What happens when Aries W breaks up wtih Scorpio M
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Aries on Friday, December 21, 2007 and has 49 replies.
He's very stubborn. I am the center of his attention - UNDYING attention when we are intimate. He is so sensual and sweet. Sex can go for an hour and he will do just about anything to please me.
But one sex is over, and I ask him to stay in bed with me for just a few more minutes he will just say "NO! I have to go. I have things to do!"
No amount of requsts will move him. He is immovable!! So after that happend a few times, frankly I felt dirty - like he enjoyed the intimacy with me and when he was done he was DONE until next time.
I broke up with him about an hour and half ago. Since then he has called about 5 times apologizings. I had told him before not to walk away from me. He's very calm and I am now calm. But he said he will call me tomorrow. Even though I have said to him that we are breaking up....
So, my question is what am I to expect now?
But one sex is over, and I ask him to stay in bed with me for just a few more minutes he will just say "NO! I have to go. I have things to do!"
No amount of requsts will move him. He is immovable!! So after that happend a few times, frankly I felt dirty - like he enjoyed the intimacy with me and when he was done he was DONE until next time.
I broke up with him about an hour and half ago. Since then he has called about 5 times apologizings. I had told him before not to walk away from me. He's very calm and I am now calm. But he said he will call me tomorrow. Even though I have said to him that we are breaking up....
So, my question is what am I to expect now?
He's a man what do you expect? Pants off pants on, that's how it goes.
I need to correct my statement. Pants off, BAM BAM, pants on
You look like Tila Tequila, virgo.
Expect the unexpected. Depending on how mature he is. He'll probably chase you down or make concessions if he finds you to be worth it.
Yea but she looks good
Because you know that you can't be safe in an alley with me anymore.
Look in your backyard. Bet he's there...right now. If you want to be considerate and accommodate his stalking, you could set a lawn chair out there with a cooler of beer.
And they certainly aren't worthy of Scorpio power are they? We rock
Thank you for that courteous correction. I understand the whole thing now.
They hat rejection like most men or people for that matter. He will begin to chase you. This would be the time to give him an ultimatum. Let him know if he can't spend the night or stay after sex, then no go. Simple. But I am a scorp myself, so this would be easy for me to do.
They hate rejection... Sorry typos are flowing...
"So, my question is what am I to expect now?"
Him to show up with a chain saw.
Him to show up with a chain saw.
Lantic, you fight with anything that moves. Wanna go for coffee?
"all mouth no trousers."
More like his mouth near someone else's trousers LOL!
More like his mouth near someone else's trousers LOL!
That was really well put. I think that takes some effort but you're right there, Fucker.
Yea okay you just said that, Dr. Phil.
In response to the original post, they live happily ever after
LOL @ Roxi..
Howdy all....hope all is good with you...
Merry Xmas and a Happy new year and all that malarky!!!
Howdy all....hope all is good with you...
Merry Xmas and a Happy new year and all that malarky!!!
::Raised eyebrow at EG::
Mmmmmwah babe!
Happy holidays or whatever makes you happy
Mmmmmwah babe!
Happy holidays or whatever makes you happy
Don't be such a liberal. Happy holidays are whatever makes the Catholics happy.
I get on well with Aries people...but they don't call them "Scary Aries" for nothing.
theres nothing scary about them..they are pussycats...meeeow...come kitty...
Aries annoy me.
FuckinA, I was saying that I was agreeing with you. I don't have an ex Aries man. Think!
But if you want to speak in technics then your comment was technically for everyone with internet access.
LET GO!!!!!!
Moooooooove on.......
Moooooooove on.......
"Yeah, shame it's not regulated. Does your mom and dad know you're online at this time of night?"
Does your boyfriend know you like Italians?
Does your boyfriend know you like Italians?
Oh it's on now!
OMG!!! It is about to be a showdown!
HAHA!
If you want him to change you have to show him how to change, if he cares he will make an effort for a short time but eventually you have to get used to what he is all about. You cant change anyone only yourself. Dont play around with peoples feelings how would you feel if someone was doing it to you? Think about that first.
