why do Scorpio men love pain?

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Am an aqu girl with a perplexing dilemma with a scorpio guy I've known for over 10 years
long story short: we were friends, we dated, he cheated, I left him, he begged and begged for me to come back, so I did then I left him for my first love, he said I broke his heart I reminded him that he cheated on me with more than 4 girls, so its always back and forth arguments till this day.

I believe his obsession with me was because I didnt sleep with him.. once I did (2 months ago) he distances himself. so I get close and intimate with this cancer guy who adores and smothers the hell out of me and this scorpio guy runs back to me, all emotional, sweet and attentive, confessing how much he hates seeing me with mr cancer but how he understands that I have to "do me" so I yield to him and then he becomes an inconsiderate douche

heres what I noticed:
When am sweet and caring he pulls away but when my Uranus lightning strikes and I turn into a wild cookie-monster, extremely loud, disrespectful, emotionally and physically abusive towards him over the tiniest thing in front of his friends this man seems to want me ever so badly. Whats up with that?! is pain really pleasure for these guys?
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wow.. this is interesting


so scorp men simply want what they cant have.. thanks for the insight

@DazedScorp:
I dont go out of my way to "keep any contact with him" on the contrary hes here almost 3times a week because hes close with my family and hes also a business partner of my cousin who I happen to live with. I also agree with you that any form of abuse geared towards a woman or a man is wrong, this case with this guy he seemed to enjoy it like those weird pain loving fetish ppl

@Reason:
I dont love pain believe me, or drama or any of that psycho-emotional/physical abuse stuff.. but when I'm provoked I tend to snap.
I dont hate the guy and I dont particularly love him either, but I do care for him and I hope one day he'll open up & want what he wants and go for it directly or just avoid what he doest want and save us the drama.
I've always been dating other people because of how dysfunctional our relationship is and hes well aware of that.

@PurrHiss
sorry you had to experience such abuse.

@PiscesPrincess:
Thanks for the pointers, I wont give in to him, it will be straight silent treatment "cold war style " from now on

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"no sweetie" indeed ms cookiemonster, its called sarcasm from a person with a degree in chemical engineering but its ok I wouldnt expect a person who obtains they're knowledge from "wiki" to understand.

To make matters simple heres the bottom line: since ur lack of advice and shallow opinion doesnt serve me I am gladly dismissing any further comments from u regarding this post but feel free to work your fingers on the keyboard for your own childish amusement.