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Apr 02, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 116 · Topics: 23
I have had relationships with three scorpio men. all different in some way or another but still similar. all three relationships ended on bad terms. i only seem to attract scorp men. what do scorps like about aquas? why when the friendship turns into a relationship does it sometimes seem to go sour?
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Apr 02, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 116 · Topics: 23
wow awesome response. the guys did make me feel trapped so i ended all the relationships. (well i married and divorced one lol). this fourth scorp is great (he is 8 years older than me). he gives me space and we have fun together. should i base how i handle him on my past experiences and just stay friends? he seems to want more. he invited me out of town in july for a weekend.
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
Its not a game. H9w are you supposed to get to know someone without being friends first. IMO thats the only way to a good relationship...KNOWing what your getting yourself into. And friends first is the only way we know how to go with the flow.
for thousands of years arranged marriages have worked more successfully than ways we are selecting now. there was a clear purpose to marriage, not someone to just have fun with.
sure, there were plenty of cases of domestic violence, murder for inheritence or lack of dowry, and heck, sometimes even if someone just got plain ol' sick of the other person. but that was after like 20 years most of the time (because you don't just screw over a stranger. it's wrong.) and how long does the typical marriage last now a days? 7 years? you have to look at the statistics on this one.
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
lol, there was not many options or female independence those days. So it cant work.
i don't buy that. it can work even better now, no need for dowry or dependance, and with today's divorce rates it's no longer socially unacceptable to be divorced.
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
What would be the purpose of marriage now?
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Feb 08, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 1048 · Topics: 11
"I concluded that many women are willing to deal with many scorpionisms such as pettiness, chip on the shoulder, big and easily wouded ego, vindictiveness, incurable perfectionism in the matters of the heart, demanding attitude, emotionaly blackmailing games, their insecurity about their manliness, cunning etc. for the same reasons.
As in, we the women, those heartless, selfish, lethaly attractive, emotionally blackmailing, evil creatures sense that beneath of all of this, scorpios have good hearts."
LMAO!
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
When you have no real option and out you make do with what you've got.
Its usually the women that suffer silently in the arranged marriage.
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Feb 08, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 1048 · Topics: 11
"It's called substance and I see it lacking in most relationships these days."
It's called Hollywood/Bollywood/"insert as necessary". It dictates a lot of what people expect relationships to be like. A bed of roses.