What body types Scorpios prefer...

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Gemitati on Friday, September 23, 2016 and has 44 replies.
...or absolutely disliking.

Men and women please.
try to not be obese
Posted by starwars
who cares
I do. I am thinking to join the gym.

But what if I will become too skinny?

HUH? HUH?

So shut your trap!
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I don't think it can be achieved by going to

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Anything within healthy limits, as long as they are not obese to the point they cannot move or help themselves or slim to the point where most likely I would have to be the one to protect them from any danger.


Although I must say, any body shape that is too muscular or fit to the point where they are hard on all body surfaces, be it male or female, is not an attractive feature to me.


I find confidence very attractive, if they love their own bodies and are comfortable in their own skin. If so, then I will embrace it and love them for all that they are as well.


the ones who sweat while eating
Posted by starwars
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by starwars
who cares
I do. I am thinking to join the gym.

But what if I will become too skinny?

HUH? HUH?

So shut your trap!
u mad?
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Is your name Steve? The dorky one short

and...dorky?

So should we make a conclusion that physical appearance isn't a priority

for Scorpios?
idk my ex said that i was a 10 mostly because of my frame.


but he had a thing for small chicks.


My dad married a small chick too...


But idk- i think this is more about personal preference rather than birth month


Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder, how else could you justify someone like Honey Boo Boos mom reproducing?
Posted by Gemitati
So should we make a conclusion that physical appearance isn't a priority

for Scorpios?
Wait... let's read more...
I like my man big not obesd,not skinny.

Even his manhood big. Lol.
If I love someone it doesn't matter but I am not attracted to very skinny or frail men. I would take 30 lbs overweight to 30 lbs underweight anyday
Posted by Skitty
idk my ex said that i was a 10 mostly because of my frame.


but he had a thing for small chicks.


My dad married a small chick too...


But idk- i think this is more about personal preference rather than birth month


Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder, how else could you justify someone like Honey Boo Boos mom reproducing?
THAT was my question as well as always when I see huge spouse next to the smaller one.

I was 250lb and my husband is 260 - we were ok because we didn't have sex. LOL

Now I had lost 75 and I am feeling I am ready for whoo-haha!


Looks alone aren't going to attract me to a person, but to be more than friends with a man, my physical attraction to them has to be high enough to start with.


I'm health conscious and I do what I can to maintain a slim toned physique. I prefer, on men, a lean to medium build that's moderately muscular and proportional. Pro swimmer's bodies match what I mean. But I'm not expecting elite level looks, so it isn't that only a pro swimmer's body will do, it's just important to me that my partner shares my interest in being healthy and fit and has the discipline to maintain his body reasonably well both for well being and appearance.






Posted by EnochtheWise
Posted by Gemitati
So should we make a conclusion that physical appearance isn't a priority

for Scorpios?
All the women I've ever been in love with were extremely beautiful to me. I don't know if they were considered that beautiful to others, and I know with some of them, I definitely saw them as more beautiful than others did.


You get bored of someone's looks so fast so I may think a girl is extremely hot, but that really is more of a warning sign for me than it is anything that would make me pursue. I'd rather be with someone I have a real strong emotional bond with, can communicate well with, laugh and have fun with, be myself around, etc.
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Now I am sure you Scorpios are most wonderful people of all!

Actually I knew it all the time! (Insert a smooch lol)

I am attracted to tall, dark haired men with lean hard bodies


I have dated all shapes and sizes but the above turns me on the most


......I am not attracted to grossly overweight men
I thought Scorp women like fat guys with big man boobs lol. In my experience with Scorp women they are really insecure so if you are better looking than them they will be worried you will leave them.


The first Scorp in my life absolutely hated it when other women flirted with me you could see it in her eyes of how dare you. Its not my fault women flirt with me I'm an approachable guy.


Posted by Stihl46
I thought Scorp women like fat guys with big man boobs lol. In my experience with Scorp women they are really insecure so if you are better looking than them they will be worried you will leave them.


The first Scorp in my life absolutely hated it when other women flirted with me you could see it in her eyes of how dare you. Its not my fault women flirt with me I'm an approachable guy.


