Posted by cancerwithfire
How does a scorpio woman act that can't have what she wants. I know of scorpio that gets away with any and everything. She has a history of being able to gain her ex lovers interest again after doing them wrong. I'm a different type of cancer and have always seen through her bs. How would she act if I told her she cannot have me no matter what she says? Can scorpio woman hand rejection from a blunt cancer that she claims to love?
Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
...or maybe that smell is just bananaonionjuice.
Posted by Impulsv
How do u know her history who's she's done wrong n returned
Posted by cancerwithfire
Because I have dated her and did all kinds of things with her while she was with an ex for years. The ex knows about her wrong doing but she tells him lies to draw him back in. Knowing their history I know she dealing with him for the wrong reasons and using him for financial reasons. She tells me how much she loves and tried justifying things that she does. I also know she hides things and have seen things with my own eyes that she denies or avoids admitting to. I know pretty much everything about her
Posted by LetltBPosted by cancerwithfire
How does a scorpio woman act that can't have what she wants. I know of scorpio that gets away with any and everything. She has a history of being able to gain her ex lovers interest again after doing them wrong. I'm a different type of cancer and have always seen through her bs. How would she act if I told her she cannot have me no matter what she says? Can scorpio woman hand rejection from a blunt cancer that she claims to love?
Well, first of all the Scorpio female you describe here who goes after her exes, sounds like a creepy little grey lizard. Most Scorps never go back to an ex..when it's over it's over.
However to answer your question, if you are up for games...go for it. Sounds like she enjoys that kind of shit....and yes, confident, secure and independent Scorpio's females handle rejection quite well and will respect your wishes. Some others...not so much, and may fall into the category of the Scorp female you are talking about. Have fun with that...click to expand
Posted by LetltBPosted by cancerwithfire
Because I have dated her and did all kinds of things with her while she was with an ex for years. The ex knows about her wrong doing but she tells him lies to draw him back in. Knowing their history I know she dealing with him for the wrong reasons and using him for financial reasons. She tells me how much she loves and tried justifying things that she does. I also know she hides things and have seen things with my own eyes that she denies or avoids admitting to. I know pretty much everything about her
She's a "user"...and you know that, so I guess I don't understand why you are worried about rejecting her when she shows up at your door? Should be pretty damn easy knowing she's a loser. Right?click to expand
Posted by Impulsv
Did she tell u he impregnated purposely. That is laughable woman decides to get pregnant. There is the pill u know. She is in the family know through kid got what she accomplished in a sense
So now turning to u?
Posted by cancerwithfire
I want to know how she will react.
Posted by Impulsv
Again she wanted to. Someone who doesn't want kids makes sure she's on protection. But yeah he is weak. But ok ur going to tell her u don't want anything are u still going to duck her. Cuz she'll make things horrible if she feels scorned. This triage has been any years can u get out?
Posted by Impulsv
If she is so bad why are keeping company with her. Don't u think u deserve better. Ur a professional man n ur shit together. Seems like she got a hold on u but want to tell urself n her that she doesn't. But the fact u stay she knows what's up.
Posted by LetltBPosted by cancerwithfire
I want to know how she will react.
In this order...assuming she's a grey lizard Scorp and very immature:
She's going to act like it does not bother her (key word "act")...she will initially ice you out completely. DO NOT..I REPEAT..DO NOT reach out to her at all. This is going to drive that immaturity insane.
Next, she's going to either text, call or show up. My guess is a nasty text/words..IGNORE COMPLETELY. If she calls...DON'T ANSWER. If she shows up DON'T ANSWER THE DOOR. (you sure you can handle this?)
Next, she's going to send a softer text, you know..in that language she knows you respond to. IGNORE COMPLETELY. She's testing you, and then she'll let you have it if you cave. So don't.
This may go on for some time..but then she'll attempt to ice you out again. (it's a test..)..DO NOTHING.
