What does this Scorpio want?

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I'm so confused. I hate being confused. Just wish I could figure him out. On the outside he's very alpha, confident, dominant, quiet, stern.... On the inside I don't really know. I know his actions sometimes show a honest tried and true friend who would go to great lengths for people he cares about. He's a hard worker, excellent father, and I thoroughly enjoy his no BS brutal honesty. But, I still can't figure out where I stand with him! And he shows no signs of ever telling me.
We started out as friends. Texting mostly. Conversations go on endlessly rolling from one day right in to the next. Countless topics. Like good buddies and I was fine with that. Then, I noticed whenever he would bring up meeting a woman or something, I didn't like it. Wasn't sure why. He always talked to me like "one of the guys" so me having that reaction over new interests of his was not typical of me. I'd usually give him dating advice or whatever. So, predicting I might have been falling for him I stopped contact. 2 months went by and we started talking again. I got my head on straight by then, no falling. Or so I thought. I slept with him. Didn't expect anything as far as 'feelings'.. Just sex. That was 7 months ago and the only time. Fast forward to the present, we continue to text nonstop, even as I'm typing this. At this point I just want to know where I stand.. Friend? Used for sex? Something more? Maybe nothing, just filling his time? Idk
I'm not even sure how to explain the dynamics of our conversations. I am naturally curious about everything and always have a million questions. His response sometimes is to not try and figure him out because I never will (challenge accepted lol) and he's not giving anything up. But then he'll share an insecurity or fear with me (which he puts on a front tht he doesn't have those). He also takes my advice and does what I say even though he'll never admit that he does. At the same time he never ever asks me basic things like "how was your day".. Says he doesn't need to because he can read me like a book.. Which is disturbing because I always have a guard up (not even comfy putting this here). One thing he said recently has me unnerved.. I brought up sleeping with him. Said I hope he doesn't think I'm cheap an easy. He said cheap and easy wouldn't have made him wait a year... What?? He was waiting?? I had no idea.
So, Scorpios, where do I stand with him? What does he want from me? God knows he won't tell me....
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Ego boost! The immature ones are all about "ME", talks about other women to see if you get "jealous", again, ego boost. He's "feeling you out", they can be very manipulative and downright shady, so again, go with you're instincts, but more importantly, keep in mind, these men like to have their cake and eat it too, likes to be in control of all situations-including YOU. So its up to you if you want to continue being in the "dark" about his true intentions. I would get new buds (male ok) that I know are purely platonic!
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While I fully support encouraging someone and supporting them, I certainly don't want to be an ego boost...

I have asked... He changes the subject or gives cryptic answers Sad
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Posted by Herself
While I fully support encouraging someone and supporting them, I certainly don't want to be an ego boost...

I have asked... He changes the subject or gives cryptic answers Sad


Coming from another Earth sign: Cap here, IF, and I emphasize "IF" his intentions are good: Scorps (water) and us earth signs can make for a wonderful anything! But if you've asked him, and he's still keeping you in the dark, then probably, he might not "know" what he wants OR just wants to keep you around for the reasons I already mentioned... GOOD LUCK with this one hun Winking
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Geez, I have so many questions! lol.
From what you have posted here, I think you are just friends. I mean, the sex happened ONCE 7 months ago. Other than that, just talking, right? Or do you make out or whatever?
What were the circumstances that led to the sex? Were you drunk or what?
Did you ever talk about the sex after it happened? Have you ever talked about having more of a romantic relationship with him?
If not, honestly I think it's a bit late for that.
I'd just continue talking as friends but as Intrigued said, I wouldn't make myself very available for him. I'd have a hard time taking him seriously.
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This cryptic Scorpio simply does does not know what he wants. He likes the way things are now. If he didn't he would tell you in no uncertain terms. Its not really Scorp MO to spend a considerable amount of time with someone who he doesn't at least like as a friend. Honestly, I wouldn't expect that move into relationship territory at this point.
If a Scorp man wants you, he will claim you in no uncertain terms. IF you would like to have a relationship with this guy, you shouldn't be so available and you should have an air of mystery around you. The downside is that he may never want you as more than a talk-buddy. But, hey, at least you are not emotionally invested yet.
Good luck.


