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Argento
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Looking for some insight from you experienced Scorpios. I'm attracted to Astrology but I really don't know much. I do research on it I get so confused. I am a 48 year male. I am very successful. Great job, money, just finished paying off my house. I have everything a man my age would want.... except love. I've had very good relationships with awesome women but they just don't last. Every time I give my heart to someone, they just break it and leave. I just lost the woman of my dreams to someone else. She is a Capricorn. She said she loved me but decided to move on and now is living with someone else. What's wrong with me? Why does love elude me? I say this very humbly.. Women are never an issue. I get much more than I can handle. Albeit, very casual or physical relationships. However, at this point in my life, I want a committed relationship. I just want my next relationship to be my last. I can't figure out how to post my chart. This is what it says:

Sun: Scorpio; rising sun: Scorpio; Moon: Libra; Mercury; Scorpio; Venus: Capricorn; Mars; Libra; Jupiter: Libra; Saturn: Aries; Uranus; Libra; Neptune: Scorpio; Pluto: Virgo; N. Node: Aries

Does any of this info mean anything or show why I am not successful in love or relationships? I would hate to be a bachelor all my life. I am dying to love and share my life with someone. Why is it so damn hard for me? Anyway, perhaps any thoughts or ideas from you would help me understand better if there is something very wrong with me when it comes to Astrology. I love the board and it's colorful members.

Be well!
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Posted by Argento
Looking for some insight from you experienced Scorpios. I'm attracted to Astrology but I really don't know much. I do research on it I get so confused. I am a 48 year male. I am very successful. Great job, money, just finished paying off my house. I have everything a man my age would want.... except love. I've had very good relationships with awesome women but they just don't last. Every time I give my heart to someone, they just break it and leave. I just lost the woman of my dreams to someone else. She is a Capricorn. She said she loved me but decided to move on and now is living with someone else. What's wrong with me? Why does love elude me? I say this very humbly.. Women are never an issue. I get much more than I can handle. Albeit, very casual or physical relationships. However, at this point in my life, I want a committed relationship. I just want my next relationship to be my last. I can't figure out how to post my chart. This is what it says:

Sun: Scorpio; rising sun: Scorpio; Moon: Libra; Mercury; Scorpio; Venus: Capricorn; Mars; Libra; Jupiter: Libra; Saturn: Aries; Uranus; Libra; Neptune: Scorpio; Pluto: Virgo; N. Node: Aries

Does any of this info mean anything or show why I am not successful in love or relationships? I would hate to be a bachelor all my life. I am dying to love and share my life with someone. Why is it so damn hard for me? Anyway, perhaps any thoughts or ideas from you would help me understand better if there is something very wrong with me when it comes to Astrology. I love the board and it's colorful members.

Be well!
My condolences.

I am not a Scorpio, but I am something similar with you.

I am facing the same problem as you do. So I can relate.

Something tells me that you already know the answer. And are simply looking for justification of it rather than the answer itself.

Yes you know it.

And you perfectly know that the this is what the western women are. Fickle, unreliable (even at the face of total conditions when are met). You are certainly much older than I am. Therefore, my opinions may not be very helpful for you. May not be helpful at all. But since I wish you to be well, I will say what I have to say.

Avoid dating western women altogether. That is the best remedy for this situation that I have found so far. Seek east. Asian women are far more reliable than western counterparts. The feminist culture has destroyed the western women and made them traitors to the men they are supposed to get along with.

By the way, that chart of yours means nothing. And shows nothing. And no there is nothing wrong with you.
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Not ALL western women are exactly the same. I'm British. I'm not the same as an American or French woman. Entirely different attitudes, culture, outlook etc.

I'm certainly not fickle or unreliable.

Perhaps OP needs to change the pool he's been fishing in. Perhaps looking at himself first before he orders himself a 'Thai bride'.
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Posted by Argento
Looking for some insight from you experienced Scorpios. I'm attracted to Astrology but I really don't know much. I do research on it I get so confused. I am a 48 year male. I am very successful. Great job, money, just finished paying off my house. I have everything a man my age would want.... except love. I've had very good relationships with awesome women but they just don't last. Every time I give my heart to someone, they just break it and leave. I just lost the woman of my dreams to someone else. She is a Capricorn. She said she loved me but decided to move on and now is living with someone else. What's wrong with me? Why does love elude me? I say this very humbly.. Women are never an issue. I get much more than I can handle. Albeit, very casual or physical relationships. However, at this point in my life, I want a committed relationship. I just want my next relationship to be my last. I can't figure out how to post my chart. This is what it says:

Sun: Scorpio; rising sun: Scorpio; Moon: Libra; Mercury; Scorpio; Venus: Capricorn; Mars; Libra; Jupiter: Libra; Saturn: Aries; Uranus; Libra; Neptune: Scorpio; Pluto: Virgo; N. Node: Aries

Does any of this info mean anything or show why I am not successful in love or relationships? I would hate to be a bachelor all my life. I am dying to love and share my life with someone. Why is it so damn hard for me? Anyway, perhaps any thoughts or ideas from you would help me understand better if there is something very wrong with me when it comes to Astrology. I love the board and it's colorful members.

Be well!
My condolences.

I am not a Scorpio, but I am something similar with you.

I am facing the same problem as you do. So I can relate.

Something tells me that you already know the answer. And are simply looking for justification of it rather than the answer itself.

Yes you know it.