Unless and until she admits to you what she has done is wrong (called acknowledgement) and apologizes for it and says she is going to make changes, you DO NOTHING. Do not accept anything less than that. Then you have to remain strong and tell her actions need to be backed up by those words and nothing less. She either will...or she will not. Either way all of the above will give you the closure you need to know where you stand with her. I mean it though, if you cave even just a little bit..you will be right back where you are now. Think you can handle it?click to expand
Posted by earthyscorpioPosted by Impulsv
If she is so bad why are keeping company with her. Don't u think u deserve better. Ur a professional man n ur shit together. Seems like she got a hold on u but want to tell urself n her that she doesn't. But the fact u stay she knows what's up.
Was about to ask...if the OP sees through her bs why didn't he keep his distance from the bs.click to expand
Posted by cancerwithfirePosted by earthyscorpioPosted by Impulsv
If she is so bad why are keeping company with her. Don't u think u deserve better. Ur a professional man n ur shit together. Seems like she got a hold on u but want to tell urself n her that she doesn't. But the fact u stay she knows what's up.
Was about to ask...if the OP sees through her bs why didn't he keep his distance from the bs.
Because he is weakminded and believes any fabricated story that she tells him. I've watched from the outside and seen her be able to manipulate him and another cancer guy before. They both believed her lies and then ended up heartbroken after she leaves them hanging to dry and comes back to me.click to expand
Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
the ego in this thread.
oh my.
smh.
Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
Fuck off. just because my opinion is different than yours doesn't mean I'm derailing.
Stay in your lane.
This guy sounds like a real winner. I'm not going to sit here and encourage him to continue playing games with her.
Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
if she is as bad as you are portraying her...what does that say about your character and the fact you want to entertain any of this?
quite honestly, someone who behaves in the manner that you are......wouldn't get the time of day from me if I wore two watches.
Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
are you kidding me?
I'm pissed off?
LOL
....and you keep passing out your "scorpio juice" and "tipping" others off.
hilarious!
this man is a very bitter man. I'm surprised your third eye hasn't picked that up.
the ONLY thing he wants to do is hurt her. that's it.
are you really advocating that?
Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
Fuck off. just because my opinion is different than yours doesn't mean I'm derailing.
Stay in your lane.
This guy sounds like a real winner. I'm not going to sit here and encourage him to continue playing games with her.
I believe he is the another user called bannanaonionjuice....the cancer stuck on his ex scorpio.
Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
are you kidding me?
I'm pissed off?
LOL
....and you keep passing out your "scorpio juice" and "tipping" others off.
hilarious!
this man is a very bitter man. I'm surprised your third eye hasn't picked that up.
the ONLY thing he wants to do is hurt her. that's it.
are you really advocating that?
Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
I wish you'd practice ignoring.
*tosses pixie dust and makes a wish*
Posted by LetltB
I'd like to point out that if she responds as earthyscorpio mentions due to ego, and says "your loss" you got your answer, she wasn't yours to begin with and you've saved yourself much wasted time & energy.
If she really loves you, she will put the ego on a shelf. Anything short of that, cut your losses, find a woman who doesn't need two men to complete her.
Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
good luck with the PM!
Posted by LetltBPosted by TwirlingStrawberry
good luck with the PM!
thank you!click to expand
Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
I'm negative? You are the one trying to humiliate this woman.
I have a feeling she is with someone new and you can't move on.
You feel rejected and are looking at ways to make her feel the same hurt that you feel.
You are seriously wasting your time.
Just.Let.Her.Go.
Posted by LetltBPosted by TwirlingStrawberry
I'm negative? You are the one trying to humiliate this woman.
I have a feeling she is with someone new and you can't move on.
You feel rejected and are looking at ways to make her feel the same hurt that you feel.
You are seriously wasting your time.
Just.Let.Her.Go.
Funny, post after post by cancerwithfire, and I do not see one thread where he is humiliating the scorpio. However if everyone else can read what I am, all the posts pretty much in black and white explain how this scorpio is humiliating and being very selfish toward the poster.
go figure...
(not to mention, I already told him to LET.HER.GO).