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"Mystery" is the secret ingredient indeed! But not if he's not interested in you that way...
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Posted by capgirl69
Geez, I have so many questions! lol.
From what you have posted here, I think you are just friends. I mean, the sex happened ONCE 7 months ago. Other than that, just talking, right? Or do you make out or whatever?
What were the circumstances that led to the sex? Were you drunk or what?
Did you ever talk about the sex after it happened? Have you ever talked about having more of a romantic relationship with him?
If not, honestly I think it's a bit late for that.
I'd just continue talking as friends but as Intrigued said, I wouldn't make myself very available for him. I'd have a hard time taking him seriously.



The sex. We talked about it frequently and openly.. Then figured it'd be fun between us (we are both in to some 'non mainstream' things) so scheduled a day to get together. It was incredible. We fooled around one other time. He always wants to have more. He also likes to talk about the specifics of things we did, in a good way. The cynical side of me just tells him "of course you want more, you're a guy"
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While I fully support encouraging someone and supporting them, I certainly don't want to be an ego boost...

I have asked... He changes the subject or gives cryptic answers Sad


Then it's not worth it. Move on.
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Listen to this man! He knows the DILL, pickles Winking
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Posted by Herself
I'm so confused. I hate being confused. Just wish I could figure him out. On the outside he's very alpha, confident, dominant, quiet, stern.... On the inside I don't really know. I know his actions sometimes show a honest tried and true friend who would go to great lengths for people he cares about. He's a hard worker, excellent father, and I thoroughly enjoy his no BS brutal honesty. But, I still can't figure out where I stand with him! And he shows no signs of ever telling me.
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You could ask him.
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We started out as friends. Texting mostly. Conversations go on endlessly rolling from one day right in to the next. Countless topics. Like good buddies and I was fine with that. Then, I noticed whenever he would bring up meeting a woman or something, I didn't like it. Wasn't sure why. He always talked to me like "one of the guys" so me having that reaction over new interests of his was not typical of me. I'd usually give him dating advice or whatever. So, predicting I might have been falling for him I stopped contact. 2 months went by and we started talking again. I got my head on straight by then, no falling. Or so I thought. I slept with him. Didn't expect anything as far as 'feelings'.. Just sex. That was 7 months ago and the only time. Fast forward to the present, we continue to text nonstop, even as I'm typing this. At this point I just want to know where I stand.. Friend? Used for sex? Something more? Maybe nothing, just filling his time? Idk
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Maybe ask him.
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So, Scorpios, where do I stand with him? What does he want from me? God knows he won't tell me....

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Did. You. Ask. Him? If you skirt around an issue (dpending on the Scorp and their mood), they will too. Ask directly. You said the man is brutally honest right? And btw, asking if he thinks your cheap and easy....I'll leave that be, but that isn't the same as asking the man if he would like to pursue more with you.
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Posted by Scorpiorabbit
Ask him what he wants.



^^^^*eyes hit the ceiling* I keep saying I need to read through a thread first and don't....
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Posted by Herself
While I fully support encouraging someone and supporting them, I certainly don't want to be an ego boost...

I have asked... He changes the subject or gives cryptic answers Sad


How exactly have you asked him? The example you gave above....un huh.
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Posted by capgirl69
Geez, I have so many questions! lol.
From what you have posted here, I think you are just friends. I mean, the sex happened ONCE 7 months ago. Other than that, just talking, right? Or do you make out or whatever?
What were the circumstances that led to the sex? Were you drunk or what?
Did you ever talk about the sex after it happened? Have you ever talked about having more of a romantic relationship with him?
If not, honestly I think it's a bit late for that.
I'd just continue talking as friends but as Intrigued said, I wouldn't make myself very available for him. I'd have a hard time taking him seriously.



The sex. We talked about it frequently and openly.. Then figured it'd be fun between us (we are both in to some 'non mainstream' things) so scheduled a day to get together. It was incredible. We fooled around one other time. He always wants to have more. He also likes to talk about the specifics of things we did, in a good way. The cynical side of me just tells him "of course you want more, you're a guy"