And you perfectly know that the this is what the western women are. Fickle, unreliable (even at the face of total conditions when are met). You are certainly much older than I am. Therefore, my opinions may not be very helpful for you. May not be helpful at all. But since I wish you to be well, I will say what I have to say.

Avoid dating western women altogether. That is the best remedy for this situation that I have found so far. Seek east. Asian women are far more reliable than western counterparts. The feminist culture has destroyed the western women and made them traitors to the men they are supposed to get along with.

By the way, that chart of yours means nothing. And shows nothing. And no there is nothing wrong with you.


Not ALL western women are exactly the same. I'm British. I'm not the same as an American or French woman. Entirely different attitudes, culture, outlook etc.

I'm certainly not fickle or unreliable.

Perhaps OP needs to change the pool he's been fishing in. Perhaps looking at himself first before he orders himself a 'Thai bride'.


Let's just put it this way.

I have yet to be proven wrong.

I have met enough western women. I am just too tired to put up with their shit.
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I'm sure your shit stinks equally as bad...
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Crocodile you're funny! I'm a single western woman, I'm defiantly not fickle or unreliable, I'm not a fan of the feminist culture also I love to cook. 🙂 I don't really think you can group all western women into those categories.

OP I am in the same boat as you in a way. I am 42 and looking for "my" man not a man. Dating is easy but at my age I have realized that I have loved men before but I have never truly been in love with someone. So I am choosing not to date again till I meet that man and we both know that we are each others. I don't want to waste time and I don't want to waste someone elses. The only advise I can give is the advise I have taken myself. That is, there is a reason why the other relationships haven't worked. It is easy to blame the other person and look at there faults but now is the time to look within. Figure out what inside you pulled you towards these relationships that didn't work. If there are things that you need change or things from the past that need to be faced, do it. Figure out what the pattern has been with you and what needs to change with you so it doesn't keep happening. It's time we both find true love and I believe we will! I'll keep you in my prayers. xo
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Posted by Argento
Looking for some insight from you experienced Scorpios. I'm attracted to Astrology but I really don't know much. I do research on it I get so confused. I am a 48 year male. I am very successful. Great job, money, just finished paying off my house. I have everything a man my age would want.... except love. I've had very good relationships with awesome women but they just don't last. Every time I give my heart to someone, they just break it and leave. I just lost the woman of my dreams to someone else. She is a Capricorn. She said she loved me but decided to move on and now is living with someone else. What's wrong with me? Why does love elude me? I say this very humbly.. Women are never an issue. I get much more than I can handle. Albeit, very casual or physical relationships. However, at this point in my life, I want a committed relationship. I just want my next relationship to be my last. I can't figure out how to post my chart. This is what it says:

Sun: Scorpio; rising sun: Scorpio; Moon: Libra; Mercury; Scorpio; Venus: Capricorn; Mars; Libra; Jupiter: Libra; Saturn: Aries; Uranus; Libra; Neptune: Scorpio; Pluto: Virgo; N. Node: Aries

Does any of this info mean anything or show why I am not successful in love or relationships? I would hate to be a bachelor all my life. I am dying to love and share my life with someone. Why is it so damn hard for me? Anyway, perhaps any thoughts or ideas from you would help me understand better if there is something very wrong with me when it comes to Astrology. I love the board and it's colorful members.

Be well!




Love and relationships is overrated...Aint sheete wrong with being a bachelor...smfh@all that Libra

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AgentP911
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Posted by Argento
Looking for some insight from you experienced Scorpios. I'm attracted to Astrology but I really don't know much. I do research on it I get so confused. I am a 48 year male. I am very successful. Great job, money, just finished paying off my house. I have everything a man my age would want.... except love. I've had very good relationships with awesome women but they just don't last. Every time I give my heart to someone, they just break it and leave. I just lost the woman of my dreams to someone else. She is a Capricorn. She said she loved me but decided to move on and now is living with someone else. What's wrong with me? Why does love elude me? I say this very humbly.. Women are never an issue. I get much more than I can handle. Albeit, very casual or physical relationships. However, at this point in my life, I want a committed relationship. I just want my next relationship to be my last. I can't figure out how to post my chart. This is what it says:

Sun: Scorpio; rising sun: Scorpio; Moon: Libra; Mercury; Scorpio; Venus: Capricorn; Mars; Libra; Jupiter: Libra; Saturn: Aries; Uranus; Libra; Neptune: Scorpio; Pluto: Virgo; N. Node: Aries

Does any of this info mean anything or show why I am not successful in love or relationships? I would hate to be a bachelor all my life. I am dying to love and share my life with someone. Why is it so damn hard for me? Anyway, perhaps any thoughts or ideas from you would help me understand better if there is something very wrong with me when it comes to Astrology. I love the board and it's colorful members.

Be well!
My condolences.

I am not a Scorpio, but I am something similar with you.

I am facing the same problem as you do. So I can relate.

Something tells me that you already know the answer. And are simply looking for justification of it rather than the answer itself.

Yes you know it.

And you perfectly know that the this is what the western women are. Fickle, unreliable (even at the face of total conditions when are met). You are certainly much older than I am. Therefore, my opinions may not be very helpful for you. May not be helpful at all. But since I wish you to be well, I will say what I have to say.

Avoid dating western women altogether. That is the best remedy for this situation that I have found so far. Seek east. Asian women are far more reliable than western counterparts. The feminist culture has destroyed the western women and made them traitors to the men they are supposed to get along with.

