Were your Exes Similar ?

Did they have a lot of similarities (physical/behavior) or were they all different from each other?

how would you describe them and your chemistry with them ? do you think you could create the perfect lover for you if you could have one trait from each ex and mix it up ?

some of my serious exes-

1. made me laugh all the time, crazy chemisty
2. he loved me with all my flaws, marriage material, not so good chemistry
3. crazy guy, great chemistry, our sex life was odd
4. I thought he was stupid but sex was a-w-e-s-o-m-e

so I think if I could have a crazy yet marriage material guy who I have wonderful sex with....lol

Posted by beggarsblanket
Did they have a lot of similarities (physical/behavior) or were they all different from each other?

how would you describe them and your chemistry with them ?

No, they were all different-- except for the Leos.

Neither seemed to really like me very much (but they didn't want me to leave). :/

Posted by beggarsblanket
do you think you could create the perfect lover for you if you could have one trait from each ex and mix it up ?

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I don't think so.

Still something missing.

Posted by beggarsblanket
Did they have a lot of similarities (physical/behavior) or were they all different from each other?

one thing they share in common, they were all witty intelligent ladies.

but for other things, they were all a mix.

1. aries who always wanted to embark on an adventure. lots of fights but lots of making up as well. broke up because we can't handle LDR.
2. pisces. my ever silent dreamy pisces. we just didn't share the same enthusiasm on things.
3-4. 2 leos, sex was great but can't handle demands.
5. pisces again. needy and clingy in a way i felt macho all the time. cheated on me twice. lol. but sex was greater with this one.

do you think you could create the perfect lover for you if you could have one trait from each ex and mix it up ?

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i could. but i don't want to. 🙂

And personality wise, whatever really pissed me off about the one before, I looked for almost extreme opposite in the next. Couldn't give a shit what he looked like to girly boy. Talked to me constantly to every few days. My height to crazy tall. Only similarity is they were all serious about money. Which is something I require.

I still don't know what kind of guy is right for me... but I am only 21.

My exes hmmm...they were all roughly similar. Even the ones I was strongly interested in. Majority of them were similar in terms of:

1. Race
2. Facial Features
3. Were ambitious (career wise/financial security) and intelligent
4. Super athletic
5. Logical than emotional -- which is what i hated the most


Ironically, the ones that pursued me or liked me (and i didn't like them) were people that had the personalities I needed in a relationship but for some reason I don't like emotional, heart of their sleeve people but its the one trait I want in a relationship when I'm dating someone HAHA. Weird.