sounds like a whole load of hassle imo.
Nice, but yeah..hassle.


Haha sure sure.
If I'm official I don't cheat. Never have, never will. But when there's nothing defined...I'm sorry, but everything is fair game.
Don't get me wrong. I've been good up until this point. But I guess something had to give...just took some alcohol to do it
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do the same rules apply to the men your involved with?
Bling, are you talking to yourself you weirdo?? lol
Posted by exoskeleton
happykit, straight up, if you're content with the leo like you said on your other thread, why are you constantly searching for attention and affection elsewhere? when it comes down to it, you just stirred shit up with your ex for that. you create these kinds of situations/dilemmas and then wonder why things goes sour for you in the end.


agree 100% .
Posted by lnana04
Posted by exoskeleton
happykit, straight up, if you're content with the leo like you said on your other thread, why are you constantly searching for attention and affection elsewhere? when it comes down to it, you just stirred shit up with your ex for that. you create these kinds of situations/dilemmas and then wonder why things goes sour for you in the end.


This is why situations sometimes end up becoming violent with men and women. I don't think women should ever stir up something between men for entertainment purposes. It never ends well. happy, maybe that's not your intentions, but its presented as if your now sitting back and twiddling your thumbs.
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nope. it never ends well. and it will come back to bite you in the ass.
Posted by exoskeleton
sorry, i really don't understand the saggi casual/promiscuous mentality, lol.


hmm, im promiscous...and casual sex is up my alley. but you cant use men as play things to soothe boredom. its not fair to them and its not fair to me. nobody wins.
Posted by happykitsune
Posted by exoskeleton
happykit, straight up, if you're content with the leo like you said on your other thread, why are you constantly searching for attention and affection elsewhere? when it comes down to it, you just stirred shit up with your ex for that. you create these kinds of situations/dilemmas and then wonder why things goes sour for you in the end.


Actually I dont go searching for attention. If I did I'd be taking the offers I get to go on dates and I'd be hanging out with guys other than my bff and my leo.
The only reason I saw the scorpio is because I was out with the girls and he happened to be there. A kiss isn't going to get me into any trouble...that is if he even finds out. But I guess a lot of people on here see a kiss as something big... :/ That's cool, but I don't always see them that way. Only when I really love the person is the kiss really significant.
So far none of my endeavors with these guys have ended because I've been with other guys. They've ended because the other person or I decided we didn't want to carry on with it.
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look, im no stranger to having multiple players on the bench. but when you posts about the leo, you genuinely like him so its wierd to have u posting about kissing another guy. it just seems like u go from guy to guy, back to old guys, new guys..kinda like u have a hard time concentrating on just one. there have been even times where youve said that your in a relationship only to take it back days later.
we have essentially the same chart, so i see the road your heading towards. i dont want you to have to learn the hard lessons that i did. your scorp moon is resilient, but the scars will run deep.
Posted by happykitsune
...and as I was leaving I go in for a kiss. Everyone was shocked, as was he. Then I just left.
Hmm wonder what kinda plot twist that'll throw into my love life


a drama filled twist and your scorp moon craves it.
Posted by ellessque
the scars are already deep and that explains the behaviour?


good call...
Posted by exoskeleton
happy, yes, he only happened to be there, and you just happened to kiss him. lol. maybe the kiss wasn't a big deal to you, and maybe the leo wouldn't see it as a big deal either if he found out, but have you thought about how the scorp may have felt about it? do you care?
lnana, truth.
nimbue, LOL.


The scorp has been clear with me he doesn't want anything more than a "friendship". Trust me, I'm not hurting him at all.
Posted by ellessque
the scars are already deep and that explains the behaviour?


Yes good call indeed. We shall see where this leads me. I can't quite put my finger on it, but perhaps I like the thrill of cheating the inevitable.
Posted by exoskeleton
sorry, i really don't understand the saggi casual/promiscuous mentality, lol.


Not all Sags. I just dress like a whore Tongue
@Happy, I hope everything with your Leo works out and no one gets hurt in the process. Complications make that just a tad bit harder.
Posted by Mebs
Posted by exoskeleton
sorry, i really don't understand the saggi casual/promiscuous mentality, lol.


Not all Sags. I just dress like a whore Tongue
@Happy, I hope everything with your Leo works out and no one gets hurt in the process. Complications make that just a tad bit harder.
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Thanks. I think I just needed to get it out of my system
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Posted by piroglesic
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Not even a 'so you've had 9 tails' comeback in sight either lol.


That reeks of talent Tongue Tongue


Why thank you smile
Without putting them down too much, can be a little slow on the uptake at times but everyone has their lesser foibles I do believe smile
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Well i woudnt complain though (in a good way) smile,are we not entitled to some privileges when we are givers(kiss) by nature? smile
Posted by exoskeleton
sorry, i really don't understand the saggi casual/promiscuous mentality, lol.


Yea well I don't understand the emotional promiscuousness from scorps Tongue
Different folks, different strokes
I mean it's not like your goal was to end up being official with the leo was it?
If not than I don't see any problem in what your doing.
Posted by exoskeleton
eh, emotional promiscuity? whatcha mean? like emotionally cheating?


I believe she means you still have sex, but you do it on an emotional level. You throw your whole being into the matter, where as sags only have sex as a means for fun.
Posted by exoskeleton
Posted by happykitsune
Posted by exoskeleton
eh, emotional promiscuity? whatcha mean? like emotionally cheating?


I believe she means you still have sex, but you do it on an emotional level. You throw your whole being into the matter, where as sags only have sex as a means for fun.


i don't know if that's what she was alluding to. sag89?
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I mean sometimes SOME scorpios fall in love with everyone and everything because they are so emotional.
Where alot of sags can be virgins to love. They don't tie everything in with a emotion.
So they can seem a little ridiculous with there over the top emotions only to disappear later when they decided on now I'm in love with___
Where scorps can think sags are ridiculous with their physical hopping around.

I'm too tired to think of a way to explain this further but ya.





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