By the way, that chart of yours means nothing. And shows nothing. And no there is nothing wrong with you.


Not ALL western women are exactly the same. I'm British. I'm not the same as an American or French woman. Entirely different attitudes, culture, outlook etc.

I'm certainly not fickle or unreliable.

Perhaps OP needs to change the pool he's been fishing in. Perhaps looking at himself first before he orders himself a 'Thai bride'.


Let's just put it this way.

I have yet to be proven wrong.

I have met enough western women. I am just too tired to put up with their shit.


I'm sure your shit stinks equally as bad...


% 50 of the marriages end up in divorce. 80% of the divorces are initiated by women. In 90% of the cases women get the custody of the kids.

Men are just a utility. Who would take such a raw deal? I wouldn't call that person a man.
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I think that if you're going to quote stats and figures then sharing your sources would help distinguish whether these figures carry any merit at all or whether you've just pulled your finger from out of your arsehole and then plucked random numbers out of the air.
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Looking for some insight from you experienced Scorpios. I'm attracted to Astrology but I really don't know much. I do research on it I get so confused. I am a 48 year male. I am very successful. Great job, money, just finished paying off my house. I have everything a man my age would want.... except love. I've had very good relationships with awesome women but they just don't last. Every time I give my heart to someone, they just break it and leave. I just lost the woman of my dreams to someone else. She is a Capricorn. She said she loved me but decided to move on and now is living with someone else. What's wrong with me? Why does love elude me? I say this very humbly.. Women are never an issue. I get much more than I can handle. Albeit, very casual or physical relationships. However, at this point in my life, I want a committed relationship. I just want my next relationship to be my last. I can't figure out how to post my chart. This is what it says:

Sun: Scorpio; rising sun: Scorpio; Moon: Libra; Mercury; Scorpio; Venus: Capricorn; Mars; Libra; Jupiter: Libra; Saturn: Aries; Uranus; Libra; Neptune: Scorpio; Pluto: Virgo; N. Node: Aries

Does any of this info mean anything or show why I am not successful in love or relationships? I would hate to be a bachelor all my life. I am dying to love and share my life with someone. Why is it so damn hard for me? Anyway, perhaps any thoughts or ideas from you would help me understand better if there is something very wrong with me when it comes to Astrology. I love the board and it's colorful members.

Be well!
My condolences.

I am not a Scorpio, but I am something similar with you.

I am facing the same problem as you do. So I can relate.

Something tells me that you already know the answer. And are simply looking for justification of it rather than the answer itself.

Yes you know it.

And you perfectly know that the this is what the western women are. Fickle, unreliable (even at the face of total conditions when are met). You are certainly much older than I am. Therefore, my opinions may not be very helpful for you. May not be helpful at all. But since I wish you to be well, I will say what I have to say.

Avoid dating western women altogether. That is the best remedy for this situation that I have found so far. Seek east. Asian women are far more reliable than western counterparts. The feminist culture has destroyed the western women and made them traitors to the men they are supposed to get along with.

By the way, that chart of yours means nothing. And shows nothing. And no there is nothing wrong with you.


Not ALL western women are exactly the same. I'm British. I'm not the same as an American or French woman. Entirely different attitudes, culture, outlook etc.

I'm certainly not fickle or unreliable.

Perhaps OP needs to change the pool he's been fishing in. Perhaps looking at himself first before he orders himself a 'Thai bride'.


Let's just put it this way.

I have yet to be proven wrong.

I have met enough western women. I am just too tired to put up with their shit.


I'm sure your shit stinks equally as bad...


% 50 of the marriages end up in divorce. 80% of the divorces are initiated by women. In 90% of the cases women get the custody of the kids.

Men are just a utility. Who would take such a raw deal? I wouldn't call that person a man.


I think that if you're going to quote stats and figures then sharing your sources would help distinguish whether these figures carry any merit at all or whether you've just pulled your finger from out of your arsehole and then plucked random numbers out of the air.


In a way I should be thanking you. At least you didn't made me very mad by asking what planet do you live on.
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Damn, I knew there was something I forgot to put!

Errrr what planet do you live on? ?

If it's how you feel or see things then it is not wrong in your life and in your head. I think the figures you quoted are a little excessive but each to their own.

Ps: all men are, of course, wankers!
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Looking for some insight from you experienced Scorpios. I'm attracted to Astrology but I really don't know much. I do research on it I get so confused. I am a 48 year male. I am very successful. Great job, money, just finished paying off my house. I have everything a man my age would want.... except love. I've had very good relationships with awesome women but they just don't last. Every time I give my heart to someone, they just break it and leave. I just lost the woman of my dreams to someone else. She is a Capricorn. She said she loved me but decided to move on and now is living with someone else. What's wrong with me? Why does love elude me? I say this very humbly.. Women are never an issue. I get much more than I can handle. Albeit, very casual or physical relationships. However, at this point in my life, I want a committed relationship. I just want my next relationship to be my last. I can't figure out how to post my chart. This is what it says:

Sun: Scorpio; rising sun: Scorpio; Moon: Libra; Mercury; Scorpio; Venus: Capricorn; Mars; Libra; Jupiter: Libra; Saturn: Aries; Uranus; Libra; Neptune: Scorpio; Pluto: Virgo; N. Node: Aries

Does any of this info mean anything or show why I am not successful in love or relationships? I would hate to be a bachelor all my life. I am dying to love and share my life with someone. Why is it so damn hard for me? Anyway, perhaps any thoughts or ideas from you would help me understand better if there is something very wrong with me when it comes to Astrology. I love the board and it's colorful members.

