Posted by MyStarsShineYes!! Don't you feel on top of the world when you are able to set yourself free from what you thought would otherwise imprison you literally forever? lol
I think I'm mastering mine
Letting go
💙
Posted by Armor
This is beautiful. Mine is indifference.
Posted by peachy06Peachy! haha
Obsession. I have obsessive tendencies that I can't deal with.
And perhaps, my vengeful nature ?
Posted by SilveradoHow many maliciously vile disputes does it take to get to the center of a Scorpio's insouciance?
Letting go of control is every Scorpio's goal before they die.
Posted by nikkistarYou know that's new..
I learned patience. But I still am trying to teach myself to have empathy for others.
Posted by SilvuhHonestly, I don't know if my lack of empathy is a personality trait or if it can be attributed somehow being a Scorpio one.Posted by nikkistarYou know that's new..
I learned patience. But I still am trying to teach myself to have empathy for others.
I don't hear many of us talk about empathy. I always feel this emotion in the back of my mind as something i should heed (heavily too) but sometimes in the spur of the moment...that consideration goes out the window to preserve my own wants/needs.
We def are empathic. Do we set ourselves aside as often as we should? I would say no lolclick to expand
Posted by Black-MambaI don't even think people are fazed by it anymore, at least here. Are you really bothered by it? You seem to get over quickly.
Not being a reactive Bytch
Easily annoyed
Posted by SilvuhSo true.....it's like heaven 😊Posted by MyStarsShineYes!! Don't you feel on top of the world when you are able to set yourself free from what you thought would otherwise imprison you literally forever? lol
I think I'm mastering mine
Letting go
💙
The best feeling!!click to expand
Posted by ArmorHmm that's definitely interesting. Does just sound like a character trait hahaPosted by SilvuhPosted by Armor
This is beautiful. Mine is indifference.
Oooouuu, yes. Along the lines of release and personal freedom too i would say.
Why do you feel indifference is the answer?
More importantly (as a scorp) do you think that's possible? lol
Yes, I honestly enjoy my freedom too.
I feel indifferent to everything that's out of my control, I never find myself obsessing over the little things and I don't mind closing my eyes to get my peace of mind and ignore everything sometimes. 🤷🏻♀️
I also make myself feel indifferent. IDK, I'm sure it's not healthy but when I want to get rid of a certain feeling (anger, sadness, love, etc.) I either focus so much on feeling it until it goes away (almost like listening to a song so many times you get sick of it eventually and don't want to hear anything even similar to it) or I analyze that feeling and everything that has led me to feel it, basically rationalizing that feeling until it's nothing but an understanding of myself and somehow it turns into a lesson for me, or my last and final favorite method, to question everything, "did I love that person or did I love the idea of that person? Was that even love or did I see a part of myself in someone and I wanted to prove to myself that somehow that part was worthy of love because I could love it in them?".
Wow I'm sure I sound weird explaining this, but in short, I'd say I transfer my emotions to my brain so I can rip them apart and analyze them till I no longer feel them. 😂click to expand
Posted by Phantom_Limbohaha!Posted by SilvuhDamn. This is the first time I ever needed to look up the definition of a word on this site.Posted by SilveradoHow many maliciously vile disputes does it take to get to the center of a Scorpio's insouciance?
Letting go of control is every Scorpio's goal before they die.
The world may never know. 😂
in·sou·ci·ance
/inˈso͞osēəns,inˈso͞oSHəns/
noun
casual lack of concern; indifference.click to expand
Posted by blvckphvseNah it's cool. We're all more alike than we think lol
Sorry, didn't realize this was for Scorps :/
Posted by peachy06Lol I'm giving myself until 28. If self work doesn't work by then im calling it a day LOLPosted by SilvuhI can relate, it's so hard to fight this urge. So now I just let it out, I don't even fight this anymore. I've learned to accept it.Posted by peachy06Peachy! haha
Obsession. I have obsessive tendencies that I can't deal with.
And perhaps, my vengeful nature ?
I hate how vengeful I can be. It's the worse. I am usually able to stop myself from boiling over though, but sometimes I find I do regret not giving people a CHUNK of my mind (f*ck a piece 😂)
Do you think you can ever accept the idea of "whatever's gonna be will be"click to expand
Posted by mwsxWe weren't blessed with enough earthy influence haha
Procrastination and consistency are my weak points and i can't seem to do shit about it ;(
Posted by ImpulsvHonestly who has time to wait for shit though, lol?