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Well duh he wants more cuz he's a guy. Absolutely true.
I think, then, that its a FWB situation and if he wanted more it would be more by now. I think the reason he's being cryptic is because he's trying to leave the door open for more sex if and when he ever wants/ needs it because he thins if he came out and said you're just friends, then he'd have to commit to being just friends with no fooling around because you'd make him.
Or, he could think you're fine with things the way they are and maybe you don't want a relationship because you never pushed for more.
I know with my Scorp, we had sex one day, the next day he was asking for a relationship. He didn't like the idea of me doing it with anyone else. Lol.
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Posted by capgirl69
Geez, I have so many questions! lol.
From what you have posted here, I think you are just friends. I mean, the sex happened ONCE 7 months ago. Other than that, just talking, right? Or do you make out or whatever?
What were the circumstances that led to the sex? Were you drunk or what?
Did you ever talk about the sex after it happened? Have you ever talked about having more of a romantic relationship with him?
If not, honestly I think it's a bit late for that.
I'd just continue talking as friends but as Intrigued said, I wouldn't make myself very available for him. I'd have a hard time taking him seriously.



The sex. We talked about it frequently and openly.. Then figured it'd be fun between us (we are both in to some 'non mainstream' things) so scheduled a day to get together. It was incredible. We fooled around one other time. He always wants to have more. He also likes to talk about the specifics of things we did, in a good way. The cynical side of me just tells him "of course you want more, you're a guy"

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You make a lot of self-deprecating comments. Just an observation.
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Damn Dxpnet keeps messing up my post! Ok here it is, u started out as fwb that's all it's gonna be, he even comes to u for advice regarding other women. We are POSSESSIVE by nature! What's ours is ours, you'd know if he wanted u for more than sex alone.
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While I fully support encouraging someone and supporting them, I certainly don't want to be an ego boost...

I have asked... He changes the subject or gives cryptic answers Sad


How exactly have you asked him? The example you gave above....un huh.
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The example above? No lol that was a multi hour conversation that I cut down to cliff notes.
I'll say "what do you want from me?" And he'll say "honesty" ... Totally doesnt answer.
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Posted by Scorpiorabbit
I was all wishy washey with my wife the first month we dated.
One day she just basically said "Where the fuck is this going. I really like you. I know you like me. Time for you to shit or get off the pot"
I knew I loved her right then and there.


^^^^This is exactly what I am talking about. Be direct. If nothing else, you'll know he's not feeling you like that and you can move on.
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While I fully support encouraging someone and supporting them, I certainly don't want to be an ego boost...

I have asked... He changes the subject or gives cryptic answers Sad


How exactly have you asked him? The example you gave above....un huh.



The example above? No lol that was a multi hour conversation that I cut down to cliff notes.
I'll say "what do you want from me?" And he'll say "honesty" ... Totally doesnt answer.
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Haha, okay. Again, this is not the same as "I like you. A lot. I want to pursue something with you. Do you want to pursue something with me?" Or something like what the crazy Rabbit's wife said. Cheers to her btw. I like people that are direct. Good luck chicka!
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Posted by capgirl69
Geez, I have so many questions! lol.
From what you have posted here, I think you are just friends. I mean, the sex happened ONCE 7 months ago. Other than that, just talking, right? Or do you make out or whatever?
What were the circumstances that led to the sex? Were you drunk or what?
Did you ever talk about the sex after it happened? Have you ever talked about having more of a romantic relationship with him?
If not, honestly I think it's a bit late for that.
I'd just continue talking as friends but as Intrigued said, I wouldn't make myself very available for him. I'd have a hard time taking him seriously.



The sex. We talked about it frequently and openly.. Then figured it'd be fun between us (we are both in to some 'non mainstream' things) so scheduled a day to get together. It was incredible. We fooled around one other time. He always wants to have more. He also likes to talk about the specifics of things we did, in a good way. The cynical side of me just tells him "of course you want more, you're a guy"



You make a lot of self-deprecating comments. Just an observation.
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Sorry? Lol.
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Posted by capgirl69
Geez, I have so many questions! lol.
From what you have posted here, I think you are just friends. I mean, the sex happened ONCE 7 months ago. Other than that, just talking, right? Or do you make out or whatever?
What were the circumstances that led to the sex? Were you drunk or what?
Did you ever talk about the sex after it happened? Have you ever talked about having more of a romantic relationship with him?



^^ Answers please.
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Posted by Scorpiorabbit
I was all wishy washey with my wife the first month we dated.
One day she just basically said "Where the fuck is this going. I really like you. I know you like me. Time for you to shit or get off the pot"
I knew I loved her right then and there.