Be well!
My condolences.

I am not a Scorpio, but I am something similar with you.

I am facing the same problem as you do. So I can relate.

Something tells me that you already know the answer. And are simply looking for justification of it rather than the answer itself.

Yes you know it.

And you perfectly know that the this is what the western women are. Fickle, unreliable (even at the face of total conditions when are met). You are certainly much older than I am. Therefore, my opinions may not be very helpful for you. May not be helpful at all. But since I wish you to be well, I will say what I have to say.

Avoid dating western women altogether. That is the best remedy for this situation that I have found so far. Seek east. Asian women are far more reliable than western counterparts. The feminist culture has destroyed the western women and made them traitors to the men they are supposed to get along with.

By the way, that chart of yours means nothing. And shows nothing. And no there is nothing wrong with you.


Not ALL western women are exactly the same. I'm British. I'm not the same as an American or French woman. Entirely different attitudes, culture, outlook etc.

I'm certainly not fickle or unreliable.

Perhaps OP needs to change the pool he's been fishing in. Perhaps looking at himself first before he orders himself a 'Thai bride'.


Let's just put it this way.

I have yet to be proven wrong.

I have met enough western women. I am just too tired to put up with their shit.


I'm sure your shit stinks equally as bad...


% 50 of the marriages end up in divorce. 80% of the divorces are initiated by women. In 90% of the cases women get the custody of the kids.

Men are just a utility. Who would take such a raw deal? I wouldn't call that person a man.


I think that if you're going to quote stats and figures then sharing your sources would help distinguish whether these figures carry any merit at all or whether you've just pulled your finger from out of your arsehole and then plucked random numbers out of the air.


In a way I should be thanking you. At least you didn't made me very mad by asking what planet do you live on.


Damn, I knew there was something I forgot to put!

Errrr what planet do you live on? ?

If it's how you feel or see things then it is not wrong in your life and in your head. I think the figures you quoted are a little excessive but each to their own.

Ps: all men are, of course, wankers!


I am obviously going to get myself an asian women. So I do not know what the hell are you talking about when you say that there is anything wrong.

So you are aware of the figures and just trying to rile me up. Fickle and unreliable by the rule. Liar too. No wonder that you have no husband (very high probability that you don't).

By the way, this conversation is over. I have no interest in talking about men women relationships with someone who is obviously dishonest and liar. Bye.
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You are one fucked up cunt fella. I have no idea what your problem is or where your tirade came from but please don't inflict yourself on any female.

Your figures you quoted are made up by you unless you actually quote the source they are from to support them. You dumb arse.

Someone has mummy issues ?

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Cherrylips
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For some people it's harder to find love. It is what it is. If it's any consolation to you, it's the same for me. This "dying to love someone" feeling will pass. Push through! If anyone can, scorpio can.
He is 48. It will pass in his grave.

I say he better go straight to asian women. At least they love to cook food for their husbands.
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It's better to be with the right one than just anyone....48...so what— Stop putting too much importance to numbers in life.
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For some people it's harder to find love. It is what it is. If it's any consolation to you, it's the same for me. This "dying to love someone" feeling will pass. Push through! If anyone can, scorpio can.
He is 48. It will pass in his grave.

I say he better go straight to asian women. At least they love to cook food for their husbands.
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JFC
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the asian women stereotypes are funny. they are usually portrayed either as submissive or evil bitchy

with OP's bad luck in love (his words not mine lol), he will likely end up with the latter LOL. i don't think he will be crazy in love with a submissive woman anyway lol
Already feeling challenged? That is the end that is awaiting you. Once you hit 35, you will jump into abyss and say goodbye to dating world, since your shelf life will be over.

Look from the brighter side, your insanity will be intact.
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if i was to adapt your ridiculous generalizing ways, then i can tell you all asian women find men like you from ukaine misogynistic, narrow-minded, bitter, mentally challenged and undateable

and oh, i usually don't interact with idiots. that was why i didn't address to your post directly so keep it that way after this one okay lol



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Actually no Crocodile I was not fickle or unreliable to them it was more the other way around. I don’t believe in playing with people’s hearts, I’ve had mine broken and I would not want to be responsible for doing that to someone else. That is why I said I loved them but it made me realize that it wasn’t true love because I believe true love is two people feeling the same way about each other, putting each other first with love and respect in your relationship. Not one person giving more and one taking more. And yes there is always room for growth and reflection in one’s life. We all have been hurt before, whether in childhood or adult hood. Those hurts can be taken into our hearts and we can build walls to protect ourselves from being hurt again and then end up picking the wrong people because of that. Just because someone has a nice job, money and house doesn’t mean that they won’t be effected by hurt and pain and don’t need to reflect on life and areas where they can improve themselves. If you never look inward to see if there are areas that need healing then you will just keep making the same bad choices and your life will be on repeat. That my friend is what one can call stupidity.

Argento I actually think you are in a good place right now. If the women from the past have not worked it is probably for a good reason. Better you be where you are now then married to the wrong person and unhappy or worse going through a divorce like so many others. Being single is not the end of the world. I believe you will find your true love. She is out there wondering where you are too. 🙂

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Crocodile you're funny! I'm a single western woman, I'm defiantly not fickle or unreliable, I'm not a fan of the feminist culture also I love to cook. 🙂 I don't really think you can group all western women into those categories.

