What does it mean or is it what it means.

I met a scorpio.... I was also married to one for 15 years and said nooooooo never again, but here I am. I'm a Virgo and he is a three time Scorpio. I don't know much about that but thats what he says.
Of course we met after a recent brakeup of mine, I questioned my actions with him because of it but it seem to all just plop into place from the get go I have never been in that kind of situation. I was basically going with the flow I thought.A rarietie for us virgos, from the second date he asked me if I could fall in love with him, when I didn't answer he said "what is it you feel". I just about peed myself I didn't know how to answer he said "when he falls he falls hard"The only thing I knew is I felt protective of him I wanted him to be happy. (corney but it was how I felt I still don't understand it anyways).
Things were good the first two weeks I was really happy, we both are going through things some similiar and some different we both have children lots of children together it makes seven. We are both trying to get our divorces final and we both have financial issues we are dealing with so yes baggage pure, but we seemed to make each other happy.
Then I got a phone call and you will say how could she have not known, the truth is I did but didn't really want to see it as the truth.The recent brake up (a Taurus), I had just found out was married and had a wife who was 8 months pregnant. It threw me for a loop not that I cared about him but I didn't trust my judgement or men instantly, and I acted like a witch for the next three weeks to him. He finally said ok thats if we are done and he was gone for a week, I realized how much I missed him and begged for him to come back and he finally did, I was determined not to let everything effect the way I treat him and I havent I've been very good but he is the one now, he was very distant and less talkative its not the same I tried but I can't seem to melt him in anyway. Of course I noticed it, and asked if everything was ok with us there came no reply and yesterday he text me "he didn't think it was one of the better fits" "—" "one of the" ok and when I didn't respond back... he text """ I just dont think we are a good match, granted the sex was good""" .
Truthfully I am sooo in the dark I responded angrily nasty actually I text " Sorry I already have f— buddies and I've been ignoring them since I met u." Its not true I was just angry. I regret being so stupid but he hurt me.

The question is should I take it for what he said and just move on and forget about it to much baggage in such a short amount of time.Or is he hiding what he really feels and is still hurt by the way I treated him. Move on or become annoying and try to salvage something I should just let pass....Someone said Mr. Scorpio will show you Lil Scorpio if he likes you.... well what does sex in a relationship mean to a scorpio and if its alot what is he saying if he is saying anything but what he is saying.... hahaha oooo so Virgo of me..... I hate my Virgo self sometimes.... Help!!!!

girl let me tell you. you are desitned to continue running into scorpios, why i say, because we have what you guys don' t have and wish to be!! = IDEALISM. don't say never again, u will keep running into them , i am almost certain, but not really that they make good couples, if virgos doesnt annoy us. JUst know this, if he loves you , he wll show you the world and if he doesn't he won't . there is no in between, remember that!!

you are over thinking asking questions in order , out of order, front then back again. the nswer is right in front of you, as a matter of fact , i feel you answered your question several times.. i think you are confused about admitting the truth about this situation..

Why are we so annoying? Questions like that probably. lol.
I hate relationships but I love them. I hate confusion but love to analyze.
Sex... if it was good not because I put my back into it but my heart.
He just stomped on it.... or clipped it with his scorpio pincher....

Oh Lord! Sounds like you crazy...crazy in need of medicating! Just rub the meds right onto that Cabasa Loca of yours! The sooner they get in there, the better! And that guy, The Scorpion, he don't like you. How could he like you , what with you being such a depressed mess n' escetera?! You know 'what for', so slap a ban-daid on it, get off the internet and grab the scorpion by the balls! You can do it, butterfly, Sun_in_Leo believes in you!... After you rub all that medication into your enormous forehead, of course.

personally speaking, when i'm distant it's because i'm trying to protect myself.

if you did really treat your scorpio badly, then that's probably why he's backed away. and, i hate to say this, but your comment about the f— buddies definitely won't help things (you should check out the recent thread on here about scorpio views on sex, there are a couple of males that replied on there). he doesn't seem the casual type if he's asking about falling in love on the second date.

if you really want him, the first thing you should consider is coming clean - tell him that you were just lashing out and it's not true about the f— buddies thing. that'll be a good start.

your taurus ex may have thrown you for a loop ... that's understandable. but if you still have some unresolved trust issues (either with men, or trust in your judgement) then maybe you need to take some time for yourself before trying to work things out w/ your scorpio. if you do decide to take a 'time out', you should tell him that too so he doesn't think that it's coz you don't want him.

only you can decide whether or not he's worth it....for me, i'd rather try and know for sure, instead of wondering 'what if i'd done this, or done that' down the road. it's the only way i can exit a relationship gracefully and knowing it was right to end it