Treat people the way you want to be treated. If you play with his heart then you are not worth the effort. If you are stright up honest with him then you are worth the effort. Relationships are not about games. They are about 2 people trying to join lives with one another. If you cant handle his after sex habbits then go elsewhere he is not the one for you. Scorps are all about passions and sexual emotion they are not like that all the time. If a person was that passionate all the time they would make people sick..(no effence scorpios just trying to make a point). That why they are so passionate during love making cause they are untrusting of everyone. But if he is making love to you it means something to him. If you want a cuddle bear guy who you have to baby 24-7 then date a cancer male.
As for your scopio stop plsying games with him. He does not deserve that shit. No one does..
If he not for you leave him alone let him heel himself. Dont F% $ #ing drag him along. If you do drag him along your a bigger piece of shit then his getting dressed will ever be.
If you want him get used to it. Its not a big deal if he is busy. Think of it this way. He is taking time out of his busy schedual to please your ass and spend time with you. That says something..
If he only comes around to get a peice then thats your fault for giving it to him..
Dont be so selfish. Think about him too.
Treat people the way you want to be treated. If you play with his heart then you are not worth the effort. If you are stright up honest with him then you are worth the effort. Relationships are not about games. They are about 2 people trying to join lives with one another. If you cant handle his after sex habbits then go elsewhere he is not the one for you. Scorps are all about passions and sexual emotion they are not like that all the time. If a person was that passionate all the time they would make people sick..(no effence scorpios just trying to make a point). That why they are so passionate during love making cause they are untrusting of everyone. But if he is making love to you it means something to him. If you want a cuddle bear guy who you have to baby 24-7 then date a cancer male.
As for your scopio stop plsying games with him. He does not deserve that shit. No one does..
If he not for you leave him alone let him heel himself. Dont F% $ #ing drag him along. If you do drag him along your a bigger piece of shit then his getting dressed will ever be.
If you want him get used to it. Its not a big deal if he is busy. Think of it this way. He is taking time out of his busy schedual to please your ass and spend time with you. That says something..
If he only comes around to get a peice then thats your fault for giving it to him..
Dont be so selfish. Think about him too.
If you want more than sex. Tell him and don't accept anything less. Simple.
IMHO, most guys are mainly into women for the sex *but* (and please, no flames!) it means a whole heck of a lot more to them than "just sex." It's emotions, all the stuff they'd like to say to you, but can't, the tensions of the week, their vulnerability etc. etc.
Personally, Aries gal, (and one of my best friends is an Aries gal) I think you're being a bit too picky just because your man wants to leave after sex. It's actually cool that he doesn't hang around all day with you, smooching -- do you really want a guy like that? Like most Scorps, your guy has something going on with his life, and he wants to get out and do it. Don't screw this up by getting nitpicky.
My Aqua man actually was in tears last time we had sex -- and I have cried, too, with him. We are that fcuking hot and meaningful to each other! I don't care if we barely speak each other's language....we understand each other's pain and feelings, and that is worth the world to me! So what if all we do is fcuk? There's alot of meaning to sex -- take it from a Scorp!
Personally, Aries gal, (and one of my best friends is an Aries gal) I think you're being a bit too picky just because your man wants to leave after sex. It's actually cool that he doesn't hang around all day with you, smooching -- do you really want a guy like that? Like most Scorps, your guy has something going on with his life, and he wants to get out and do it. Don't screw this up by getting nitpicky.
My Aqua man actually was in tears last time we had sex -- and I have cried, too, with him. We are that fcuking hot and meaningful to each other! I don't care if we barely speak each other's language....we understand each other's pain and feelings, and that is worth the world to me! So what if all we do is fcuk? There's alot of meaning to sex -- take it from a Scorp!
"Like most Scorps, your guy has something going on with his life, and he wants to get out and do it. Don't screw this up by getting nitpicky."
