What is this Scorpio guy testing me on?
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by kupochan on Friday, March 8, 2013 and has 3 replies.
We're both guys: I'm a Taurus (Aries moon, Cancer Venus/Mars), he's a Scorpio (Gemini moon, Capricorn Venus, Scorpio Mars). I've been talking to this guy for about a week and we hit it off great! He was the one who started messaging me (crazy, right?) saying how attractive I was. The feelings were mutual and it went on from there, talking to learn more things about each other. We are so different yet so similar. We even have the had the same plans of relocating to Colorado before we even talked!(we both live in Texas).
Just a few days ago he finally told me that he has immense feelings and would want to start dating and take things nice and slow, and I told him I felt the same way and I would love to get together. Well soon after that day, he just flat out disappeared.
He revealed his feelings for me and I took them well and reciprocated them back to show he's not alone and he disappears! I tried texting him the next day just telling him that I hope he was having a good day. No response. I told him late in the afternoon to text me when he could. Again, no response. It's been 4 days without contact, when we WERE talking every minute.
Is he testing me to chase after him or is he trying to find out if I would be too clingy for him? I have no idea what to do in spite of him running away from my choice! Do Scorpio men like to be chased or have their alone time? I won't try to text him again until tomorrow, but I feel like I'm playing a game doing that when I, a Taurus do not do. So lost...
Just a few days ago he finally told me that he has immense feelings and would want to start dating and take things nice and slow, and I told him I felt the same way and I would love to get together. Well soon after that day, he just flat out disappeared.
He revealed his feelings for me and I took them well and reciprocated them back to show he's not alone and he disappears! I tried texting him the next day just telling him that I hope he was having a good day. No response. I told him late in the afternoon to text me when he could. Again, no response. It's been 4 days without contact, when we WERE talking every minute.
Is he testing me to chase after him or is he trying to find out if I would be too clingy for him? I have no idea what to do in spite of him running away from my choice! Do Scorpio men like to be chased or have their alone time? I won't try to text him again until tomorrow, but I feel like I'm playing a game doing that when I, a Taurus do not do. So lost...
Posted by kupochan
We're both guys: I'm a Taurus (Aries moon, Cancer Venus/Mars), he's a Scorpio (Gemini moon, Capricorn Venus, Scorpio Mars). I've been talking to this guy for about a week and we hit it off great! He was the one who started messaging me (crazy, right?) saying how attractive I was. The feelings were mutual and it went on from there, talking to learn more things about each other. We are so different yet so similar. We even have the had the same plans of relocating to Colorado before we even talked!(we both live in Texas).
Just a few days ago he finally told me that he has immense feelings and would want to start dating and take things nice and slow, and I told him I felt the same way and I would love to get together. Well soon after that day, he just flat out disappeared.
He revealed his feelings for me and I took them well and reciprocated them back to show he's not alone and he disappears! I tried texting him the next day just telling him that I hope he was having a good day. No response. I told him late in the afternoon to text me when he could. Again, no response. It's been 4 days without contact, when we WERE talking every minute.
Is he testing me to chase after him or is he trying to find out if I would be too clingy for him? I have no idea what to do in spite of him running away from my choice! Do Scorpio men like to be chased or have their alone time? I won't try to text him again until tomorrow, but I feel like I'm playing a game doing that when I, a Taurus do not do. So lost...
It's VERY simple. Stop contact. You exhausted all efforts to reciprocate and asked him for contact. Now be patient and wait. If he contacts great, if not..you have your answer. If he DOES contact and stops again, do the same. You'll burn out chasing him, and it doesn't feel good does it? Good luck.
He's playing games, sounds like he was on the rebound from a relationship & then he got his eyes on u, since then he's probably reconciled with whomever...I've done this before myself unfortunately. Believe me theres nothing that would make a Scorpio ignore u if they're interested, we're very passionate & determined plus possessive.
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