What does this mean from a Scorpian man?

Sorry but did I do something wrong🙂 you only wanted sex remember you didnt want a relationship🙂 i cant do that sorry

I had set up a perfect night followed by breakfast...then 10 days later without any contact and after Xmas day when I'd had enough and dumped him face to face... I get this text!!!

Totally lost at his thoughts or am I reading this wrong—

appear pretty clear to me ... since only him can clarify his thoughts, aren't you supposed to be thinking about what you said to make him think you didn't want a relationship?

Wow see I got it the other way... sex was my idea and he wanted more... Definetly food for thought! thanks

I was pretty clear on not wanting a full on relationship, 3 years separated and stil too scared to go down that path...

there you go - check yourself to make sure you're not wanting a relationship, if you do, then ask him what he's ready for - communicate with HIM

Agreed. Scorps can do friends with benefits, but if they get caught up you can't get rid of the men anyway.

I miss him, I miss him alot. It's not just sex but that's why he scares me, he wants to hear the three letter word but it's way too soon and to me that's when I have lost control. He's already doing my head in now! My heart wants to take a chance but my head (which is always right) says get out! He'll always run Hot & Cold won't he?

Why is your head saying get out?

You are very confusing here ....

First you imply that Scorp man and you were just having sex, at your wishing for it to be so because you aren't ready for a relationship, and your just wanting it to be sex, you set up a hot coupling which prompted him to message you saying that he can't just do sex without a relationship ......

.... then you imply that he's waiting to hear the three-letter word but it's too soon for you. >>> then why the hell did you plan the hot encounter, which influenced him into sending you a text saying he can't do it without meaning.


He will always run from hot to cold?

You sound like you're running, to be honest ... because you've made contridictory implications out of both sides of your mouth.

ummm, did you ask him what it meant?

there has to be reason purpose and results with scorpio men, and women for that matter.
well, they're fixed signs so mostly kinda have to see future with it but the future he may have seen is fwb...THAT'S IT...

PA's right though, very confusing

Firstly I'm older and I have been married for years with 3 grown children, he's younger and has had none of the life experiences that i have had.(ie: Money, career family travel) So naturally I've experienced alot of pain which has me reserved and trying to stop myself from going through anything more unnecesarily. In the beginning he chased and it felt like a good idea at the time (I wasnt looking for anything more) but there was always the thought that I could fall for him easily...feelings start creeping in there and what you want in the beginning turns...I just dont want to be hurt any more and he backs away sooo easily (no contact for days even weeks) and doesnt want to talk or no how..As the older one maybe I should take the lead but also have the conflict within myself of making a fool of myself!

Thanks for all your imput, it helps heaps. X

Be upfront. tell him what you want (whatever that is) and ask him, can he give you this. He should be honest enough to tell you if he can deliver or not.

it sounds like incredibly hot sex to me. and we all know what that can do to a person.