Awww I love you're wife! That's right honey! Stand up or shut up!
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I've only seen "possessive" once. Learned my lesson and don't mention males anymore.
I'm not good at this stuff. The whole making the first move/being directly direct might lose me a friend. Idk...
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Posted by capgirl69
Geez, I have so many questions! lol.
From what you have posted here, I think you are just friends. I mean, the sex happened ONCE 7 months ago. Other than that, just talking, right? Or do you make out or whatever?
What were the circumstances that led to the sex? Were you drunk or what?
Did you ever talk about the sex after it happened? Have you ever talked about having more of a romantic relationship with him?



^^ Answers please.

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See above.. I posted them.. smile
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Posted by Herself
I've only seen "possessive" once. Learned my lesson and don't mention males anymore.
I'm not good at this stuff. The whole making the first move/being directly direct might lose me a friend. Idk...



Yeah but you can't hold back on them. If y'all are going to be friends, he'll figure it out and then you might lose him anyway because he will be mad.
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I've only seen "possessive" once. Learned my lesson and don't mention males anymore.
I'm not good at this stuff. The whole making the first move/being directly direct might lose me a friend. Idk...



Yeah but you can't hold back on them. If y'all are going to be friends, he'll figure it out and then you might lose him anyway because he will be mad.
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Yeah.. That's my dilemma. Feel like I'd be backing him into a corner when what I want to do I give him a nice shower and make him a sandwich... I'm a mess lol so not like me!
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I've only seen "possessive" once. Learned my lesson and don't mention males anymore.
I'm not good at this stuff. The whole making the first move/being directly direct might lose me a friend. Idk...



Yeah but you can't hold back on them. If y'all are going to be friends, he'll figure it out and then you might lose him anyway because he will be mad.



Yeah.. That's my dilemma. Feel like I'd be backing him into a corner when what I want to do I give him a nice shower and make him a sandwich... I'm a mess lol so not like me!
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Well fwiw, mine never gets mad for saying the truth. Well, he gets mad if he doesn't like it sometimes, but he gets over it. Lol.
But it drives him absolutely crazy when I hold back or put on my "tough girl" act. I get in trouble, haha.
Especially since yours says all he wants is honesty, and you seem pretty close.
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I've only seen "possessive" once. Learned my lesson and don't mention males anymore.
I'm not good at this stuff. The whole making the first move/being directly direct might lose me a friend. Idk...



Yeah but you can't hold back on them. If y'all are going to be friends, he'll figure it out and then you might lose him anyway because he will be mad.



Yeah.. That's my dilemma. Feel like I'd be backing him into a corner when what I want to do I give him a nice shower and make him a sandwich... I'm a mess lol so not like me!


Well fwiw, mine never gets mad for saying the truth. Well, he gets mad if he doesn't like it sometimes, but he gets over it. Lol.
But it drives him absolutely crazy when I hold back or put on my "tough girl" act. I get in trouble, haha.
Especially since yours says all he wants is honesty, and you seem pretty close.
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Yeah.. He doesn't like my "walls" I put up. But doesn't get mad when I'm blunt, even if he doesn't like it.
I wouldn't even know the right timing to be "blunt" like I obviously need to be...
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Your post says that ???you slept with him?? the first time so I am assuming you initiated the session (correct me if I am wrong).
Scorpio are reflective, they read people, pick up vibes easily and the immature/un-principled ones also use people without qualms .Your behavior /conversation led him to believe that you were looking for a good time. And that is just what he is having with you.
You never mentioned/hinted ???long term?? so he din??t think about it either.
???No you??re not cheap and easy?? was what you wanted to hear. He sensed it , said it and got a pliable and super willing ???fooling around?? buddy.
When Scorpio??s want you for more, they say it/show it.
Some of the indications are wanting to know where you are all the time, jealousy ,possessiveness ,wanting to spend all their free time with you, putting you on a pedestal ,taking care of you, being super sweet to you and being around you even if you wrong them/hurt them.
They also check for ???stay ability?? in subtle ways if they are thinking ???relationship??.
He will avoid talking about ???what he wants?? or give cryptic answers and enjoy the ???arrangement?? as long as he can, will try not to make it messy and shall remain emotionally detached (though you might feel he is invested due to his physical intensity at times).
If you still want to know ???what he wants??, ask him directly and don??t let him end the conversation/walk away from it till you have an answer.
You will have to put your foot down, be super strong and demanding to accomplish this.
Do it only if you are prepared to hear the truth and take it in your stride.
Good luck.
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How old are you guys?
Just curious.....
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This is exactly what I said ^^ you'll know with a scorpio or any man given...if a man wants u he'll persistently pursue the woman of his desire. If you're on here asking if a man is interested in u for long term, chances are he's not. Men aren't that difficult to figure out, they are hunters & we are the hunted. If we become too needy this turns off a man's primal instincts.
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Posted by Scorpvenus
How old are you guys?
Just curious.....