OP I am in the same boat as you in a way. I am 42 and looking for "my" man not a man. Dating is easy but at my age I have realized that I have loved men before but I have never truly been in love with someone. So I am choosing not to date again till I meet that man and we both know that we are each others. I don't want to waste time and I don't want to waste someone elses. The only advise I can give is the advise I have taken myself. That is, there is a reason why the other relationships haven't worked. It is easy to blame the other person and look at there faults but now is the time to look within. Figure out what inside you pulled you towards these relationships that didn't work. If there are things that you need change or things from the past that need to be faced, do it. Figure out what the pattern has been with you and what needs to change with you so it doesn't keep happening. It's time we both find true love and I believe we will! I'll keep you in my prayers. xo
I agree
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Posted by Argento
Looking for some insight from you experienced Scorpios. I'm attracted to Astrology but I really don't know much. I do research on it I get so confused. I am a 48 year male. I am very successful. Great job, money, just finished paying off my house. I have everything a man my age would want.... except love. I've had very good relationships with awesome women but they just don't last. Every time I give my heart to someone, they just break it and leave. I just lost the woman of my dreams to someone else. She is a Capricorn. She said she loved me but decided to move on and now is living with someone else. What's wrong with me? Why does love elude me? I say this very humbly.. Women are never an issue. I get much more than I can handle. Albeit, very casual or physical relationships. However, at this point in my life, I want a committed relationship. I just want my next relationship to be my last. I can't figure out how to post my chart. This is what it says:

Sun: Scorpio; rising sun: Scorpio; Moon: Libra; Mercury; Scorpio; Venus: Capricorn; Mars; Libra; Jupiter: Libra; Saturn: Aries; Uranus; Libra; Neptune: Scorpio; Pluto: Virgo; N. Node: Aries

Does any of this info mean anything or show why I am not successful in love or relationships? I would hate to be a bachelor all my life. I am dying to love and share my life with someone. Why is it so damn hard for me? Anyway, perhaps any thoughts or ideas from you would help me understand better if there is something very wrong with me when it comes to Astrology. I love the board and it's colorful members.

Be well!
Despite what some men say about women there are still some good women out there - I am one of them and somehow in the same boat as you and some others however, I have and never will give up. There are still some good men out there too. Perhaps you give of your heart too fast before you know the other and then things fall short.



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First off you're never too young or old to find love.. Now that's first ... Scorpios in general ... I've noticed it with the men tend to give to the wrong female usually an earth sign... And drains the hell out of a Scorpio ... Scorpios feel... Deeply earth signs well some not all... Are material ... Bout money and what they see on the surface ... Scorpios are way deeper than that. Love finds you when you truly love who you are And that includes the deeper aspect of yourself... Sorry but earth signs can be a bit too logical ... Not dreamy imo ... They are all about ...physical lacking that emotional gushy aspect ... Hang in there love yourself ... There is nothing wrong with you... That woman simply was not for you... And you deserve better ... Scorpios are deeper than surface level ... A Taurus can get deep but... Most stay shallow when comes to a Scorpio ... It becomes more of a task versus love... A damn chore ... Scorpio too deep for that... Way too deep
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First off you're never too young or old to find love.. Now that's first ... Scorpios in general ... I've noticed it with the men tend to give to the wrong female usually an earth sign... And drains the hell out of a Scorpio ... Scorpios feel... Deeply earth signs well some not all... Are material ... Bout money and what they see on the surface ... Scorpios are way deeper than that. Love finds you when you truly love who you are And that includes the deeper aspect of yourself... Sorry but earth signs can be a bit too logical ... Not dreamy imo ... They are all about ...physical lacking that emotional gushy aspect ... Hang in there love yourself ... There is nothing wrong with you... That woman simply was not for you... And you deserve better ... Scorpios are deeper than surface level ... A Taurus can get deep but... Most stay shallow when comes to a Scorpio ... It becomes more of a task versus love... A damn chore ... Scorpio too deep for that... Way too deep
as a fellow infj, i'm disappointed with your generalization.

i know several scorpio-cap married couples in real life who are doing good. there is nothing that can take my love away from my scorpio hubby and i'm a cap myself
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Looking for some insight from you experienced Scorpios. I'm attracted to Astrology but I really don't know much. I do research on it I get so confused. I am a 48 year male. I am very successful. Great job, money, just finished paying off my house. I have everything a man my age would want.... except love. I've had very good relationships with awesome women but they just don't last. Every time I give my heart to someone, they just break it and leave. I just lost the woman of my dreams to someone else. She is a Capricorn. She said she loved me but decided to move on and now is living with someone else. What's wrong with me? Why does love elude me? I say this very humbly.. Women are never an issue. I get much more than I can handle. Albeit, very casual or physical relationships. However, at this point in my life, I want a committed relationship. I just want my next relationship to be my last. I can't figure out how to post my chart. This is what it says:

Sun: Scorpio; rising sun: Scorpio; Moon: Libra; Mercury; Scorpio; Venus: Capricorn; Mars; Libra; Jupiter: Libra; Saturn: Aries; Uranus; Libra; Neptune: Scorpio; Pluto: Virgo; N. Node: Aries

Does any of this info mean anything or show why I am not successful in love or relationships? I would hate to be a bachelor all my life. I am dying to love and share my life with someone. Why is it so damn hard for me? Anyway, perhaps any thoughts or ideas from you would help me understand better if there is something very wrong with me when it comes to Astrology. I love the board and it's colorful members.