I got to do things now
I want things now
You’d think I’d be an Aries mars
Posted by alexscariesSure you canPosted by MyStarsShine
I think I'm mastering mine
Letting go
💙
Don't know if I can chime in as I'm not Scorpio sun, but this and vengeful feelings. I'm still upset about things that happened 20 years ago.click to expand
Posted by alexscariesThat's tough Alex...the Aries/Scorp moon i was with was bullied too. He wouldn't go and get help and chose to be stuck, sadly one of the many reasons we parted company was he blamed everyone else for his issues, most of the time, he didn't move forward.Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesSure you canPosted by MyStarsShine
I think I'm mastering mine
Letting go
💙
Don't know if I can chime in as I'm not Scorpio sun, but this and vengeful feelings. I'm still upset about things that happened 20 years ago.
Scorpio moons can be more prone to holding on than suns....it's a difficult placement. Are you still holding onto stuff from when you were a boy/teen? Vengeful feelings can be very harmful to health. My Scorp moon sister (fire sun) held so much in and was very difficult to deal with ...
💙
Yeah unfortunately I do. I didn't have a really bad childhood, I had two loving parents albeit overprotective and good friends and family, but I was bullied through most of my school years and I've no idea why I just wanted to blend in.click to expand
Posted by alexscariesThat's good you are working through it Alex. The experience has probably made you who you are now.Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesThat's tough Alex...the Aries/Scorp moon i was with was bullied too. He wouldn't go and get help and chose to be stuck, sadly one of the many reasons we parted company was he blamed everyone else for his issues, most of the time, he didn't move forward.Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesSure you canPosted by MyStarsShine
I think I'm mastering mine
Letting go
💙
Don't know if I can chime in as I'm not Scorpio sun, but this and vengeful feelings. I'm still upset about things that happened 20 years ago.
Scorpio moons can be more prone to holding on than suns....it's a difficult placement. Are you still holding onto stuff from when you were a boy/teen? Vengeful feelings can be very harmful to health. My Scorp moon sister (fire sun) held so much in and was very difficult to deal with ...
💙
Yeah unfortunately I do. I didn't have a really bad childhood, I had two loving parents albeit overprotective and good friends and family, but I was bullied through most of my school years and I've no idea why I just wanted to blend in.
I don't blame anyone. I'm trying to learn from the past and I think what would I do differently if I was who I am now then. I'm not angry that often and I find it easier to calm down.
At the time it felt like a lot was against me. I can say I got through it because some people don't. Believe it or not I'm not bitter and don't really do the victimhood mentality as it isn't who I am.click to expand
Posted by LalasReturn😳
My addiction to sex and désire.
Fucking with guys heads almost got me killed.
I'm also vengeful AF.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LalasReturn😳
My addiction to sex and désire.
Fucking with guys heads almost got me killed.
I'm also vengeful AF.
Scorp or Cancer moon Lala?
Did that weird abusive Scorp bloke leave you alone yet?click to expand
Posted by alexscariesPosted by SassyKiwi
Struggling to wake up in the morning. Idk what it freaking is but even sleeping for over 8 hours doesn't feel enough. It might be my naturally low blood pressure idk but I hate it. I wanna be those people who can't wait to bounce out of bed in the morning and like go on a run or meditate to start the day as the sun is rising ! 😠
You could be anaemic, have you been tested for it?
What I do is try to wake up at the same time every day. It does help.click to expand
Posted by LalasReturnRevenge and Scorpio moon 😈Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LalasReturn😳
My addiction to sex and désire.
Fucking with guys heads almost got me killed.
I'm also vengeful AF.
Scorp or Cancer moon Lala?
Did that weird abusive Scorp bloke leave you alone yet?
I'm a Scorpio Moon.
Nope. He hasn't.
It seems the less I entertain him, the more obsessive he gets.click to expand
Posted by SassyKiwi🧐🧐🧐
Struggling to wake up in the morning. Idk what it freaking is but even sleeping for over 8 hours doesn't feel enough. It might be my naturally low blood pressure idk but I hate it. I wanna be those people who can't wait to bounce out of bed in the morning and like go on a run or meditate to start the day as the sun is rising ! 😠
Posted by blvckphvseYou know what actually? It does!Posted by SilvuhI guess in all fairness, I have a lot of Scorp influence, so maybe kinda counts for something. hahaPosted by blvckphvseNah it's cool. We're all more alike than we think lol
Sorry, didn't realize this was for Scorps :/
I always try asking myself do i have a reason to doubt this person and what is that reason. If i can't think of one specific event, or my reasons tie into past experiences i chalk it up to being extra and try to get out of my bag lol
How do you differentiate?