Disagree completely!

My cousin is a Scorpio.

Her confidence in herself is infectious.

Her late husband was 17 years younger!

Growing up she could get any guy she wanted.

She still got it!
Posted by EnochtheWise
Posted by TheLadyScorpio

I find confidence very attractive, if they love their own bodies and are comfortable in their own skin. If so, then I will embrace it and love them for all that they are as well.


This is beautiful. I'm kinda like this too, but I still might try to convince/train them to do squats...I think squats are good for the soul.


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Well, loving them for all they are does not equate to a life of stagnancy. There is always room for improvement on anyone's part.


My opinion is that for better or for worse, whether their looks deteriorate or improve, I choose to stay with them for what and who they are.


As cliché as that may sound, their external appearance has no affect on whether or not I love them.


I have been around incredibly good looking men and women but the moment they open their mouths or the moment they are around others, the toxicity they spew out is enough for me to never like them, much less want to be in their direct vicinity.


Their inner ugliness could not be covered by what external beauty they were endowed or man made with.




EnochtheWise, what sun sign are you?
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Skitty
idk my ex said that i was a 10 mostly because of my frame.


but he had a thing for small chicks.


My dad married a small chick too...


But idk- i think this is more about personal preference rather than birth month


Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder, how else could you justify someone like Honey Boo Boos mom reproducing?
THAT was my question as well as always when I see huge spouse next to the smaller one.

I was 250lb and my husband is 260 - we were ok because we didn't have sex. LOL

Now I had lost 75 and I am feeling I am ready for whoo-haha!


And you say I'm jealous of you?


You're two of me in one.


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You are definitely a narcissist

Posted by Harukka
So after u know what they love (even when every one here perfer something different from the others )


Will u change ur body type ?




Yes and No.


If it benefits my health or it aligns with what I would like to achieve in regards to my external appearance then I will.


However Harukka, to alter myself beyond what I deem comfortable or content with then no, I will not change. No man is in control of how I look, and I am glad my SO has no interests in changing me in that manner.

Posted by Harukka
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Posted by Harukka
So after u know what they love (even when every one here perfer something different from the others )


Will u change ur body type ?




Yes and No.


If it benefits my health or it aligns with what I would like to achieve in regards to my external appearance then I will.


However Harukka, to alter myself beyond what I deem comfortable or content with then no, I will not change. No man is in control of how I look, and I am glad my SO has no interests in changing me in that manner.

Yeah I agree, if it something good for me I will do it to make him feel happy.


But tbh I never change myself for anyman, I will be like:"this is who I'm baby lol"


Yeah .


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Oh, do not mistake me. I would not do so to make him happy, it would be to make me happy.


My choice to change means I would have taken his advice on board, thus it would show my appreciation for his attentiveness and care.

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Posted by Sssupes
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Skitty
idk my ex said that i was a 10 mostly because of my frame.


but he had a thing for small chicks.


My dad married a small chick too...


But idk- i think this is more about personal preference rather than birth month


Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder, how else could you justify someone like Honey Boo Boos mom reproducing?
THAT was my question as well as always when I see huge spouse next to the smaller one.

I was 250lb and my husband is 260 - we were ok because we didn't have sex. LOL

Now I had lost 75 and I am feeling I am ready for whoo-haha!


And you say I'm jealous of you?


You're two of me in one.


You are definitely a narcissist

Are your feelings hurt today?



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Not one bit. Just expressing that you like to destroy others and make yourself look good. Classic signs are there. Every time you degrade someone you throw in something good about you. That's when it turns from being just a bitch to narcissism

Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Sssupes
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Sssupes
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Skitty
idk my ex said that i was a 10 mostly because of my frame.


but he had a thing for small chicks.


My dad married a small chick too...


But idk- i think this is more about personal preference rather than birth month


Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder, how else could you justify someone like Honey Boo Boos mom reproducing?
THAT was my question as well as always when I see huge spouse next to the smaller one.

I was 250lb and my husband is 260 - we were ok because we didn't have sex. LOL

Now I had lost 75 and I am feeling I am ready for whoo-haha!