Be well!
My condolences.

I am not a Scorpio, but I am something similar with you.

I am facing the same problem as you do. So I can relate.

Something tells me that you already know the answer. And are simply looking for justification of it rather than the answer itself.

Yes you know it.

And you perfectly know that the this is what the western women are. Fickle, unreliable (even at the face of total conditions when are met). You are certainly much older than I am. Therefore, my opinions may not be very helpful for you. May not be helpful at all. But since I wish you to be well, I will say what I have to say.

Avoid dating western women altogether. That is the best remedy for this situation that I have found so far. Seek east. Asian women are far more reliable than western counterparts. The feminist culture has destroyed the western women and made them traitors to the men they are supposed to get along with.

By the way, that chart of yours means nothing. And shows nothing. And no there is nothing wrong with you.


Not ALL western women are exactly the same. I'm British. I'm not the same as an American or French woman. Entirely different attitudes, culture, outlook etc.

I'm certainly not fickle or unreliable.

Perhaps OP needs to change the pool he's been fishing in. Perhaps looking at himself first before he orders himself a 'Thai bride'.


Let's just put it this way.

I have yet to be proven wrong.

I have met enough western women. I am just too tired to put up with their shit.


I'm sure your shit stinks equally as bad...


% 50 of the marriages end up in divorce. 80% of the divorces are initiated by women. In 90% of the cases women get the custody of the kids.

Men are just a utility. Who would take such a raw deal? I wouldn't call that person a man.


I think that if you're going to quote stats and figures then sharing your sources would help distinguish whether these figures carry any merit at all or whether you've just pulled your finger from out of your arsehole and then plucked random numbers out of the air.


In a way I should be thanking you. At least you didn't made me very mad by asking what planet do you live on.


Damn, I knew there was something I forgot to put!

Errrr what planet do you live on? ?

If it's how you feel or see things then it is not wrong in your life and in your head. I think the figures you quoted are a little excessive but each to their own.

Ps: all men are, of course, wankers!


I am obviously going to get myself an asian women. So I do not know what the hell are you talking about when you say that there is anything wrong.

So you are aware of the figures and just trying to rile me up. Fickle and unreliable by the rule. Liar too. No wonder that you have no husband (very high probability that you don't).

By the way, this conversation is over. I have no interest in talking about men women relationships with someone who is obviously dishonest and liar. Bye.


You are one fucked up cunt fella. I have no idea what your problem is or where your tirade came from but please don't inflict yourself on any female.

Your figures you quoted are made up by you unless you actually quote the source they are from to support them. You dumb arse.

Someone has mummy issues ?


You are just showing how fickle and unreliable you are right in that post of yours. You yourself admitted that the numbers do represent "some" reality, until your forehead met the wall. Now you try to retract your consent because it obviously is working against your insane mind.

Dont you see how dumb you are?

By the way, I am very lowed by asian females. I almost married one.

And I very much love my mother.

By the way, my mother agrees that I shouldn't marry a western woman.
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So much for you saying "bye" in your previous post. I'd class that as fickle.

You are quoting me on something I never actually said. You can't quote something if that person never said it. Go back to English school.

Here is what I actually said

I think that if you're going to quote stats and figures then sharing your sources would help distinguish whether these figures carry any merit at all or whether you've just pulled your finger from out of your arsehole and then plucked random numbers out of the air.

Here's what you said that I said

You yourself admitted that the numbers do represent "some" reality, until your forehead met the wall. Now you try to retract your consent because it obviously is working against your insane mind.

Hmmmm, nope, I certainly didn't admit anything or agree there's some reality (because there is none) with your fabricated numbers. Retract my consent? What did I consent to? Your choice of words are showing your misogynistic tendencies. I note you still have yet to provide your sources. No surprise that you haven't produced them.

No, I cannot see how dumb I am. That's because I'm not dumb.
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crocodile just cracked my top 3 "fawkin idiot" on DXP..U guys have no idea how hard that is to do..but he did it..
Another raging insane woman closing to her 35 very soon?


I am not idiot


Then what are you? You call me an idiot for saying what I am saying while probably not realizing that a large portion of western men think the same way.

How can that be an idiocy?

Do you even know what you are talking about?

Of course no. You need for attention is too great for you to realize what is true and what is not.
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"your need" idiot..."your need for attention" is the proper way..who am needs nothing idiot lol proof read before pressing "post message"
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crocodile just cracked my top 3 "fawkin idiot" on DXP..U guys have no idea how hard that is to do..but he did it..
Another raging insane woman closing to her 35 very soon?


I am not idiot


Then what are you? You call me an idiot for saying what I am saying while probably not realizing that a large portion of western men think the same way.

How can that be an idiocy?

Do you even know what you are talking about?

Of course no. You need for attention is too great for you to realize what is true and what is not.


"your need" idiot..."your need for attention" is the proper way..who am needs nothing idiot lol proof read before pressing "post message"


What makes you think that I didn't. If you are going to die simply because of that one letter, maybe that is not such a bad thing.
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Hey, dont worry about it idiot..I made the same mistake, but im no idiot lol...
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For some people it's harder to find love. It is what it is. If it's any consolation to you, it's the same for me. This "dying to love someone" feeling will pass. Push through! If anyone can, scorpio can.
He is 48. It will pass in his grave.