Again...go figure...
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Posted by Whatu
You sound like you are trying to get one up on her...seriously If a scorpio came on her talking the way you are we would give them shit for being a vindictive stinger.
Posted by WhatuPosted by TwirlingStrawberry
I'm negative? You are the one trying to humiliate this woman.
I have a feeling she is with someone new and you can't move on.
You feel rejected and are looking at ways to make her feel the same hurt that you feel.
You are seriously wasting your time.
Just.Let.Her.Go.
I feel it aswell, He's not spelling it out to us but the way he has written a few things here....OP sounds hurt and he wants revenge rather than being an adult and walking away.
Posted by cancerwithfire
Because I have dated her and did all kinds of things with her...
Posted by cancerwithfire
She deserves to feel that way.
Posted by cancerwithfire
I want to know how she will react.
Posted by cancerwithfire
I'm not worried about rejecting her but want to know how she will handle it. I want her to see that she cannot have me, because she has never been rejected by anyone before and needs to learn that she can't have her cake and eat it to.click to expand
Posted by cancerwithfire
She asked me be her boyfriend a few months ago and I denied her. We continued to have sex and such but I never budged.
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by cancerwithfire
She asked me be her boyfriend a few months ago and I denied her. We continued to have sex and such but I never budged.
I thought you already denied her request to be in a relationship with you, so I'm confused by what you're trying to present here.
I??m also confused as to why she needs to apologize to you since you were a willing participant always ???one step ahead??. So you knew the game and played along, so what is she apologizing for exactly? If anything, she should be apologizing to the ???weak minded?? Crab you are describing. She??s taking him for a ride, had his baby while sleeping with you and is still lying to him, no? After all you are aware of all of this, so she can??t be deceiving you now can she if you know ???everything about her?? and are "always one step ahead?? of her. How exactly did you find out about the information she shared with her girlfriends and the messages he disclosed to her?
Here you are, a hardworking man, educated, on the right track in your career and she leaves you multiple times to sleep with and have a child with a weak minded, immature Crab that can't satisfy her sexually, that gets his money handed to him. Hmph. Yeah, I guess she does "deserves to feel that way?? (which is what way exactly?) Rejected? Okay.click to expand
Posted by LetltB
There is a lot more to this that hasn't been shared here, & you will remain confused...
Regardless, I stand by what he needs to do. First and foremost.....step away and let her figure things out. He has every right to reject her for his own self respect, stop allowing her to see him as a doormat, and she needs to start respecting that and herself as well. Until that happens, it will be a vicious circle. It's a really good thing to be a step ahead of ANYONE who chooses to be deceitful. Don't you think?
Posted by PhoenixRising You hit it on the head when you asked him if he loved her I think, but he wanted to make this about teaching her some sort of lesson for revenge vs trying to show her how he deserves to be treated so they can actually build something real if that is what he really wants. It's a game some Crabs and Scorps play. Don't you think?
As for my confusion, as a poster that has mastered sarcasm, I would think you could pick up on mine, No confusion here. I saw this for what it was from the OP and his replies. You are very good at zeroing in on people masking the truth, as am I.
Posted by LetltB
Very weird..Not once did I see him use the words revenge. Or trying to "one up her". The "lesson" you speak of and needs to be openly displayed here, FOR HIM is telling her, SHIT OR GET OFF THE POT WOMAN.
Posted by LetltB
...he's moving in the right direction to stop the nonsense and disrespect she is clearly displaying. He's not playing her undecisive game any more and wants the bullshit to stop. He's gone through great lengths to tell her what he wants and how deeply he feels for her. It has done nothing. If he cuts her off completely the message is if you can't make up your mind, I'M DONE. Is that a game? Or is it self respect?
I mean really how many posts here have we read from a female that asks "IS THIS A FWB".."IS HE A PLAYER"? First thing out of everyone's mouth is KICK HIM TO THE CURB. The responses this guy is getting is nothing short of double standard b.s...click to expand
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