Which of the two, better suits you?.........

So, If you have lived both sides of the coin....Which do/did you find more appealing, more satisfying, better suiting to your personality & life style ....I have always just assumed there is only one answer....& there is, but its mine! Ive recently had the opportunity to discuss w/both male & female, married & single friends & family......Its what men sometimes refer to as a "virtuous woman"......and many women behave accordingy .....men say its what they are after aside from all the obvious that matter....chemistry, compatibility, communication etc....The virtuous woman....My bestie, my cousin & male swears on "virtue over @# $ $ &" male mind-set, he actively almost on the daily is on the pursuit for that one "special" person yet is constantly chasing the "funnn girl"......I initially thought it was just the one thing he was after until he's fallen head over heels in love with the fun ones & forgets all about his virtuous mumbojumbo!......what is it that matters most to you? To the women....Not everyone is seeking that one on one relationship...now a days with careers and full schedules the two month flings are perfectly suitable to your life style ....whic of the two better suits you? Dont forget to post your sign, sex & reason.....humor some of us!

LOL, I have no idea what you talking about.

That is funny!

When I was young, virtue was important to me because I maintained a very virtuous existence. But as you mature, you have to realize that you can't expect a magical woman to appear and be virtuous and at the same be a slut. That's delusional. But I do know that I want a woman to be faithful and loyal to me as I am to her. I don't care who she is, where she's from, or what she's done, if we're good for one another, then that's the woman for me.

I don't know if that answers the question, but that's my thoughts.

Exo....tell it like it is! I can appreciate that! Brim....Maybe it was misunderstood? Im not only referring to long/short fling type situations....Im also referring to the long term, and yes! Of course the jezibels can be more appealing but sometimes you get that succulent, virtuous woman! The eye candy that looks the jezebel part but dont play it! Ive heard this to be true & how men marry virtue not @# $ $ % ....so Im interested, in different point of views from both sexes...all signs

Is this how it works? My cousin calls me today for some girly opinion....tells me he is still seening this one very special girl.....being very patient with her while doing 3 others!...how special is she? The mentality of a man! Amazes me!

being virtuous is not for me. i never had a virtuous look about me, even when a virgin. i'm not often bothered by peoples' perceptions of me either..unless they say it to my face like it's sposed to be an insult. i'm not a bad person though. some relationships turn out to be casual and others develop into something more. horses for courses.

when i'm old i wanna look back and be exhausted by the memories. i'll be virtuous then, lol.

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Posted by RedScorpion
When I was young, virtue was important to me because I maintained a very virtuous existence. But as you mature, you have to realize that you can't expect a magical woman to appear and be virtuous and at the same be a slut. That's delusional. But I do know that I want a woman to be faithful and loyal to me as I am to her. I don't care who she is, where she's from, or what she's done, if we're good for one another, then that's the woman for me.

I don't know if that answers the question, but that's my thoughts.

Heard it described as, "do you want the bar girl that's comfortable in a classier setting or do you want the classy girl that's at home in a bar?". That's in response to the first part of your post and not the last, obviously. It's just the musings of a friend and perhaps more relatable than all the virtue stuff.

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Very well said.