What do you make of i love you but you can't be...
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by ariesgirl402 on Sunday, February 1, 2009 and has 19 replies.
what do you make of this: last weekend my scorp told me that he had to take his clients out for drinks and then he got to my house later that night all drunk and really scared me by saying that he has to tell me something. he told me that he lied and he felt really horribly bad about it and he kept thinking about it the whole night and felt really guilty and had to come clean. i thought that he was out with another girl. but turned out that he wanted to have a boy's night out and was contemplating whether or not to invite me along. i don't understand why he thought i'd be upset since i told him a long time ago that i'm ok with a boy night out since i want my girl night out too. i also find it weird that he doesn't want to go out with me much but spends all of his time with me including every night. we're way past fwb stage at this point. he calls me his gf but and says we have a relationship but i don't feel much of it the way i look at. he's in his late 30's so he should know better. he probably stays at his place like 3 times a month for the past couple of months. coming to my place without calling me whether or not i'm home, cooks, takes garbage out, makes the bad, and bringing groceries and planning dinners for the next night and cooking. in one way we're like totally together but on the other hand he doesn't let me in his world much. he told me that bringing me in his world would be an ordeal whatever it means. but then he tells me how much i mean to him and important in his life. i don't know if i should take it or leave it. it's like you're important and i love you but it's an ordeal to have you in my life. wtf? any inside?
"it means he is lying about something. is this not obvious?" - as i said he came out clean about lying about a stupid thing. if he didn't i wouldn't find out. unless you mean he's laying about something else. there is not a total reciprocation. there are only few things are missing.
Oh my God!... how can anybody suggest he is lying. Scorps don't if they feel deeply for someone. come on girl! He is very sincere. Don't ever say something to him that will hurt. We are not fakers.... and sorry non-scorps... you are dead wrong!!
This guy really cares for you, ariesgirl. I can't believe you can doubt his interest after he has shown it at so many occasions. What else do you expect? Isn't it obvious to you already?????
This guy really cares for you, ariesgirl. I can't believe you can doubt his interest after he has shown it at so many occasions. What else do you expect? Isn't it obvious to you already?????
he was laying and he admitted it!!! know he lied about same thing before a couple times but i didn't bring it out in the open. i don't understand why he felt he had to do that.
" I can't believe you can doubt his interest after he has shown it at so many occasions. What else do you expect? Isn't it obvious to you already?????" - as i said, i find it very weird that he doesn't invite me to hang out with him outside the apt? also, why would he say that it'd be an ordeal to bring me into his life?????
" I can't believe you can doubt his interest after he has shown it at so many occasions. What else do you expect? Isn't it obvious to you already?????" - as i said, i find it very weird that he doesn't invite me to hang out with him outside the apt? also, why would he say that it'd be an ordeal to bring me into his life?????
i met his friends and his dad. the rest of his family lives outside of the state.
"and a man who love syou...does not exclude you from his life"- that's the only thing is missing. he does include me in some aspects but not completely
"and a man who love syou...does not exclude you from his life"- that's the only thing is missing. he does include me in some aspects but not completely
I am very confused. What is he lying about, exactly? And if it's a boy's night out, why would he be contemplating inviting you? Boy's night = the dudes only. I agree it seems suspect that he's not introduced you to his friends yet.
that's exactly what i'm confused obout! i never minded any boys night out. even told him that. he lied about having clients night out but in reality he had a night out with his friends. sooooo stupid.
he did introduce me to his friends and coworkers and his dad.
why is everybody assuming he hasn't????
That's just it..it's all assumptions..If you feel something is wrong, then it probably is. Go with your gut instinct. What is it telling you. Confront him about it.
People always comment from their own past experiences, am guilty of it myself..however just go with what you think..
People always comment from their own past experiences, am guilty of it myself..however just go with what you think..
We are not fakers.... and sorry non-scorps... you are dead wrong!!
LOLOLOLOL!!!!
Anyway ariesg, you gotta ask him what he means, he said he's lying, then find out from the source... no one here can tell you!
LOLOLOLOL!!!!
Anyway ariesg, you gotta ask him what he means, he said he's lying, then find out from the source... no one here can tell you!
why do people use that?
the intimacy/commitment level is guaranteed because 'I told you things I never told anyone' 'I'm closer to you than anyone else ever', etc... another variance to that is ordeal to bring me into his life?????
what is he? a drug baron?
you get the treatment you allow.
the intimacy/commitment level is guaranteed because 'I told you things I never told anyone' 'I'm closer to you than anyone else ever', etc... another variance to that is ordeal to bring me into his life?????
what is he? a drug baron?
you get the treatment you allow.
You fucking worthless cunts. All of you.
Well the good news is he's telling you he lied about something.
yea it was, like it - often use similar but yours is shorter - to the point
i explained what was that lye about a few times by now. and he came clear about that too. i never said that "never going out outside the apartment". i wonder what makes ppl think and assume things 
he does tell me things " I never told anyone" and tells me how much i mean to him all the time.
no offense to anyone but it's getting flustrating when i openly ask for an input and ppl just "assume" things that i never said or don't read what was said. anyways, thanks to everybody who took their time
he does tell me things " I never told anyone" and tells me how much i mean to him all the time. no offense to anyone but it's getting flustrating when i openly ask for an input and ppl just "assume" things that i never said or don't read what was said. anyways, thanks to everybody who took their time
virgogotme "Regarding him going out with clients and feeling guilty. It wasn't a lie, it falls under the description of "lying by omission" - there's a difference, and "lying by omission" comes into play when you are in a full time committed relationship in order to question it." - where did that come from???
^^^ very?
He really likes you thats how i am. I never want them to be away from me when i really like someone. And you ought to be worried when he doesn't explain himself. Or when he hesitates before answering unless he was like spacing out(common) then again he could use that as a decoy.
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