I say he better go straight to asian women. At least they love to cook food for their husbands.
It's better to be with the right one than just anyone....48...so what— Stop putting too much importance to numbers in life.
Under normal circumstances, I would have agreed with you. I have nothing against anything you just said, except one thing.

These women can't have the "right" person. Such a person simply doesn't exist.

I can get along with most western women if I want to. But their insanity, fickleness and unreliabileness is a big deal breaker.

Well, maybe I should tone down a little bit. Maybe their right person simply doesn't exist. Maybe I am lucky that I am a man, and have an easy way out of this situation. The existence of asian women is like a godsent gift...I cannot imagine what would it be if that option didn't exist.

In a way, I somewhat feel sorry for western women. Something really fucked them seriously up.
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Western women....meaning americans? Or women in Europe too? I think it's global. And I think the social networks f***** things up....
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For some people it's harder to find love. It is what it is. If it's any consolation to you, it's the same for me. This "dying to love someone" feeling will pass. Push through! If anyone can, scorpio can.
He is 48. It will pass in his grave.

I say he better go straight to asian women. At least they love to cook food for their husbands.
It's better to be with the right one than just anyone....48...so what— Stop putting too much importance to numbers in life.
Under normal circumstances, I would have agreed with you. I have nothing against anything you just said, except one thing.

These women can't have the "right" person. Such a person simply doesn't exist.

I can get along with most western women if I want to. But their insanity, fickleness and unreliabileness is a big deal breaker.

Well, maybe I should tone down a little bit. Maybe their right person simply doesn't exist. Maybe I am lucky that I am a man, and have an easy way out of this situation. The existence of asian women is like a godsent gift...I cannot imagine what would it be if that option didn't exist.

In a way, I somewhat feel sorry for western women. Something really fucked them seriously up.
Western women....meaning americans? Or women in Europe too? I think it's global. And I think the social networks f***** things up....
It's feminism. It gives them an unrealistic image of themselves.
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No. Not feminism at all!
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Hmmm well once again you are grouping me into a group that is wrong. You don't know me and I never said that a relationship is solely based of emotions...because I don't think that. Here's a shocker for you there are women out there that think logically and don't base everything off of emotions.

Now I do agree with these two statements of yours. 1) Relationships aren't just based on emotions. Emotions are unreliable if you are going to base your entire relationship on. You are surely setting yourself to the course of destruction if you are looking for the "perfect mate". You will never find such a person. This is a delusion. 2) A real relationship is based not only on emotions, but also on companionship and cooperation. If you are a bad team player, nothing can save you in this world.

There are no “perfect” people in the world. We all have imperfections. Men can be bad team players too.
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First off you're never too young or old to find love.. Now that's first ... Scorpios in general ... I've noticed it with the men tend to give to the wrong female usually an earth sign... And drains the hell out of a Scorpio ... Scorpios feel... Deeply earth signs well some not all... Are material ... Bout money and what they see on the surface ... Scorpios are way deeper than that. Love finds you when you truly love who you are And that includes the deeper aspect of yourself... Sorry but earth signs can be a bit too logical ... Not dreamy imo ... They are all about ...physical lacking that emotional gushy aspect ... Hang in there love yourself ... There is nothing wrong with you... That woman simply was not for you... And you deserve better ... Scorpios are deeper than surface level ... A Taurus can get deep but... Most stay shallow when comes to a Scorpio ... It becomes more of a task versus love... A damn chore ... Scorpio too deep for that... Way too deep
as a fellow infj, i'm disappointed with your generalization.

i know several scorpio-cap married couples in real life who are doing good. there is nothing that can take my love away from my scorpio hubby and i'm a cap myself
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Please read my comment clearly... I said some not all... Take care ...?
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Posted by Argento
Looking for some insight from you experienced Scorpios. I'm attracted to Astrology but I really don't know much. I do research on it I get so confused. I am a 48 year male. I am very successful. Great job, money, just finished paying off my house. I have everything a man my age would want.... except love. I've had very good relationships with awesome women but they just don't last. Every time I give my heart to someone, they just break it and leave. I just lost the woman of my dreams to someone else. She is a Capricorn. She said she loved me but decided to move on and now is living with someone else. What's wrong with me? Why does love elude me? I say this very humbly.. Women are never an issue. I get much more than I can handle. Albeit, very casual or physical relationships. However, at this point in my life, I want a committed relationship. I just want my next relationship to be my last. I can't figure out how to post my chart. This is what it says:

Sun: Scorpio; rising sun: Scorpio; Moon: Libra; Mercury; Scorpio; Venus: Capricorn; Mars; Libra; Jupiter: Libra; Saturn: Aries; Uranus; Libra; Neptune: Scorpio; Pluto: Virgo; N. Node: Aries

Does any of this info mean anything or show why I am not successful in love or relationships? I would hate to be a bachelor all my life. I am dying to love and share my life with someone. Why is it so damn hard for me? Anyway, perhaps any thoughts or ideas from you would help me understand better if there is something very wrong with me when it comes to Astrology. I love the board and it's colorful members.

Be well!
My condolences.

I am not a Scorpio, but I am something similar with you.

I am facing the same problem as you do. So I can relate.

Something tells me that you already know the answer. And are simply looking for justification of it rather than the answer itself.

Yes you know it.