It's cool that most scorps have something else going on with their lives, but what if we, the non-scorps do?
In reply to the original message, if he is not making you happy, you have to weigh up the pros and cons. If everything else about him is so good that you can overlook the touchy-feely thing and not worry about him playing 'huggies' with you, then fine.
If, however, being physically close to someone is important to you, then you are looking at the wrong guy.
Why should you settle for anything less?
Just my 2 cents.
It's cool that most scorps have something else going on with their lives, but what if we, the non-scorps do?
In reply to the original message, if he is not making you happy, you have to weigh up the pros and cons. If everything else about him is so good that you can overlook the touchy-feely thing and not worry about him playing 'huggies' with you, then fine.
If, however, being physically close to someone is important to you, then you are looking at the wrong guy.
Why should you settle for anything less?
Just my 2 cents.
"I don't care if we barely speak each other's language....we understand each other's pain and feelings, and that is worth the world to me! So what if all we do is fcuk? There's alot of meaning to sex -- take it from a Scorp!"
Rright Eagle girl !!!!!!!!!! you are so right..........
That's hardly a basis for a relationship and is not even half the battle but fucking is always good.
WHy do people have to use that term..its so vulgar...
Make love people..don't fuck about..LOL..
Make love people..don't fuck about..LOL..
I have learned when a Scorp guy has sex with someone, it becomes an emotional connection so different from Libra men.
There's no mention in here saying that this man shows no affection towards her, he could be very loving and gooey .. it says that he doesn't want to snuggle in bed after sex, and is ready to get something done.
It also says in another post that she is on a control trip with him, and even in here, she says demands that he's not allowed to walk away from her.
It's pretty obvious to me .. this is about power. I'd bet you a dollar that IF she had the complete control she wants .. there would be no mention of him not wanting to cuddle after sex. For, if he indeed was a person to whom showed no affection AT ALL, she would have stated that.
It also says in another post that she is on a control trip with him, and even in here, she says demands that he's not allowed to walk away from her.
It's pretty obvious to me .. this is about power. I'd bet you a dollar that IF she had the complete control she wants .. there would be no mention of him not wanting to cuddle after sex. For, if he indeed was a person to whom showed no affection AT ALL, she would have stated that.
Hidden motives? What are those?
"What happens when Aries W breaks up wtih Scorpio M"
Very simply, they each live happily ever after without each other.
Very simply, they each live happily ever after without each other.
"I'd bet you a dollar that IF she had the complete control she wants ..."
A whole dollar?! Whoa there, P, don't go crazy now...
A whole dollar?! Whoa there, P, don't go crazy now...
LOL @ SR: "Very simply, they each live happily ever after without each other."
Thats what I said...lol
Thats what I said...lol
If the guy calls her after sex and keeps coming back he's interested...Scorps don't do affection well...well I can't speak for anyone else but I certainly don't..but I do sort of understand where she's coming from.....women are slightly paranoid when it comes to that sort of thing..but as someone once said..I am not going to call you just cos I need to comfort you..I am going to call you cos I geniunely want to...Never has a truer statement been said...
I'm cheap .. alright 10 bucks, then.
Give me 20 and I'll go down on you too.
Aries has things to do! He doesn't have time to snuggle up and drink warm coco?
Posted by Aries
He's very stubborn. I am the center of his attention - UNDYING attention when we are intimate. He is so sensual and sweet. Sex can go for an hour and he will do just about anything to please me.
But one sex is over, and I ask him to stay in bed with me for just a few more minutes he will just say "NO! I have to go. I have things to do!"
No amount of requsts will move him. He is immovable!! So after that happend a few times, frankly I felt dirty - like he enjoyed the intimacy with me and when he was done he was DONE until next time.
I broke up with him about an hour and half ago. Since then he has called about 5 times apologizings. I had told him before not to walk away from me. He's very calm and I am now calm. But he said he will call me tomorrow. Even though I have said to him that we are breaking up....
So, my question is what am I to expect now?
I'm a Scorpio and I think its disrespectful.
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