Defiantly old enough to be beyond this crap! Which is another reason I'm confused.. neither of us are 'ourselves' Lol he's 41, I'm 38
Your other post (and what everyone else is saying) is defiantly food for thought. I've never had a relationship, friend or otherwise, like this. I'm usually cut and dry, no grey, no middle. All in or nothing. But this has me nuts with the open open open, then hit a wall... On both of our sides.
The logical thing is obvious.. I should walk away. But, something is stopping me. Idk....
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My question to you at this point in time is,what is it that you want from him?
Do you know this with clarity?
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My question to you at this point in time is,what is it that you want from him?
Do you know this with clarity?


Good question. I guess I don't really want anything except the situation to be defined. What else is there? Sure I enjoy our friendship but don't expect or want anything from him even in that.
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While I fully support encouraging someone and supporting them, I certainly don't want to be an ego boost...

I have asked... He changes the subject or gives cryptic answers Sad


How exactly have you asked him? The example you gave above....un huh.



The example above? No lol that was a multi hour conversation that I cut down to cliff notes.
I'll say "what do you want from me?" And he'll say "honesty" ... Totally doesnt answer.


Haha, okay. Again, this is not the same as "I like you. A lot. I want to pursue something with you. Do you want to pursue something with me?" Or something like what the crazy Rabbit's wife said. Cheers to her btw. I like people that are direct. Good luck chicka!



Heeeyyy....hold up.
Crazy????
I'm just mildly challenged in the sanity department.
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I apologize. After I posted it I thought "ah sh*t that probably came off the wrong way", but I had to run so I couldn't add an additional post to clarify. I didn't mean crazy in terms of sanity. More like wacky, fun, off the wall. I appreciate your sense of humour and the avi.
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My question to you at this point in time is,what is it that you want from him?
Do you know this with clarity?


Good question. I guess I don't really want anything except the situation to be defined. What else is there? Sure I enjoy our friendship but don't expect or want anything from him even in that.
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Why do you need to define a relationship if you don't want anything from the man? This makes no sense....I don't think you should step to your Scorp with that. It will only piss him off.
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He wants to eff you. Mind fucking you first is like appetizer.


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All good and valid points. Not sure if it matters but early on I made it clear I would never be strapped down in a relationship (that even includes just dating someone) again. I spent 20 years with one person and have no plans on doing that again. Had no plans on 'pining' over him either. Is it possible he's just respecting a clear line I've drawn? Or maybe he sees a 'no strings attached' sign around the sex aisle. I'm not completely naive, I'm aware most things in this world come down to sex one way or another. Sex and money. I don't agree with it, just being realistic.
As far as wanting this defined.... I just like everything that way. Makes it easier. No questions, miscommunication, mistakes, or things taken the wrong way. I'd know what's what up front and treat it as such.
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I was not trying to be patronizing or mean with my above post, btw. I honestly meant it as advice. You said you are a Virgo, and I find that we as Virgos usually have relationship issues stemming from the above reasons.
If this does not apply to you however, then please accept my apologies as I try and gracefully exit.


You might be right. And no need to exit. I like the way you put that. I actually laughed. I don't get emotional or clingy or whatever. Never verbalize my feelings except when I tell my kids how much I love them or if I'm telling someone to F off. This is all very new to me, I admit. So, as much as it pains me to say.. I'm lost.
You all are helping though.. Truly. Making me see things from other angles which is what I need. smile
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Seems I'm screwing this up from every direction.. Lmao. I'm such an ass
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Posted by scorchedearth
if you don't ever want to be in a relationship again why are you worrying about it so much? if you're fine just banging him sometimes and being his friend the rest of the time then just do it. you're over complicating things given what you said your boundaries are.
do you always over think this way?