How do I differentiate between what is lack of trust and what is paranoia? I have a really tough time with that actually. I often have to ask myself, do I really not trust this or am I just being paranoid. It can be really difficult for me to tell sometimes. For example.. something as simple as taking my dog to the vet. I am not the kind of person that could leave my dog over night at the vets. I am either staying the night with him or will take him home and bring him back when they re open.. Do I have any reason not to trust them? Not really.. but I don't at all. That's likely me being paranoid and overthinking "worst case scenarios".. but also it's important to me that my dog trusts me 100% , I know he would be more comfortable with me, so I make sure to be with him in uncomfortable situations.. so partly due to that and partly due to me not trusting what will happen to him and how he would be treated if I left him alone with them.click to expand
Posted by SilvuhPosted by SassyKiwi🧐🧐🧐
Struggling to wake up in the morning. Idk what it freaking is but even sleeping for over 8 hours doesn't feel enough. It might be my naturally low blood pressure idk but I hate it. I wanna be those people who can't wait to bounce out of bed in the morning and like go on a run or meditate to start the day as the sun is rising ! 😠
Adrenal fatigue maybe?click to expand
Posted by ArmorOmg.. this sounds like me lmaoooPosted by SilvuhPosted by ArmorHmm that's definitely interesting. Does just sound like a character trait hahaPosted by SilvuhPosted by Armor
This is beautiful. Mine is indifference.
Oooouuu, yes. Along the lines of release and personal freedom too i would say.
Why do you feel indifference is the answer?
More importantly (as a scorp) do you think that's possible? lol
Yes, I honestly enjoy my freedom too.
I feel indifferent to everything that's out of my control, I never find myself obsessing over the little things and I don't mind closing my eyes to get my peace of mind and ignore everything sometimes. 🤷🏻♀️
I also make myself feel indifferent. IDK, I'm sure it's not healthy but when I want to get rid of a certain feeling (anger, sadness, love, etc.) I either focus so much on feeling it until it goes away (almost like listening to a song so many times you get sick of it eventually and don't want to hear anything even similar to it) or I analyze that feeling and everything that has led me to feel it, basically rationalizing that feeling until it's nothing but an understanding of myself and somehow it turns into a lesson for me, or my last and final favorite method, to question everything, "did I love that person or did I love the idea of that person? Was that even love or did I see a part of myself in someone and I wanted to prove to myself that somehow that part was worthy of love because I could love it in them?".
Wow I'm sure I sound weird explaining this, but in short, I'd say I transfer my emotions to my brain so I can rip them apart and analyze them till I no longer feel them. 😂
but it's cool all in all. If that's how you sail no reason to rock the boat, especially if its for the sake of pleasing others. Sometimes we dgaf and thats A okay 😂
But for sure I understand convincing yourself out of love 😂 I feel like that's the holy grail for releasing yourself from emotional binds. Due could've been the nicest guy ever but dont ask me anything. Post break-up? they're all trash 😂😂😂😂
You don't even knowwwww. 😋😂
I can talk myself out of loving people pretty easily, the longest I've ever taken was a day actually. 🤐😂
I mean if it isn't good for me anymore I won't stay and waste my time. 🤷🏻♀️ Ending relationships is also waaaaay easier if I apologize and admit to my mistakes and leave them as peaceful and civilized as possible. 😂click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineHe does but pretends like it's just a temporary thing. Almost like he's sure I'll go back to him at some point.Posted by LalasReturnRevenge and Scorpio moon 😈Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LalasReturn😳
My addiction to sex and désire.
Fucking with guys heads almost got me killed.
I'm also vengeful AF.
Scorp or Cancer moon Lala?
Did that weird abusive Scorp bloke leave you alone yet?
I'm a Scorpio Moon.
Nope. He hasn't.
It seems the less I entertain him, the more obsessive he gets.
He's still at it? wow....scary 😳
Does he know you have a new bloke in your life Lala?click to expand
Posted by CitrineThunder....I think we all are...
Obsession in love... when I lock in thats it.
Control issues, always trying to control outcomes.
Possessiveness... i dare any woman to try and talk to my man in my presence, whats so weird is that I'm not insecure at all, I just don't like people coming near my stuff ( I hide it well but I will be seething inside)
But the biggest contradiction of it all, is that I don't like to be controlled in love at all. I like my freedom, don't tell me what to do, otherwise I will defy you.
Because of my Venus in Sag & Mars in Libra. So it's the biggest head fuck.
Being so dark, but also so light at times. It's literally as if I am two different people.
Posted by alexscaries💀💀💀Posted by CitrineThunder
Obsession in love... when I lock in thats it.
Control issues, always trying to control outcomes.
Possessiveness... i dare any woman to try and talk to my man in my presence, whats so weird is that I'm not insecure at all, I just don't like people coming near my stuff ( I hide it well but I will be seething inside)
But the biggest contradiction of it all, is that I don't like to be controlled in love at all. I like my freedom, don't tell me what to do, otherwise I will defy you.
Because of my Venus in Sag & Mars in Libra. So it's the biggest head fuck.
Being so dark, but also so light at times. It's literally as if I am two different people.
Sounds similar to me. I would go ballistic if say someone went through my work bag which contains nothing personal or incriminating. I'm not possessive in the classic sense more protective.click to expand