And you say I'm jealous of you?


You're two of me in one.


You are definitely a narcissist

Are your feelings hurt today?



Not one bit. Just expressing that you like to destroy others and make yourself look good. Classic signs are there. Every time you degrade someone you throw in something good about you. That's when it turns from being just a bitch to narcissism

If that's what the signs are, that's what gemitati has done to me.


Now I realise she's fake, the mask is off.


Quit in instigating shit when you know nothing about the history amongst users.


She's the narc
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I don't know her. I'm saying what I've seen from you over the past 2 years

Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Sssupes
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Sssupes
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Sssupes
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Skitty
idk my ex said that i was a 10 mostly because of my frame.


but he had a thing for small chicks.


My dad married a small chick too...


But idk- i think this is more about personal preference rather than birth month


Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder, how else could you justify someone like Honey Boo Boos mom reproducing?
THAT was my question as well as always when I see huge spouse next to the smaller one.

I was 250lb and my husband is 260 - we were ok because we didn't have sex. LOL

Now I had lost 75 and I am feeling I am ready for whoo-haha!


And you say I'm jealous of you?


You're two of me in one.


You are definitely a narcissist

Are your feelings hurt today?



Not one bit. Just expressing that you like to destroy others and make yourself look good. Classic signs are there. Every time you degrade someone you throw in something good about you. That's when it turns from being just a bitch to narcissism

If that's what the signs are, that's what gemitati has done to me.


Now I realise she's fake, the mask is off.


Quit in instigating shit when you know nothing about the history amongst users.


She's the narc
I don't know her. I'm saying what I've seen from you over the past 2 years

Ya I think you're a stereotypical American bigot who treats women who want your chicken with respect.


You bytch about an entire generation yet sit on your ass and take no responsibility for the choices you've made.


You need attention on here and that's why you instigate.


You can't read sarcasm and you're easily offended.


Plus when someone challenges you in debate, you deflect and run.


You're a bit of a chicken shit.


Not to mention the pm's I've heard you send out to certain female users.


I think you're



Lol. i don't attack millennials. I own my shit. I damn sure ain't perfect. Keep attacking if that's what you think I'm doing. You're deflecting by insults. It's all good, I can take it.


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Posted by Harukka
So after u know what they love (even when every one here perfer something different from the others )


Will u change ur body type ?


I would never change my body type to anyone's liking.

However when I see he loved me fat and he loves me smaller I appreciate it and see

him what who he is. It does tell me I don't have to bug him ever with stupid question

like 'honey, do these glasses make me fat?'

He loves more butt but I have what I have left now and he is happy to be able to touch

whatever I have left on me. I did gain 8lb. Not for him - just because I am pigging out

out of stress. Not that he will even notice that! And I love and appreciate him for it.

But mind you we are OLD(er). With younger you - it might matters to some extent.



BTW love your signature but can I reverse it and go from sad and depressed to happy careless instead?

LOL


Posted by EnochtheWise
Posted by Sssupes


Not one bit. Just expressing that you like to destroy others and make yourself look good. Classic signs are there. Every time you degrade someone you throw in something good about you. That's when it turns from being just a bitch to narcissism

I love how people diagnose over the internets. She put someone down. Classic signs of NPD are all there bro....


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I wish I knew what you are reffering to. Who puts whom down?

I though so far we had a lighthearted convo here with some useful info.

Care to elaborate, please.
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by starwars
who cares
I do. I am thinking to join the gym.

But what if I will become too skinny?

HUH? HUH?

So shut your trap!
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From what you've said is your starting weight you have awhile to go before you need to worry about becoming 'too skinny'.


Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by starwars
who cares
I do. I am thinking to join the gym.

But what if I will become too skinny?

HUH? HUH?

So shut your trap!
From what you've said is your starting weight you have awhile to go before you need to worry about becoming 'too skinny'.


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I was never worried. When he opened up to me I became a mess who couldn't eat.

I had lost it not because I wanted to...because I couldn't swallow (the food)...