I do like to think things through. But this is the first time I can't reach a conclusion.
The comments I made about not wanting a relationship ever again were made a long time ago. Part of all of this is that I might be changing my mind.... Idk...
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Haha, okay. Again, this is not the same as "I like you. A lot. I want to pursue something with you. Do you want to pursue something with me?" Or something like what the crazy Rabbit's wife said. Cheers to her btw. I like people that are direct. Good luck chicka!


Heeeyyy....hold up.
Crazy????
I'm just mildly challenged in the sanity department.


I apologize. After I posted it I thought "ah sh*t that probably came off the wrong way", but I had to run so I couldn't add an additional post to clarify. I didn't mean crazy in terms of sanity. More like wacky, fun, off the wall. I appreciate your sense of humour and the avi.


Okay...cuz I was about to pour brake fluid on your car


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Posted by MellyMel909
Lol, I maaaaaay have been projecting a bit...
OP I will stop derailing your thread.


Lol.. It's all good.
I got the opinions I needed and know what I have to do.
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Lol, I maaaaaay have been projecting a bit...
OP I will stop derailing your thread.


Lol.. It's all good.
I got the opinions I needed and know what I have to do.
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Yes you do, don't ya? Keep us posted...
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Lol, I maaaaaay have been projecting a bit...
OP I will stop derailing your thread.


Lol.. It's all good.
I got the opinions I needed and know what I have to do.



Yeah...make him a sandwich. With bacon and ranch.
Wait.... Now I'm projecting LOL
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No sandwiches.. Sandwichs lead to wanting to clean his house, clean him, and tucking him in... Among other things.. Lol
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Lol, I maaaaaay have been projecting a bit...
OP I will stop derailing your thread.


Lol.. It's all good.
I got the opinions I needed and know what I have to do.



Yeah...make him a sandwich. With bacon and ranch.
Wait.... Now I'm projecting LOL


No sandwiches.. Sandwichs lead to wanting to clean his house, clean him, and tucking him in... Among other things.. Lol



Well....if you're a Virgo that makes sense lol.
Although as a scorp the man should know his way around a kitchen and can make his own damn sammich
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Yup, he enjoys cooking. Maybe he should make me a damn sandwich lol
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Good question. I guess I don't really want anything except the situation to be defined. .


Why do you need to define a relationship if you don't want anything from the man? This makes no sense
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Yeah...make him a sandwich. With bacon and ranch.
Wait.... Now I'm projecting LOL


I read somewhere NEVER COOK for a scorpio man, unless you want your pants to end up around your ankles, HA! That was MY BAD lol!
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Yeah...make him a sandwich. With bacon and ranch.
Wait.... Now I'm projecting LOL


I read somewhere NEVER COOK for a scorpio man, unless you want your pants to end up around your ankles, HA! That was MY BAD lol!
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Wait- what?
You mean I'm not supposed to want that?
Oh, for shame!
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Yeah...make him a sandwich. With bacon and ranch.
Wait.... Now I'm projecting LOL


I read somewhere NEVER COOK for a scorpio man, unless you want your pants to end up around your ankles, HA! That was MY BAD lol!
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Never cooked for a Scorpio.. But I did let one wash my hair and that probably wasn't one of my wisest decisions... I didn't do anything with him but it turned him in to a stalker.. Lesson learned
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You said you don??t want a relationship/anything serious .Scorpio??s have a sharp memory, so long time ago doesn??t matter. There after he made you his fooling around buddy which you equally enjoy being.
Now that you have spent time with him, you want more from him.
You want him to now adapt to what you want and give you ???relationshipy??(yes that word was invented for this post??_) stuff.
The above is your current situation so don??t say ???idk?? again??_.know it smile.
You might not admit even to yourself that it is your current situation,but it is.
You would not have bothered creating a thread seeking answers otherwise.
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Part 2-The way he sees it
To him you are someone who is to ???enjoyed?? for the short term without emotional investment because that is what you originally told him you wanted.
If you were to tell him you want more
He knows you well by now (yes scorps can read another like an open book, your guard up doesn??t matter) and also knows that you are casual, light-hearted and unsure about emotional investment towards anyone in the long term.
Hence, even if you tell him you want ???more?? he will find it hard to believe you actually want it.
For a scorp,giving more =investing emotions.
He will not put himself out there and be vulnerable to getting hurt by investing emotions in a person who is not 100% sure that she wants a long term relationship.
Period.






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