And you perfectly know that the this is what the western women are. Fickle, unreliable (even at the face of total conditions when are met). You are certainly much older than I am. Therefore, my opinions may not be very helpful for you. May not be helpful at all. But since I wish you to be well, I will say what I have to say.

Avoid dating western women altogether. That is the best remedy for this situation that I have found so far. Seek east. Asian women are far more reliable than western counterparts. The feminist culture has destroyed the western women and made them traitors to the men they are supposed to get along with.

By the way, that chart of yours means nothing. And shows nothing. And no there is nothing wrong with you.
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You obviously don't know Asian women as well as you think you do.

And also btw, feminist culture and ideology is well and alive in Asia, especially in Southeast Asia and South Asia.

Men who buy into the stereotype of Asian women being submissive and giving without question, are only fooling themselves.

Asian women are just as demanding, and WAY MORE aggressive than Western women. We are just better at hiding that side of us than Western women.
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Just watch how whipped the old geezers married to the young Asian women are down here

As soon as they move in. It's all female dominance haaa
The industry I used to work in, I've seen that one too many times. Even the old geezers who married women around their age group, ended up pussy whipped.

It's funny to watch all their fetish fantasies come crashing down on their heads when their new Asian wife or side piece starts yelling at them and bossing them around.
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First off you're never too young or old to find love.. Now that's first ... Scorpios in general ... I've noticed it with the men tend to give to the wrong female usually an earth sign... And drains the hell out of a Scorpio ... Scorpios feel... Deeply earth signs well some not all... Are material ... Bout money and what they see on the surface ... Scorpios are way deeper than that. Love finds you when you truly love who you are And that includes the deeper aspect of yourself... Sorry but earth signs can be a bit too logical ... Not dreamy imo ... They are all about ...physical lacking that emotional gushy aspect ... Hang in there love yourself ... There is nothing wrong with you... That woman simply was not for you... And you deserve better ... Scorpios are deeper than surface level ... A Taurus can get deep but... Most stay shallow when comes to a Scorpio ... It becomes more of a task versus love... A damn chore ... Scorpio too deep for that... Way too deep
as a fellow infj, i'm disappointed with your generalization.

i know several scorpio-cap married couples in real life who are doing good. there is nothing that can take my love away from my scorpio hubby and i'm a cap myself

Please read my comment clearly... I said some not all... Take care ...?

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it's hard not to mix "...some not all..." and "they are all about..." with no paragraphs and so many "..." lol

thx for making an effort to clarify though..... and u take care too lol ... ?
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First off you're never too young or old to find love.. Now that's first ... Scorpios in general ... I've noticed it with the men tend to give to the wrong female usually an earth sign... And drains the hell out of a Scorpio ... Scorpios feel... Deeply earth signs well some not all... Are material ... Bout money and what they see on the surface ... Scorpios are way deeper than that. Love finds you when you truly love who you are And that includes the deeper aspect of yourself... Sorry but earth signs can be a bit too logical ... Not dreamy imo ... They are all about ...physical lacking that emotional gushy aspect ... Hang in there love yourself ... There is nothing wrong with you... That woman simply was not for you... And you deserve better ... Scorpios are deeper than surface level ... A Taurus can get deep but... Most stay shallow when comes to a Scorpio ... It becomes more of a task versus love... A damn chore ... Scorpio too deep for that... Way too deep
as a fellow infj, i'm disappointed with your generalization.

i know several scorpio-cap married couples in real life who are doing good. there is nothing that can take my love away from my scorpio hubby and i'm a cap myself

Please read my comment clearly... I said some not all... Take care ...?


it's hard not to mix "...some not all..." and "they are all about..." with no paragraphs and so many "..." lol

thx for making an effort to clarify though..... and u take care too lol ... ?

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Man listen my message was absolutely clear ... Take it how ya want ... You got offended ... Again some not all hun... And you do the same.... Not up for a debate about English miss me ✌
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First off you're never too young or old to find love.. Now that's first ... Scorpios in general ... I've noticed it with the men tend to give to the wrong female usually an earth sign... And drains the hell out of a Scorpio ... Scorpios feel... Deeply earth signs well some not all... Are material ... Bout money and what they see on the surface ... Scorpios are way deeper than that. Love finds you when you truly love who you are And that includes the deeper aspect of yourself... Sorry but earth signs can be a bit too logical ... Not dreamy imo ... They are all about ...physical lacking that emotional gushy aspect ... Hang in there love yourself ... There is nothing wrong with you... That woman simply was not for you... And you deserve better ... Scorpios are deeper than surface level ... A Taurus can get deep but... Most stay shallow when comes to a Scorpio ... It becomes more of a task versus love... A damn chore ... Scorpio too deep for that... Way too deep
as a fellow infj, i'm disappointed with your generalization.

i know several scorpio-cap married couples in real life who are doing good. there is nothing that can take my love away from my scorpio hubby and i'm a cap myself

Please read my comment clearly... I said some not all... Take care ...?


it's hard not to mix "...some not all..." and "they are all about..." with no paragraphs and so many "..." lol

thx for making an effort to clarify though..... and u take care too lol ... ?



Man listen my message was absolutely clear ... Take it how ya want ... You got offended ... Again some not all hun... And you do the same.... Not up for a debate about English miss me ✌

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i'm losing interest in continuing this conversation but one last thing -

sweetie, don't hun me lol not your hun ✌️

there is only one person i can think of on dxpnet at the moment who wouldn't offend me by calling me hun - geminati for some weird reason lol
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