And I became skinnier just naturally by being in love with no hope for the future.

Then later until now I am sometimes pigging out (today 4 slices of pizza and half a hoagie - who eats this much?)

But my scale says - go ahead - not an ounce gained...because I am a nervous wreck!

My body now processing food as a garbage that is going out as soon as it got in.

And I am not a spring chicken my any means. I am an old hen but I am feeling great physically. Shitty emotionally.

But I wouldn't change it. I want him to see me GORGEOUS! Not that he cares...just my gift so he can say I am having

a beautiful woman under me! Got it?
Posted by EnochtheWise
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by EnochtheWise
Posted by Sssupes


Not one bit. Just expressing that you like to destroy others and make yourself look good. Classic signs are there. Every time you degrade someone you throw in something good about you. That's when it turns from being just a bitch to narcissism

I love how people diagnose over the internets. She put someone down. Classic signs of NPD are all there bro....


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I wish I knew what you are reffering to. Who puts whom down?

I though so far we had a lighthearted convo here with some useful info.

Care to elaborate, please.
Not about you at all. Too high to explain...Just enjoying the blind hypocrisy of DXP'ers


Here Ssupes is...doing the same thing she is, the same thing 90% of dxp does all day long - taking a shot at someone he has a gripe with from the sidelines.


The way he takes the shot? Accuses her of doing the same shyt he's doing.


LOLOL


Could you people try not to be such obvious fuqing hypocrites?




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I wish I understood what is it all about but whatever.

Let him/her be.

Why waste energy? You guys so involved with Internet opinions and stuff.

I am just venting and appreciate a lot of info I got from this site that helped me

to understand my Scorp better thanks to you all.

I was insane with his actions before I found dxpnet.

When I read 'manual' I had started to be more patient and it worked.

From 'OMG!' to disappearance act to 'guilt trip' to 'where you are' to

finally 'I love you and trust your every word'...

Must take info not literally from everyone. Just chosen sources you see

knowing what they are talking about.

My favorite subject. Beware.

When you blocking someone anf the KNOW it and they keep talking to you

- THAT I don't get! Why? Obsession or stupidity?

Well, I had sidetracked again but it is because I am drunk!

Anyone care to join me on Eastern time? LOL

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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by starwars
who cares
I do. I am thinking to join the gym.

But what if I will become too skinny?

HUH? HUH?

So shut your trap!
From what you've said is your starting weight you have awhile to go before you need to worry about becoming 'too skinny'.


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I just don't get starwar who is constantly posting meaningless stuff like

NO

Are you mad?

...sounds like this person is just having no life but wants to participate.

I am working with elders with dementia who are walking around looking to

'something participate in'...

So I was kind of in a 'kidding' mood and posted that.

It had nothing serious and I just wanted to 'get' her/him and it had NOTHING to do

with my real life feelings or anything.

WE all do this but SOME taking it as a real deal.

I am sorry for people without sense of humor my whole life.

Lighten up! And hugs...
Posted by Amethysst
Scorpio likes my body, he thinks I'm sexy but personality also comes into play.

I'm not skinny or fat, I'm curvy and thick Latina style .

He does prefer that I take care of myself and I'm healthy.
Ooooooooooooooo...who DOESNT prefer Latina style (women)?

Boys come out and say I do not like Latina women!

I will proclaim you UGLY even I do not use that word on people ever! LOL

Enjoy hon and take care of that butt of yours. I once had one my cousin told me

black girls can take a vacation because I outbutt them any time! LOL
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by EnochtheWise
Posted by Sssupes


Not one bit. Just expressing that you like to destroy others and make yourself look good. Classic signs are there. Every time you degrade someone you throw in something good about you. That's when it turns from being just a bitch to narcissism

I love how people diagnose over the internets. She put someone down. Classic signs of NPD are all there bro....


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I wish I knew what you are reffering to. Who puts whom down?

I though so far we had a lighthearted convo here with some useful info.

Care to elaborate, please.
Not about you at all. Too high to explain...Just enjoying the blind hypocrisy of DXP'ers


Here Ssupes is...doing the same thing she is, the same thing 90% of dxp does all day long - taking a shot at someone he has a gripe with from the sidelines.


