What's so fascinating about scorpio?

in particular scorpio men that women find so attracted to? i dont get it?
why would women like a dark, secretive, insecure man? Controlling, and jealousy is a very much part of my personality and I find it very embarrassing to have those traits.

why would they put up with those dissappearing acts, especially?

if i was a women i would not want to date myself. thats why im staying well clear away from women, because i no how toxic i can be..

why not go for a nice outgoing guy like a libra, sag or leo?

those outgoing signs attract many women, and deserve to, because they are positive and outgoing, which girls love.

I haven't liked all Scorpios I've met equally. Most are pretty great (I'm a Cancer) but a couple of them who hadn't matured much were horribly obnoxious to the point of being pushy/arrogant. The ones I have liked and get along well with are fun but very understated/standoffish. What's so fun about them, at least from my point of view, is how easily I manage to get them out of their tight corner and opening up. On guard and touche!! haha! And once they're not keeping a tight lid on everything they can be almost as wonky and zany as me, though they keep insisting I "ain't right" and I'm "cray cray". Yesh, yesh, I get it. ~rollseyes and mutters~ (you're the weirdos that like me so much. Ha!)

One Scorpio in particular, a very dear and close friend/soulmate, has understood a lot about me from the get go, and that's a truly wonderful feeling, to have someone you love/trust actually listen and understand.

Also, Scorpios are great because they're so dang loyal and protective, and that's a trait I share with them...along with being deeply emotional, not quick to trust and intuitive.

And they can control their emotions rather wonderfully...something I can't do so well, lacking an on/off switch for that sort of thing.

Interesting...I've never seen a self-condemning Scorpio on dxp before. Do you have a cancer moon?

For what it's worth I don't find Scorpio men that fascinating. I do feel internal warning bells go off when I'm around them. **Caution caution** Unstable unstable** danger** STAY ON HIGH ALERT**lol just kidding...maybe.

I find other earth signs fascinating. I think it's because their behavior, eyes & body language don't give away quite as much information as other sun signs. Earth signs are solid, especially Capricorns, you can't really see through them. Makes me want to sit back and observe more.

Water signs are secretive, but they always find a way, consciously or subconsciously, to let their emotions out...whether its through manipulation, passive aggressiveness, projecting, losing their shit randomly...haha maybe it's not fascination, maybe it's confusion. Although Pisces' can be truly fascinating. I would love to spend a week in the mind of Pisces, especially an artistic Pisces...but I think I could only tolerate a week.lol

Posted by Impulsv
Those Outgoing sings have negative traits as well. No one is positive/outgoing 100 percent of the time. Embrace ur shadow n make u better. That's all anyone of us can try to be the best we can.

100% agree to this. Not everyone is perfect.

Posted by wantingtoflyyy
in particular scorpio men that women find so attracted to? i dont get it?
why would women like a dark, secretive, insecure man? Controlling, and jealousy is a very much part of my personality and I find it very embarrassing to have those traits.

why would they put up with those dissappearing acts, especially?

if i was a women i would not want to date myself. thats why im staying well clear away from women, because i no how toxic i can be..

why not go for a nice outgoing guy like a libra, sag or leo?

This appears to be a *very* thinly veiled attempt @ fishing for compliments or you're being sarcastic...just sayin...I ain't mad at you though..