The way he takes the shot? Accuses her of doing the same shyt he's doing.


LOLOL


Could you people try not to be such obvious fuqing hypocrites?




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I got you. I m 'favorite' of Arielle and she knows I blocked her...however when I am coming on board before I sign it I ee her going on about me like we are best frenemies. WHY would anyone wants to talk to those who have them blocked?

People are stupid. Block Ssupes and forget about her/him and enjoy feature of blocking.

I find this obsession to be unhealthy but funny as well.

Imagine talking to a deaf person who forgot hearing aid? LMAOff!

She is posting her pictures, telling me I am twice of her size like if we compeating over the same man.

I am sure if she saw my man she would choke and pollute the ocean with her vomit!

Out of frustration that she had never seen anyone as handsome in her life!!!!


So lets them BE! And let them wallow in their misery because happy people are nice kind and...nice.

IF they are as you describe - pray for them if you have time. I do. But who cares right? smile


Posted by Shadowcat
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by starwars
who cares
I do. I am thinking to join the gym.

But what if I will become too skinny?

HUH? HUH?

So shut your trap!
Lol
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That's what I was looking for. LOL all the way.

smile And looking at avatar with vomit coming out of her/him - that's says it all!

Vomit she/he is.

LOL


Posted by Shadowcat
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Shadowcat
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by starwars
who cares
I do. I am thinking to join the gym.

But what if I will become too skinny?

HUH? HUH?

So shut your trap!
Lol
That's what I was looking for. LOL all the way.

smile And looking at avatar with vomit coming out of her/him - that's says it all!

Vomit she/he is.

LOL




Oh, this is awkward but I was laughing at your reaction. Why did you respond so strongly? Just curious.

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Just hate avatar when he/she has nothing to say except

NO

What

whatever stupid no contribution crap! ]

And it was way BEFORE my husband left me (finally so I can 'get a room' without feeling guilty LOL)

I hope I had answered your question...LOL
Posted by EnochtheWise
Posted by Gemitati

So lets them BE! And let them wallow in their misery because happy people are nice kind and...nice.



ok I don't think I'm one of the happy people then.

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Neither I AM however let's try harder.

Whats your pleasure?
Proportionate and symmetrical lol
Confident a sex appeal is what they like.
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Skitty
idk my ex said that i was a 10 mostly because of my frame.


but he had a thing for small chicks.


My dad married a small chick too...


But idk- i think this is more about personal preference rather than birth month


Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder, how else could you justify someone like Honey Boo Boos mom reproducing?
THAT was my question as well as always when I see huge spouse next to the smaller one.

I was 250lb and my husband is 260 - we were ok because we didn't have sex. LOL

Now I had lost 75 and I am feeling I am ready for whoo-haha!


And you say I'm jealous of you?


You're two of me in one.


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Let's see you gain some weight and if your husband loves you the way her husband loves her.


What a childish expression.


I'm sure this woman is also twice as beautiful as you are inside and out.

Posted by EnochtheWise
Posted by TheLadyScorpio

I find confidence very attractive, if they love their own bodies and are comfortable in their own skin. If so, then I will embrace it and love them for all that they are as well.


This is beautiful. I'm kinda like this too, but I still might try to convince/train them to do squats...I think squats are good for backshot.

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Hmph. Funny autocorrect you got there.


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I'm a sucker for really long hair - down to the ass.
Ok, not that you care but long hair makes me gag


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I'm a sucker for really long hair - down to the ass.
Ok, not that you care but long hair makes me gag


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The Mennonites?


Oi, where does it end?


Agreed... bleh.
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http://www.addhair style .com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/beautiful-long-hair.jpg

Maybe she should sell some of that hair and move out of the projects.

lol. she's the ghetto Rapunzel waiting for her prince.
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lol that's funny.


is it because of her living in that high rise apartment? in the ghetto?



aw. maybe she is searching for a prince across the apartment over yonder to have him rescue her so that she will live with him in the OTHER side.



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